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Anonymous wrote:I used to think it was better for a couple to have two equal careers and split 50/50. Experience has shown me that is unrealistic and stressful as hell to try.

THIS!!! I've learned the hard way that the best marriages with the happiest families have a high earning husband and a SAHM who outsource domestic work.

Anonymous wrote:Abortion - always considered myself pro choice but never gave the issue much thought. It wasn’t until I experienced pregnancy and childbirth myself and saw how dangerous it can be and what it does to the body that I became staunchly pro choice and think abortion bans are barbaric

Religion - no longer think that being anti-religion/atheist/agnostic is peak intellectualism

Old houses - used to always insist that new houses are cheesy and soulless and dull and I would never live in a house less than 50 years old…still love old houses but they can be such a PITA and I get the appeal of having a new/newer home where everything just…works

Systemic racism is REAL

Not going to kill myself over being environmentally friendly…I recycle, I don’t litter, and I turn the lights off but reusing zip loc bags, turning the shower water off unless actively rinsing, etc…nah. Doesn’t make that much of a dent compared to the impact of corporations

Used to think the only difference between a good school and a bad school was the students…the good schools simply have higher ses students and the bad schools have poor students with trauma, lack of home support, etc. Then taught at a “bad” school and compared it to my “good” school growing up…the teachers, the admin, the organization and systems and structure all so lacking, it wasn’t JUST that the students came from underprivileged backgrounds

Grammar - used to be so superior and judgy about grammar, now I get annoyed with people who are judgmental about grammar. Between learning disabilities, people whose first language is not English, or just people who don’t know the rules very well…it’s such a dumb thing to be elitist about; as long as I can understand what you’re saying, who cares

Capital punishment - never had strong feelings either way, now am staunchly and completely opposed

Used to be so concerned about not doing “touristy” things while traveling and try my hardest not to make myself seem “American”…now…meh. Obviously I still respect the customs of an area and I won’t be the one to be standing still on the left side of an escalator (to use a DC tourist vs. local reference!) but I *am* an American tourist. If the clunky white sneakers are what make me comfortable during a long day of walking around, I’ll wear them…I couldn’t care less if they scream “American.” I will go to “touristy” things if they interest me; there’s a reason they are popular!

College is not the only path to success and we should be promoting those other options just as much as we do college. Similarly, obsessing over college rankings and acting like going to a top rated college is the only path to success or will be one’s ticket to prosperity, success, a good job, etc. is dumb

I have become very anti-pit bull over the years and also find most pit bull owners super annoying. Pit bull apologists are the worst

Anonymous wrote:I used to think it was better for a couple to have two equal careers and split 50/50. Experience has shown me that is unrealistic and stressful as hell to try.

Anonymous wrote:SAHMs, hands down.

I'm grew up in a minority family/community where it was rare. SAHMs were blasted for being lazy women who didn't want to work.

As I've matured and learned more about the world, I realize I was just seeing really, really bad SAHMs. Women who stayed home not because they wanted to invest deeply in their children and community, but because they felt a paid job was beneath them. Kids were eating poorly, failing out of school, house was never clean, etc. Mom sort of did the bare minimum and popped out another kid if the husband wanted her to go back to work. (Please no flames - this is my personal experience only.)

My 20s and 30s have introduced me to some phenomenal SAHMs! Women who take their jobs as SAHM/COO of the home as seriously as any other job. I see women who put tons of thought and effort into sleep schedules, nutrition, enriching activities, volunteering at schools, and investing in their communities. They run their homes beautifully. Truly, I can't begrudge these women for their choice or for their standing Tuesday tennis match. Let her enjoy the fruits of her labor, I say.

I recognize not every SAHM #2 above, but truly, it was a wonder to see once I did. I personally will always be a WAH/WOHM mother, but I do tip my hat to those women who do it well.

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Anonymous wrote:Organized religion. I am still an atheist but now I think that religion, specifically Christianity, is the best way to organize society.

That is such a broad statement. You could sell me on society should be organized by quakers but not by creflo dollar. What do you mean?

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Anonymous wrote:Donald Trump. Will
be voting for him in November.

+1

You guys weren’t thrilled with him in 2016 or 2020 but when he was indicted on multiple crimes and incited an insurrection, you decided “yeah, that’s my guy”. Makes total sense.

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Anonymous wrote:Life is worth living. I tried to kill myself several times when I was younger, and I couldn’t understand why everyone else wanted to live and not escape the way I wanted. Now I finally see.

I’m glad you’re here! 💗

Anonymous wrote:Life is worth living. I tried to kill myself several times when I was younger, and I couldn’t understand why everyone else wanted to live and not escape the way I wanted. Now I finally see.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Donald Trump. Will
be voting for him in November.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:Democrats. I’ve moved so far left of them they feel conservative to me now.

The 50% floor grading policy in schools. It’s destroyed the kids and fed the chronic absenteeism issue. I supported it at first but it’s been a disaster.

Cats! Always thought I didn’t like them and then I got one and I’m obsessed, they’re the best.

How is this even possible?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I used to think it was better for a couple to have two equal careers and split 50/50. Experience has shown me that is unrealistic and stressful as hell to try.

THIS!!! I've learned the hard way that the best marriages with the happiest families have a high earning husband and a SAHM who outsource domestic work.

High income makes life easier and nicer, truly an amazing insight.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I used to think it was better for a couple to have two equal careers and split 50/50. Experience has shown me that is unrealistic and stressful as hell to try.

THIS!!! I've learned the hard way that the best marriages with the happiest families have a high earning husband and a SAHM who outsource domestic work.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I used to think it was better for a couple to have two equal careers and split 50/50. Experience has shown me that is unrealistic and stressful as hell to try.

THIS!!! I've learned the hard way that the best marriages with the happiest families have a high earning husband and a SAHM who outsource domestic work.

Anonymous wrote:I used to think it was better for a couple to have two equal careers and split 50/50. Experience has shown me that is unrealistic and stressful as hell to try.