Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you were in a company this would be retaliation. Absolutely mention this in writing and ask as politely as possible if your leave was part of the decision especially since your reviews were all great - the whole our reviews exist but don’t really matter is BS. Look at the facts and paper trail - great reviews, no warnings of issues, took leave, bam, PIP. I don’t care that it’s a law firm this is BS and it’s because you’re a mom and took leave.
Law is a small industry. Unless OP is moving to a job where her reputation no longer matters nor does blackballing- i.e. a federal judgeship or a tenured faculty role at a law school, she can't call them out publicly. It's a crappy industry in desperate need a of reform, but that will never happen because the people who write regulations are members of the industry
+100. I don’t know which shocks me more: the people who think law firms are a true meritocracy and they are unequivocally deserving of their partner positions OR the people who think they can really go up against these firms and win. It’s rarely worth the damage to the individual lawyer’s career - and these firms know it.
Anonymous wrote:This is op. This has been an insane few days. Is anyone with me that this is 100% retaliation? I had great reviews with no issues, I came back from leave in September, I had my review in early November where they discussed my great evaluations and everything is fine and dandy and now all of a sudden in Jan, they have this meeting with bogus excuses and when I refer to my evaluations and good reviews they say “we’re not good at giving reviews” and “let’s not focus on reviews” and “law firms are notoriously bad at giving reviews”. Smells like and feels like retaliation for maternity leave.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you were in a company this would be retaliation. Absolutely mention this in writing and ask as politely as possible if your leave was part of the decision especially since your reviews were all great - the whole our reviews exist but don’t really matter is BS. Look at the facts and paper trail - great reviews, no warnings of issues, took leave, bam, PIP. I don’t care that it’s a law firm this is BS and it’s because you’re a mom and took leave.
Law is a small industry. Unless OP is moving to a job where her reputation no longer matters nor does blackballing- i.e. a federal judgeship or a tenured faculty role at a law school, she can't call them out publicly. It's a crappy industry in desperate need a of reform, but that will never happen because the people who write regulations are members of the industry
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This all sounds like OP was passed over for partnership -or that as part of the partner reviews they decided that OP is no longer on partner track and that there is no longer room for a senior associate who is not on partner track . This is a pretty common experience. I’m sorry that you were surprised but with all due respect - how could you be working in Big Law and not see this coming?
Yep, I’ve been there. Was a senior associate with a career’s worth of good reviews, good reputation as a “firm citizen” (absolutely worthless in retrospect lol!), and then at year 7 the reviews aren’t materially different but are suddenly being interpreted differently in my evaluation meeting. “You’re doing everything right and we want you to be our colleague forever” suddenly became “we all love you but maybe it’s time to help you look for other options” when it was time for the firm to put up or shut up.
Fwiw, I’m better and more successful than my old firm could have ever dreamed. Spent 8 years in a 9-5 government job developing a particular expertise, and now back in the private sector as one of the few people with this skill set.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This all sounds like OP was passed over for partnership -or that as part of the partner reviews they decided that OP is no longer on partner track and that there is no longer room for a senior associate who is not on partner track . This is a pretty common experience. I’m sorry that you were surprised but with all due respect - how could you be working in Big Law and not see this coming?
Yep, I’ve been there. Was a senior associate with a career’s worth of good reviews, good reputation as a “firm citizen” (absolutely worthless in retrospect lol!), and then at year 7 the reviews aren’t materially different but are suddenly being interpreted differently in my evaluation meeting. “You’re doing everything right and we want you to be our colleague forever” suddenly became “we all love you but maybe it’s time to help you look for other options” when it was time for the firm to put up or shut up.
Fwiw, I’m better and more successful than my old firm could have ever dreamed. Spent 8 years in a 9-5 government job developing a particular expertise, and now back in the private sector as one of the few people with this skill set.
Anonymous wrote:If you were in a company this would be retaliation. Absolutely mention this in writing and ask as politely as possible if your leave was part of the decision especially since your reviews were all great - the whole our reviews exist but don’t really matter is BS. Look at the facts and paper trail - great reviews, no warnings of issues, took leave, bam, PIP. I don’t care that it’s a law firm this is BS and it’s because you’re a mom and took leave.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you were in a company this would be retaliation. Absolutely mention this in writing and ask as politely as possible if your leave was part of the decision especially since your reviews were all great - the whole our reviews exist but don’t really matter is BS. Look at the facts and paper trail - great reviews, no warnings of issues, took leave, bam, PIP. I don’t care that it’s a law firm this is BS and it’s because you’re a mom and took leave.
I think the only thing the firm did wrong here was accusing her of poor performance. They should have just been upfront about the real issue. But if any senior associate wanted to make partner but had low hours even accounting for maternity leave, I'd tell them they don't have a shot unless they find more ways to bill. It doesn't matter that the lack of hours isn't your fault. And it doesn't matter how good your work is if the firm can't justify your salary.
It's hard to make partner and the solid majority of associates don't make it. Sometimes getting counseled out is going to coincide with a leave. It's also going to happen more abruptly if there isn't more work to go around. Sometimes crappy things just happen.
Anonymous wrote:If you were in a company this would be retaliation. Absolutely mention this in writing and ask as politely as possible if your leave was part of the decision especially since your reviews were all great - the whole our reviews exist but don’t really matter is BS. Look at the facts and paper trail - great reviews, no warnings of issues, took leave, bam, PIP. I don’t care that it’s a law firm this is BS and it’s because you’re a mom and took leave.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is op. This has been an insane few days. Is anyone with me that this is 100% retaliation? I had great reviews with no issues, I came back from leave in September, I had my review in early November where they discussed my great evaluations and everything is fine and dandy and now all of a sudden in Jan, they have this meeting with bogus excuses and when I refer to my evaluations and good reviews they say “we’re not good at giving reviews” and “let’s not focus on reviews” and “law firms are notoriously bad at giving reviews”. Smells like and feels like retaliation for maternity leave.
If they wanted to retaliate for taking leave, it seems like your reviews in november, which were after your leave, would not have been great.
This is op. My review/evaluation was in November however the partners wrote the reviews months prior.
It’s complete bullshit to have a review process and formal written evaluations and then a meeting with a committee member to discuss reviews only to then say “we’re not good at reviews, let’s not focus on reviews”. That’s gaslighting.
Unfortunately, it's not retaliation. The firm just doesn't have enough work. It's how BigLaw works.
If they simply don't have enough work, why not lay off instead of going the route of alleging that OP's performance is in need of improvement?
Anonymous wrote:This is op. This has been an insane few days. Is anyone with me that this is 100% retaliation? I had great reviews with no issues, I came back from leave in September, I had my review in early November where they discussed my great evaluations and everything is fine and dandy and now all of a sudden in Jan, they have this meeting with bogus excuses and when I refer to my evaluations and good reviews they say “we’re not good at giving reviews” and “let’s not focus on reviews” and “law firms are notoriously bad at giving reviews”. Smells like and feels like retaliation for maternity leave.