He sounds like a weirdo. Does he happen to be in the Navy?

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Anonymous wrote:Here's a photo of the card he used.

That’s a fairly high end card. Thought it was going to be a DEBIT card.

I am fairly wealthy and rarely use my CC. 99% of the time I use my debit/check card.

Anonymous wrote:Here's a photo of the card he used.

That’s a fairly high end card. Thought it was going to be a DEBIT card.

The basic issue here is that it seems like OP was never clear about what the issue was. Was it that (1) she has the "ick" that her date has the flower credit card (as the subject line suggests), or (2) she doesn't like that he was defensive when she and the waitress talked about it?

(1) is insane. Bats#!t. It's 2025, get over yourself.

(2) is...maybe somewhat understandable? I would have liked him to be more secure like, "hell yeah I have the flower design! Proud of it, baby!" But even if sheepish, not worth posting to DCUM about.

Amex has 3-4 designs for the Platinum card and they let you pick one. I think it's a cool looking card and I'm a straight man.

if she didnt have a vagina , we would not care.

She (the OP) is a flaked out nutjob. If you are a wise man, you avoid this type of loon as much as possible.

Vagina not withstanding.

Anonymous wrote:Men can’t win.

if she didnt have a vagina , we would not care.

Anonymous wrote:End things with him gracefully. He sounds very nice and you sound very judgmental.

exactly

find some judgy man to cohabitate with , leave decent people alone.

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Anonymous wrote:He was probably surprised he was on a date with a LMC female who didn't know what a Platinum Card is and who has them. Was she the one asking about "cash back" lol. He realized she was a Discover Card date. 👻

It's a weird flex for a man though. Says he cannot gather wealth and must borrow it.

Tell me you aren't a Platinum Card holder without..

You pay it off in full. Each month. And get the points, lounges, etc. Cash doesn't do that.

I don't need their gimmicks. Not that poor off. Rather not be data mined and tracked and rather not be helping the big banks make more money off every transaction, and rather help the working class by not using CC's when able.

"So, what is it that you do to support the working class?"
"Well, on occasion -- when able -- I try to avoid using a credit card to pay for the various goods and services I purchase."
*snapping fingers around the room*

Yeah, he should have used a debit card. That wouldn't have set off DCUM alarm bells at all. Or maybe he should have asked the restaurant if he could write a check.

I just responded to this high and mighty post too…but businesses pay for debit cards too. She’d have to pay cash or check.

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Anonymous wrote:He was probably surprised he was on a date with a LMC female who didn't know what a Platinum Card is and who has them. Was she the one asking about "cash back" lol. He realized she was a Discover Card date. 👻

It's a weird flex for a man though. Says he cannot gather wealth and must borrow it.

Tell me you aren't a Platinum Card holder without..

You pay it off in full. Each month. And get the points, lounges, etc. Cash doesn't do that.

I don't need their gimmicks. Not that poor off. Rather not be data mined and tracked and rather not be helping the big banks make more money off every transaction, and rather help the working class by not using CC's when able.

So you’re the one holding up the line by writing checks?? Also, if you sites like Etsy, or sho smell online, you’re really helping small creators and business owners, so you must use a credit card.

Also, if you have a phone or walk in public or use a debit card, you are being tracked.

Victimized by a man's credit card . . . geez.

Dating apps have turned millennial women’s brains to mush. You look for pointless things to be turned off by because you are stringing along a half a dozen other dorks.

Anonymous wrote:Men can’t win.

😩😩😩😩😩

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Anonymous wrote:He was probably surprised he was on a date with a LMC female who didn't know what a Platinum Card is and who has them. Was she the one asking about "cash back" lol. He realized she was a Discover Card date. 👻

It's a weird flex for a man though. Says he cannot gather wealth and must borrow it.

Tell me you aren't a Platinum Card holder without..

You pay it off in full. Each month. And get the points, lounges, etc. Cash doesn't do that.

I don't need their gimmicks. Not that poor off. Rather not be data mined and tracked and rather not be helping the big banks make more money off every transaction, and rather help the working class by not using CC's when able.

"So, what is it that you do to support the working class?"
"Well, on occasion -- when able -- I try to avoid using a credit card to pay for the various goods and services I purchase."
*snapping fingers around the room*

Yeah, he should have used a debit card. That wouldn't have set off DCUM alarm bells at all. Or maybe he should have asked the restaurant if he could write a check.

Men can’t win.