Anonymous wrote:Anyone who lies about their race or anything else on a college application or job application or whatever is giving up way more than they're gaining. Why would anyone give up their integrity for ANY reason, let alone one that will make no difference in their future happiness or success?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A friend of my daughter's is claiming to be Hispanic on his application, which technically he can get away with because he is half Cuban, but he does not in any way at all look Hispanic, nor is he culturally Hispanic. It's a MASSIVE stretch.
My children are half-Latino. I a single Caucasian woman and used donor sperm to conceive and the donor is Latino. I've always felt that since my kids aren't culturally Hispanic/Latino, it would be disingenuous to identify them that way on school forms, so I haven't thus far. Am I doing them a disservice by not checking the box as Latino?
Yes. They are legitimately Latino.
No. Latino is not genetic. It is 100% cultural. You can be adopted into a Latino family and identify Latino.
No. If you have Hispanic genes you are unquestionably “of Hispanic origin” even if raised “culturally white”.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anyone who lies about their race or anything else on a college application or job application or whatever is giving up way more than they're gaining. Why would anyone give up their integrity for ANY reason, let alone one that will make no difference in their future happiness or success?
Colleges should not discriminate based on race in the first place.
That's evil.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A friend of my daughter's is claiming to be Hispanic on his application, which technically he can get away with because he is half Cuban, but he does not in any way at all look Hispanic, nor is he culturally Hispanic. It's a MASSIVE stretch.
My children are half-Latino. I a single Caucasian woman and used donor sperm to conceive and the donor is Latino. I've always felt that since my kids aren't culturally Hispanic/Latino, it would be disingenuous to identify them that way on school forms, so I haven't thus far. Am I doing them a disservice by not checking the box as Latino?
Yes. They are legitimately Latino.
No. Latino is not genetic. It is 100% cultural. You can be adopted into a Latino family and identify Latino.
No. If you have Hispanic genes you are unquestionably “of Hispanic origin” even if raised “culturally white”.
Anonymous wrote:Would saying you are AA be lying if one parent is from Morocco, Tunisia or Egypt and is more Mediterranean? I know technically they are from the continent of Africa, but culturally they do not identify as black.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A friend of my daughter's is claiming to be Hispanic on his application, which technically he can get away with because he is half Cuban, but he does not in any way at all look Hispanic, nor is he culturally Hispanic. It's a MASSIVE stretch.
My children are half-Latino. I a single Caucasian woman and used donor sperm to conceive and the donor is Latino. I've always felt that since my kids aren't culturally Hispanic/Latino, it would be disingenuous to identify them that way on school forms, so I haven't thus far. Am I doing them a disservice by not checking the box as Latino?
Yes. They are legitimately Latino.
No. Latino is not genetic. It is 100% cultural. You can be adopted into a Latino family and identify Latino.
Anonymous wrote:I read how it’s all self reported information and how colleges claim to have a large diverse population. Is this happening rarely or frequently?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A friend of my daughter's is claiming to be Hispanic on his application, which technically he can get away with because he is half Cuban, but he does not in any way at all look Hispanic, nor is he culturally Hispanic. It's a MASSIVE stretch.
My children are half-Latino. I a single Caucasian woman and used donor sperm to conceive and the donor is Latino. I've always felt that since my kids aren't culturally Hispanic/Latino, it would be disingenuous to identify them that way on school forms, so I haven't thus far. Am I doing them a disservice by not checking the box as Latino?
Yes. They are legitimately Latino.
Anonymous wrote:Anyone who lies about their race or anything else on a college application or job application or whatever is giving up way more than they're gaining. Why would anyone give up their integrity for ANY reason, let alone one that will make no difference in their future happiness or success?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This forum is way too consumed about race.
I actually think this is an interesting discussion. And there are so many scenarios and interpretations.
--Like the single white mom whose sperm donor is Latino
--the Latina woman who adopted a child from Russia.
--Similarly I am friends with a white couple who adopted their daughter. One of the girl's biological parents is Hispanic. She has an open adoption so sees her biological family once per year or something. So technically, she IS Hispanic. Culturally, though, she is not being raised in that environment.
--My (adopted) daughter is Asian. We are white. We do minimal Chinese cultural things (We did when she was younger. My daughter is just not interested AT ALL). She is clearly Asian because she looks Asian. And she checked Asian because she is, but is it just because she looks that way? Is it because of her DNA?
--My daughter has a friend who is Jewish. Her ancestors were from Eastern Europe. When her grandparents escaped, they went to Cuba. Her mother moved to Florida where my daughter's friend was born and raised. She says she is Hispanic because her mother is from Cuba.
--Lastly, my daughter has another friend whose grandfather is 1/4 Native American, which makes my daughter's friend 1/16. They are on the rolls for their tribe. Is she enough Native American?
There is no right answer. Probably best described by the Facebook relationship category. It's complicated.