Anonymous
Post 05/13/2026 12:05     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you think 1:1 iPads in K is the mark of an excellent school—one that is up on the latest educational best practices, you are so very mistaken.


Yes because paying 50k to avoid tech, which we will use for the rest of our lives, is what I want in a school. Avoiding tech is not advocated for any kids at any age and that whole trend has been started by MAHA moms or ironically enough MAGA tech bros in Silicon Valley. Good progressive education while teaching real-life tech forward skills is what our kids need.


iPads and Chromebooks are not "tech forward".
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2026 12:04     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Oh honey. People go to private so they don’t have to mix with the poors. I don’t care what they say their reasons are. They pay to continue their access to privileged society.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2026 12:01     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you think 1:1 iPads in K is the mark of an excellent school—one that is up on the latest educational best practices, you are so very mistaken.


Yes because paying 50k to avoid tech, which we will use for the rest of our lives, is what I want in a school. Avoiding tech is not advocated for any kids at any age and that whole trend has been started by MAHA moms or ironically enough MAGA tech bros in Silicon Valley. Good progressive education while teaching real-life tech forward skills is what our kids need.


I really don't think 5-8 year olds should be using tech at school AT ALL. Maybe the 8 year old could begin learning to type on a Chromebook keyboard. That's about it. There is still 10 years of schooling to teach those "real-life tech forward skills."
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2026 11:45     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:If you think 1:1 iPads in K is the mark of an excellent school—one that is up on the latest educational best practices, you are so very mistaken.


Yes because paying 50k to avoid tech, which we will use for the rest of our lives, is what I want in a school. Avoiding tech is not advocated for any kids at any age and that whole trend has been started by MAHA moms or ironically enough MAGA tech bros in Silicon Valley. Good progressive education while teaching real-life tech forward skills is what our kids need.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2026 15:02     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

If you think 1:1 iPads in K is the mark of an excellent school—one that is up on the latest educational best practices, you are so very mistaken.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2026 14:12     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What about public school is "progressive" (whether in terms of pedagogy or otherwise)?


Well, the fact that public schools are required to provide every young person with an education for free, regardless of ability, disability or parental resources might be considered part of progressive values.

Progressive "values" (whatever that means) and progressive pedagogy are completely different things.


I understand. But elite schools in DC really emphasize inclusion, DEI, social justice, and progressive values.

On academics, many emphasize good college placement, and I never heard anything about "progressive" pedagogy or whatever that means.


Yes and to us that was worth whatever we had to pay for our kids. Along with understanding how this world works. The school we choose is extremely progressive and assigns iPads for learning starting in kindergarten. Where else are you going to get incredible progressive values at an early age while teaching kids that technology is here to stay and we better learn how to use it.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 17:19     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:Nothing about a public school's educational curriculum is inherently "progressive" in values.


I think the public school promoters think that progressive means new... proving why we send our kids to private schools 🤣
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 17:13     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Nothing about a public school's educational curriculum is inherently "progressive" in values.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 17:08     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:Progressive education is hardly a new concept.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progressive_education


No one claimed it was new, they claimed it was not the public school standard.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 17:05     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Progressive education is hardly a new concept.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progressive_education
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 16:55     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What about public school is "progressive" (whether in terms of pedagogy or otherwise)?


Well, the fact that public schools are required to provide every young person with an education for free, regardless of ability, disability or parental resources might be considered part of progressive values.

Progressive "values" (whatever that means) and progressive pedagogy are completely different things.


I understand. But elite schools in DC really emphasize inclusion, DEI, social justice, and progressive values.

On academics, many emphasize good college placement, and I never heard anything about "progressive" pedagogy or whatever that means.


Yes you have, they just don't call it that. It is the focus on the whole child, exploration over memorization, deep critical thinking, and teachers acting as facilitators. It os the model the DC elite schools have overwhelmingly embraced.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 16:41     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What about public school is "progressive" (whether in terms of pedagogy or otherwise)?


Well, the fact that public schools are required to provide every young person with an education for free, regardless of ability, disability or parental resources might be considered part of progressive values.

Progressive "values" (whatever that means) and progressive pedagogy are completely different things.


I understand. But elite schools in DC really emphasize inclusion, DEI, social justice, and progressive values.

On academics, many emphasize good college placement, and I never heard anything about "progressive" pedagogy or whatever that means.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 16:21     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What about public school is "progressive" (whether in terms of pedagogy or otherwise)?


Well, the fact that public schools are required to provide every young person with an education for free, regardless of ability, disability or parental resources might be considered part of progressive values.

Progressive "values" (whatever that means) and progressive pedagogy are completely different things.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 14:23     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What about public school is "progressive" (whether in terms of pedagogy or otherwise)?


Well, the fact that public schools are required to provide every young person with an education for free, regardless of ability, disability or parental resources might be considered part of progressive values.


Exactly! You don’t need to pay 60k if you just are interested in a progressive and inclusive environment. You pay 60k for other things.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 14:22     Subject: Please Choose Private For the Right Reasons

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve seen a recent influx of posts from parents looking for a "nice private alternative" to MCPS or DCPS because they want "rigorous academics" and "small classes." As someone who has been through the cycle with multiple kids at Sidwell and GDS, I feel compelled to say: You are fundamentally doing this wrong.

If your primary goal is just a heavy workload and high AP/IB participation, stay in the public system. The top-tier tracks in MoCo and DC are just as rigorous as anything you’ll find in an independent school. In fact, if you go the private route just to "avoid" public, you often end up paying $45k+ for facilities that are—let’s be honest—frequently dated or even inferior to what a well-funded public school offers. I’ve seen some of these smaller parochial campuses in the Olney/Sandy Spring area, and I’m baffled why anyone would pay tuition for a "campus" that looks like a 1970s office park when the local public has better labs and fields.

You don't send your LOs to the crown jewels of DC private to escape public school. You send them for a values-based, progressive experiential education. You go because you want your DS to be an out-of-the-box thinker who understands social justice and pluralism at a cellular level.

What makes Sidwell special isn't the math curriculum—it’s the intentionality. It’s the school-wide Iftar dinners, the student-led seders focused on sustainability, the niche global theater productions (the recent African folk tale was breathtaking), and the Quaker values.

There’s also a deeper "values" component we rarely talk about. If a parent is fleeing public school to find a "stifling" or narrow environment—like some of the "diploma mills" up-county (GC comes to mind)—it makes me wonder if they’re actually just trying to avoid the diversity and pluralism that makes the DC area great. If you aren't seeking the beauty of a truly progressive education, you’re just paying for a smaller, more homogeneous pond.

Choose a school for its mission, not because you’re afraid of the public school "boogeyman." Otherwise, you’re just paying a premium for a mediocre outlook.


We are sending Larla and Larlo just for the social climbing.


You can get a bit better by getting closer to the elite.