Anonymous
05/11/2023 13:41
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Part of the anti male bias.
Men give up on their kids then blame their ex for not playing secretary for them, and its the fault of anti male bias? Interesting!
Coordinating visits and phone calls is parenting, not a secretary.
There’s nothing to coordinate. Be a parent on your time. If you’re even close to competent, it will be half the time.
So, what about when dad shows up and mom refuses to let him have the kids? Police will not get involved in domestic disputes. Courts can only tell mom to give him the kids but if she does not there is no way to enforce the order.
Well here in the US of A where we live (not you though) yes, there is a way to enforce a court order. Police will look at the custody agreement and made the noncustodial parent give up the child.
You gonna handcuff a 5”9 15 y/o?
Anonymous
05/11/2023 13:41
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Part of the anti male bias.
Men give up on their kids then blame their ex for not playing secretary for them, and its the fault of anti male bias? Interesting!
Coordinating visits and phone calls is parenting, not a secretary.
There’s nothing to coordinate. Be a parent on your time. If you’re even close to competent, it will be half the time.
So, what about when dad shows up and mom refuses to let him have the kids? Police will not get involved in domestic disputes. Courts can only tell mom to give him the kids but if she does not there is no way to enforce the order.
Police get involved with domestic disputes all the time what on earth are you talking about? Have you ever known a cop?
Anonymous
05/11/2023 13:40
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't get this excuse-making. Maybe I'm crazy but I would never give up my parenting time because I "felt alienated". And I would be willing to live in an awful apartment with roommates, be on food stamps, work two jobs, whatever it took to live nearby. If I only got the worst parenting time, if it were only orthodontist visits and 5 am crew practice l, I'd be there. If I couldn't get parenting time, I would be at every public event. If my ex hates me and tried to make my DC hate me, I still wouldn't give up. I really don't understand people who give up trying to have a relationship with their kids.
You choose a bad spouse. Mine does all that and more, including the five am sports.
Did you even read the post you quoted? Your response makes no sense.
The post is complaining about every day parenting tasks. The things we all do.
You totally missed the point.
No, I did not. Both mom and dads do those things every day. Your ex may suck but there are lots of dads who do all that and more. It’s sad you hate men so much and are raising a son who is going to pick up on your nasty attitudes.
You don’t seem to get that if a mom moves, mom may not want dad involved if she has a new partner. She may want to hide the affair and pretend AP is dad. Not all men can just up and quit to chase around mom and her AP every time they move.
Not all moms will allow dads even their visitation time let alone extra time to go to school events, activities, etc and will tell the schools dad is not allowed and some schools follow the court order, some mom.
Who gives a flying eff what the mom wants?
Are you really saying that if your spouse moved your kid out of state with an AP you’d just give up? Prioritize keeping your military career over your relationship with your kids?
If so you’re a garbage parent and person.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 13:40
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Part of the anti male bias.
Men give up on their kids then blame their ex for not playing secretary for them, and its the fault of anti male bias? Interesting!
Coordinating visits and phone calls is parenting, not a secretary.
There’s nothing to coordinate. Be a parent on your time. If you’re even close to competent, it will be half the time.
So, what about when dad shows up and mom refuses to let him have the kids? Police will not get involved in domestic disputes. Courts can only tell mom to give him the kids but if she does not there is no way to enforce the order.
Well here in the US of A where we live (not you though) yes, there is a way to enforce a court order. Police will look at the custody agreement and made the noncustodial parent give up the child.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 13:37
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't get this excuse-making. Maybe I'm crazy but I would never give up my parenting time because I "felt alienated". And I would be willing to live in an awful apartment with roommates, be on food stamps, work two jobs, whatever it took to live nearby. If I only got the worst parenting time, if it were only orthodontist visits and 5 am crew practice l, I'd be there. If I couldn't get parenting time, I would be at every public event. If my ex hates me and tried to make my DC hate me, I still wouldn't give up. I really don't understand people who give up trying to have a relationship with their kids.
You choose a bad spouse. Mine does all that and more, including the five am sports.
Did you even read the post you quoted? Your response makes no sense.
The post is complaining about every day parenting tasks. The things we all do.
You totally missed the point.
No, I did not. Both mom and dads do those things every day. Your ex may suck but there are lots of dads who do all that and more. It’s sad you hate men so much and are raising a son who is going to pick up on your nasty attitudes.
You don’t seem to get that if a mom moves, mom may not want dad involved if she has a new partner. She may want to hide the affair and pretend AP is dad. Not all men can just up and quit to chase around mom and her AP every time they move.
Not all moms will allow dads even their visitation time let alone extra time to go to school events, activities, etc and will tell the schools dad is not allowed and some schools follow the court order, some mom.
BAHAHAHAHAHAHA now I know you're just a pathetic troll. I bet you're not even in the US. You're probably in some arab country where women have no right and can't divorce their husbands at all.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 12:38
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Part of the anti male bias.
Men give up on their kids then blame their ex for not playing secretary for them, and its the fault of anti male bias? Interesting!
Coordinating visits and phone calls is parenting, not a secretary.
There’s nothing to coordinate. Be a parent on your time. If you’re even close to competent, it will be half the time.
So, what about when dad shows up and mom refuses to let him have the kids? Police will not get involved in domestic disputes. Courts can only tell mom to give him the kids but if she does not there is no way to enforce the order.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 12:37
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't get this excuse-making. Maybe I'm crazy but I would never give up my parenting time because I "felt alienated". And I would be willing to live in an awful apartment with roommates, be on food stamps, work two jobs, whatever it took to live nearby. If I only got the worst parenting time, if it were only orthodontist visits and 5 am crew practice l, I'd be there. If I couldn't get parenting time, I would be at every public event. If my ex hates me and tried to make my DC hate me, I still wouldn't give up. I really don't understand people who give up trying to have a relationship with their kids.
You choose a bad spouse. Mine does all that and more, including the five am sports.
Did you even read the post you quoted? Your response makes no sense.
The post is complaining about every day parenting tasks. The things we all do.
You totally missed the point.
No, I did not. Both mom and dads do those things every day. Your ex may suck but there are lots of dads who do all that and more. It’s sad you hate men so much and are raising a son who is going to pick up on your nasty attitudes.
You don’t seem to get that if a mom moves, mom may not want dad involved if she has a new partner. She may want to hide the affair and pretend AP is dad. Not all men can just up and quit to chase around mom and her AP every time they move.
Not all moms will allow dads even their visitation time let alone extra time to go to school events, activities, etc and will tell the schools dad is not allowed and some schools follow the court order, some mom.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 08:09
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't get this excuse-making. Maybe I'm crazy but I would never give up my parenting time because I "felt alienated". And I would be willing to live in an awful apartment with roommates, be on food stamps, work two jobs, whatever it took to live nearby. If I only got the worst parenting time, if it were only orthodontist visits and 5 am crew practice l, I'd be there. If I couldn't get parenting time, I would be at every public event. If my ex hates me and tried to make my DC hate me, I still wouldn't give up. I really don't understand people who give up trying to have a relationship with their kids.
You choose a bad spouse. Mine does all that and more, including the five am sports.
Did you even read the post you quoted? Your response makes no sense.
The post is complaining about every day parenting tasks. The things we all do.
You totally missed the point.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 06:51
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't get this excuse-making. Maybe I'm crazy but I would never give up my parenting time because I "felt alienated". And I would be willing to live in an awful apartment with roommates, be on food stamps, work two jobs, whatever it took to live nearby. If I only got the worst parenting time, if it were only orthodontist visits and 5 am crew practice l, I'd be there. If I couldn't get parenting time, I would be at every public event. If my ex hates me and tried to make my DC hate me, I still wouldn't give up. I really don't understand people who give up trying to have a relationship with their kids.
You choose a bad spouse. Mine does all that and more, including the five am sports.
Did you even read the post you quoted? Your response makes no sense.
The post is complaining about every day parenting tasks. The things we all do.
Like sitting in a parking lot while the kids do their activity
Anonymous
05/11/2023 06:50
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Part of the anti male bias.
Men give up on their kids then blame their ex for not playing secretary for them, and its the fault of anti male bias? Interesting!
Coordinating visits and phone calls is parenting, not a secretary.
Than the dad should do that .
Anonymous
05/11/2023 01:09
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Part of the anti male bias.
Men give up on their kids then blame their ex for not playing secretary for them, and its the fault of anti male bias? Interesting!
Coordinating visits and phone calls is parenting, not a secretary.
There’s nothing to coordinate. Be a parent on your time. If you’re even close to competent, it will be half the time.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 00:42
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't get this excuse-making. Maybe I'm crazy but I would never give up my parenting time because I "felt alienated". And I would be willing to live in an awful apartment with roommates, be on food stamps, work two jobs, whatever it took to live nearby. If I only got the worst parenting time, if it were only orthodontist visits and 5 am crew practice l, I'd be there. If I couldn't get parenting time, I would be at every public event. If my ex hates me and tried to make my DC hate me, I still wouldn't give up. I really don't understand people who give up trying to have a relationship with their kids.
You choose a bad spouse. Mine does all that and more, including the five am sports.
Did you even read the post you quoted? Your response makes no sense.
The post is complaining about every day parenting tasks. The things we all do.
Now I know you either didn’t read it or couldn’t comprehend it. The poster is saying that they would never give up on having a relationship with their child, no matter what challenges they faced. They’re saying that no matter how hard the other parent made it for them, they’d do everything in their power to spend as much time with their child as possible.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 00:28
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I honestly don't get this excuse-making. Maybe I'm crazy but I would never give up my parenting time because I "felt alienated". And I would be willing to live in an awful apartment with roommates, be on food stamps, work two jobs, whatever it took to live nearby. If I only got the worst parenting time, if it were only orthodontist visits and 5 am crew practice l, I'd be there. If I couldn't get parenting time, I would be at every public event. If my ex hates me and tried to make my DC hate me, I still wouldn't give up. I really don't understand people who give up trying to have a relationship with their kids.
You choose a bad spouse. Mine does all that and more, including the five am sports.
Did you even read the post you quoted? Your response makes no sense.
The post is complaining about every day parenting tasks. The things we all do.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 00:27
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Part of the anti male bias.
Men give up on their kids then blame their ex for not playing secretary for them, and its the fault of anti male bias? Interesting!
Coordinating visits and phone calls is parenting, not a secretary.
Anonymous
05/11/2023 00:19
Subject: Why is it so acceptable to alienate Dad?
Anonymous wrote:Part of the anti male bias.
Men give up on their kids then blame their ex for not playing secretary for them, and its the fault of anti male bias? Interesting!