Anonymous
02/18/2023 19:13
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Unpopular opinion: Crowd-sourcing serious relationship issues on internet forums is a nice way for mentally ill people in dysfunctional relationships to obtain confirmation bias from other mentally ill people.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 18:41
Subject: Re:Unpopular relationship opinions
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Anonymous
02/18/2023 18:40
Subject: Re:Unpopular relationship opinions
Society will have to adjust to the natural and primal fact that women are not marrying and having children with multiple fathers regardless of social class. This is probably for the best as monogamy is unnatural, and men want to be with multiple partners throughout their lives, especially younger ones.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 18:35
Subject: Re:Unpopular relationship opinions
Divorce is an absolute last resort, and if the kids are in mid-to-late teens, you wait to separate.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 18:31
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Your spouse can’t fill all of your emotional needs and that’s okay.
Amen to this.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 16:01
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women who are highly sexually experienced make the best marriage partners. The guy gets someone who will probably try anything along with she probably showed her wild oats.
I haven’t seen too many of these women happily married to aplha males. Usually they continue in GF status into their 50s and stay single. Just like men who are promiscuous. Sexual habits are impossible to change in marriage. Sexual experience comes from being with one partner for a long time as well it’s just different
“Sexual experience comes from being with one partner.” Ha, ha, you funny!
I had 11 partners before I got married at 25. 7 oral, 3 oral, PIV and anal, one only anal somehow. I find the experience I received when married certainly more through than with all these men. We used bdsm, oral, anal. Not sure how doing it with many men between age 25 and 35 would have enriched my life more. I didn’t need it with many. Had sex every day for first 7 years of marriage, 3-4 times next 5 years, 1-2 times a week last few years.
"One only anal somehow"
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Anonymous
02/18/2023 13:13
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women who are highly sexually experienced make the best marriage partners. The guy gets someone who will probably try anything along with she probably showed her wild oats.
I haven’t seen too many of these women happily married to aplha males. Usually they continue in GF status into their 50s and stay single. Just like men who are promiscuous. Sexual habits are impossible to change in marriage. Sexual experience comes from being with one partner for a long time as well it’s just different
“Sexual experience comes from being with one partner.” Ha, ha, you funny!
I had 11 partners before I got married at 25. 7 oral, 3 oral, PIV and anal, one only anal somehow. I find the experience I received when married certainly more through than with all these men. We used bdsm, oral, anal. Not sure how doing it with many men between age 25 and 35 would have enriched my life more. I didn’t need it with many. Had sex every day for first 7 years of marriage, 3-4 times next 5 years, 1-2 times a week last few years.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 13:08
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women who are highly sexually experienced make the best marriage partners. The guy gets someone who will probably try anything along with she probably showed her wild oats.
I haven’t seen too many of these women happily married to aplha males. Usually they continue in GF status into their 50s and stay single. Just like men who are promiscuous. Sexual habits are impossible to change in marriage. Sexual experience comes from being with one partner for a long time as well it’s just different
“Sexual experience comes from being with one partner.” Ha, ha, you funny!
Anonymous
02/18/2023 13:06
Subject: Re:Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women should be able to enjoy sex and (safely) sleep with as many men as they want.
Women sleep with whomever they want. Men sleep with whomever they can. You go girl!
I did this decades ago and was harshly judged. Always thought this was some BS and I ignored all of the conventions anyway. Women are sexual beings too and they deserve fulfillment. They should not be expected to be pure virginal maidens locked in a tower eschewing all desire and pleasure while waiting for marriage and for some man to control them. I’m glad that times have changed even a little.
I’ve seen the husbands women like this end up with. Not a pretty sight.
Ha! Sure, honey. Smart men who want to have great sex for the duration of their marriages choose an experienced high drive women. Those who choose the inexperienced prudish types out of some moral guilt have only themselves to blame.
You do realize that women get sexual experience in mono relationships as well, do you ? I’ve had all types of sex and slept with my exH thousands of times. Certainly had more sex married than now that I am dating. In various places, in bed, bathroom, pool, nature, on the rooftop edge, different countries, positions etc.
These aren’t “different types of sex.” They are sex in different places. Huge difference, the fact you don’t know that speaks volumes.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 13:05
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women who are highly sexually experienced make the best marriage partners. The guy gets someone who will probably try anything along with she probably showed her wild oats.
I haven’t seen too many of these women happily married to aplha males. Usually they continue in GF status into their 50s and stay single. Just like men who are promiscuous. Sexual habits are impossible to change in marriage. Sexual experience comes from being with one partner for a long time as well it’s just different
I’m sure these “alpha males” are so thrilled that they married boring, frigid women. And sexual experience does not usually exclusively come from being with only one person. You doth protest too much.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 13:05
Subject: Re:Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women should be able to enjoy sex and (safely) sleep with as many men as they want.
Women sleep with whomever they want. Men sleep with whomever they can. You go girl!
I did this decades ago and was harshly judged. Always thought this was some BS and I ignored all of the conventions anyway. Women are sexual beings too and they deserve fulfillment. They should not be expected to be pure virginal maidens locked in a tower eschewing all desire and pleasure while waiting for marriage and for some man to control them. I’m glad that times have changed even a little.
I’ve seen the husbands women like this end up with. Not a pretty sight.
Ha! Sure, honey. Smart men who want to have great sex for the duration of their marriages choose an experienced high drive women. Those who choose the inexperienced prudish types out of some moral guilt have only themselves to blame.
You do realize that women get sexual experience in mono relationships as well, do you ? I’ve had all types of sex and slept with my exH thousands of times. Certainly had more sex married than now that I am dating. In various places, in bed, bathroom, pool, nature, on the rooftop edge, different countries, positions etc.
This is like saying you read all types of books, but they’re all written by the same author. Sure, an author might write a memoir, a thriller, a romance, and a mystery, but the authorial voice is the same. And let’s face it, most authors (and people) are best at and favor one type of book (or sex). It’s just not the same as having a variety.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 13:03
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women who are highly sexually experienced make the best marriage partners. The guy gets someone who will probably try anything along with she probably showed her wild oats.
I haven’t seen too many of these women happily married to aplha males. Usually they continue in GF status into their 50s and stay single. Just like men who are promiscuous. Sexual habits are impossible to change in marriage. Sexual experience comes from being with one partner for a long time as well it’s just different
HA- I don’t think anyone is happily married to an alpha male. They traditionally are work focused and leave the family to the wife or experts.
- signed, “Unpopular opinion”
Anonymous
02/18/2023 13:01
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women who are highly sexually experienced make the best marriage partners. The guy gets someone who will probably try anything along with she probably showed her wild oats.
I haven’t seen too many of these women happily married to aplha males. Usually they continue in GF status into their 50s and stay single. Just like men who are promiscuous. Sexual habits are impossible to change in marriage. Sexual experience comes from being with one partner for a long time as well it’s just different
I undervalued how much variety in experiences and people was important to me when I got married at 35.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 12:58
Subject: Re:Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women should be able to enjoy sex and (safely) sleep with as many men as they want.
Women sleep with whomever they want. Men sleep with whomever they can. You go girl!
I did this decades ago and was harshly judged. Always thought this was some BS and I ignored all of the conventions anyway. Women are sexual beings too and they deserve fulfillment. They should not be expected to be pure virginal maidens locked in a tower eschewing all desire and pleasure while waiting for marriage and for some man to control them. I’m glad that times have changed even a little.
I’ve seen the husbands women like this end up with. Not a pretty sight.
Ha! Sure, honey. Smart men who want to have great sex for the duration of their marriages choose an experienced high drive women. Those who choose the inexperienced prudish types out of some moral guilt have only themselves to blame.
You do realize that women get sexual experience in mono relationships as well, do you ? I’ve had all types of sex and slept with my exH thousands of times. Certainly had more sex married than now that I am dating. In various places, in bed, bathroom, pool, nature, on the rooftop edge, different countries, positions etc.
Anonymous
02/18/2023 12:55
Subject: Unpopular relationship opinions
Anonymous wrote:Women who are highly sexually experienced make the best marriage partners. The guy gets someone who will probably try anything along with she probably showed her wild oats.
I haven’t seen too many of these women happily married to aplha males. Usually they continue in GF status into their 50s and stay single. Just like men who are promiscuous. Sexual habits are impossible to change in marriage. Sexual experience comes from being with one partner for a long time as well it’s just different