Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP is there anything else we can do for you? Do you have someone to setup a go fund me? Have a friend post where we can send you door dash? DO you have people to do other child pick up, pet sitting, whatever? Have us research the world's greatest sepsis and ventilation complications expert? (seriously). Is there anything at all we can do?
OP here - It's going to be a long night, but hoping recovery continues.
We're fortunate to both be in understanding jobs. Not once have we been nudged to return to work. We have both grandparents in state, mine have driven hours to be in my spare room. DH still has friends living here from his school days that are like brothers and spoil our kids more than we do. They're desperate to see her and take our load off but understand for now just me and DH need to be here.
We have everything and barring my disagreements the doctors have never stopped caring. Thank you for the generosity. I will be making a donation to children's hospital charities. And learning first aid is my lesson so far. If I'd known even the tiniest bit about health I fear I could have spotted it sooner.
Tonight is the night everything comes together and she makes a leap in her recovery I can feel it.
Anonymous wrote:OP is there anything else we can do for you? Do you have someone to setup a go fund me? Have a friend post where we can send you door dash? DO you have people to do other child pick up, pet sitting, whatever? Have us research the world's greatest sepsis and ventilation complications expert? (seriously). Is there anything at all we can do?
Anonymous wrote:OP here - I'm out of the room and can't see her at the moment, she came round about an hour ago which was great news but said her side was really hurting. She's got pain relief so was awful to hear. The nurse said she'll get the new doctor to do a more thorough check when he starts rounds. She was starting to sound breathless and was quietly crying, but that's her trying to be as brave as possible.
About 30 mins later machines started beeping, her heart rate had shot up and her oxygen had dropped. The nurse has told me the pressure and fluid in the lungs has caused a pneumothorax (I think that's the word used) they're having to insert a tube in her side. She's already still so weak I don't know how much her body can take. I'm in tears right now. I'd do anything to swap places with her so she doesn't have to suffer. DH is better and is coming back and I need him as much as she does
She's strong, she's got this.