Anonymous wrote:It will be nice when kids don’t feel the peer pressure to keep the masks on.
Anonymous wrote:No one is Saying Covid is over or people aren’t still dying. What we are saying is that given the lower transmission and high vaccine rate here, maybe kids and Adults can have the choice to unmask and maybe kids don’t need to be masked forever since adult attitudes aren’t going to change.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My high schooler says that the worst of the judgmental remarks come from other students, not the teachers. Parents: please tell your kids to wear their mask if they desire and to respect others' decisions not to.
My HS kid know better than to say anything. But, she also doesn’t want to be around unmasked kids. And, it’s her right to decide where to eat lunch and to ask for changes in seat assignements and to hang out with other masked kids. If your kid feels judged, it’s probably because they are being judged.
+1. My kid doesn't say anything rude or mean but she also doesn't want to be around unmasked people and I won't force her too. People want to take their masks off, go for it. But if people have a reaction to that it is their right.
+2. Decisions have consequences. It’s a good life lesson for your kod. I would hope no one is unnecessarily rude to the COVID vector kids. But I can certainly understand why the HS kids with a lot to lose if they have to isolate for 2 weeks would steer clear of unmasked kids. Especially since kids who make high risk decisions in terms of masking are probably engaging in higher risk COVID behaviors outside of school.
Your saying COVID is over doesn’t make COVID over. Especially when FCPS has such draconian exclusion policies. COVID is only “no worse than a cold” when my kid only has to miss a day or two of school while symptomatic. She’s already missed two spring plays. She doesn’t want to miss this years as well. Or spring break. Or prom. Or APs. Etc., Etc. She plans to wear her mask and avoid the IDGAF kids and the kids making political statements.
My kids are no longer masking in school. I've told my kids to be compassionate but I understand why HS kids want to steer clear of the kids that remain masked. They are clearly suffering emotionally, and who knows what they will do next.
The high schools kids don't have anything to lose. The school is not contact tracing anymore, so there is no rational for masking just to avoid quarantines. If you want to test every time your child has a sniffle, and alert everyone you know that she has covid, and stay home for 10 days, and skip all you plans. That's on you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My high schooler says that the worst of the judgmental remarks come from other students, not the teachers. Parents: please tell your kids to wear their mask if they desire and to respect others' decisions not to.
My HS kid know better than to say anything. But, she also doesn’t want to be around unmasked kids. And, it’s her right to decide where to eat lunch and to ask for changes in seat assignements and to hang out with other masked kids. If your kid feels judged, it’s probably because they are being judged.
+1. My kid doesn't say anything rude or mean but she also doesn't want to be around unmasked people and I won't force her too. People want to take their masks off, go for it. But if people have a reaction to that it is their right.
+2. Decisions have consequences. It’s a good life lesson for your kod. I would hope no one is unnecessarily rude to the COVID vector kids. But I can certainly understand why the HS kids with a lot to lose if they have to isolate for 2 weeks would steer clear of unmasked kids. Especially since kids who make high risk decisions in terms of masking are probably engaging in higher risk COVID behaviors outside of school.
Your saying COVID is over doesn’t make COVID over. Especially when FCPS has such draconian exclusion policies. COVID is only “no worse than a cold” when my kid only has to miss a day or two of school while symptomatic. She’s already missed two spring plays. She doesn’t want to miss this years as well. Or spring break. Or prom. Or APs. Etc., Etc. She plans to wear her mask and avoid the IDGAF kids and the kids making political statements.
So I was actually with you for the idea that kids should have free will over who they are near. I respect that everyone assesses risk differently and even though my kids have unmasked, I get that others may want some distance.
But then you throw out inflammatory language like “COVID vectors” and “IDGAF kids.” Clearly you are hoping to be proven right that unmasked kids will suffer higher incidences of COVID infection and you assume they just don’t care about others without even giving any thought as to why they may reasonably view masking as a mitigation not scientifically well supported at this point (you know in line with the White House and CDC).
What are parents like you going to do when case counts continue to drop and unmasked kids aren’t getting sick left and right? Because I truly believe that is what will happen. And I know you’ll be so disappointed not be proven “right” that unmasking is some huge mistake. People like you obviously want unmasking to fail so you can gloat in your moral superiority. The same way we were told the sky would fall if schools reopened. Of course there will be no self reflection when everything ends up fine. I’m sure you’ll just move on to something else to be smug about.
Anonymous wrote:Biden and his CDC say kids don't need to wear masks in schools and yet in FCPS all our kids are still wearing masks and are scared not to. What is going with Fairfax County? I used to think we were Center Left, Rational, Data-Driven. Our political culture is becoming San Francisco East without the charm and beauty.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Biden and his CDC say kids don't need to wear masks in schools and yet in FCPS all our kids are still wearing masks and are scared not to. What is going with Fairfax County? I used to think we were Center Left, Rational, Data-Driven. Our political culture is becoming San Francisco East without the charm and beauty.
Daughter at GFES said ~2/3 of her class was unmasked yesterday.
Following this thread makes me happy that we live in one of the more sane parts of the county. At the end of the day, who cares how many students are masked or unmasked? The great thing about the new rules is that everyone gets to make their own choice. (And, if one follows the actual -- and not just the political -- science, one should know that unmasked students are not putting their masked classmates at any materially higher risk of Covid infection.)
Anonymous wrote:My kids in HS said about 1/4 unmasked kids and 1/2 teachers. They wanted to unmask but said it felt like a political statement they weren’t interested in making. My daughter also said some of the cute boys weren’t as cute. LOL!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My high schooler says that the worst of the judgmental remarks come from other students, not the teachers. Parents: please tell your kids to wear their mask if they desire and to respect others' decisions not to.
My HS kid know better than to say anything. But, she also doesn’t want to be around unmasked kids. And, it’s her right to decide where to eat lunch and to ask for changes in seat assignements and to hang out with other masked kids. If your kid feels judged, it’s probably because they are being judged.
+1. My kid doesn't say anything rude or mean but she also doesn't want to be around unmasked people and I won't force her too. People want to take their masks off, go for it. But if people have a reaction to that it is their right.
+2. Decisions have consequences. It’s a good life lesson for your kod. I would hope no one is unnecessarily rude to the COVID vector kids. But I can certainly understand why the HS kids with a lot to lose if they have to isolate for 2 weeks would steer clear of unmasked kids. Especially since kids who make high risk decisions in terms of masking are probably engaging in higher risk COVID behaviors outside of school.
Your saying COVID is over doesn’t make COVID over. Especially when FCPS has such draconian exclusion policies. COVID is only “no worse than a cold” when my kid only has to miss a day or two of school while symptomatic. She’s already missed two spring plays. She doesn’t want to miss this years as well. Or spring break. Or prom. Or APs. Etc., Etc. She plans to wear her mask and avoid the IDGAF kids and the kids making political statements.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Biden and his CDC say kids don't need to wear masks in schools and yet in FCPS all our kids are still wearing masks and are scared not to. What is going with Fairfax County? I used to think we were Center Left, Rational, Data-Driven. Our political culture is becoming San Francisco East without the charm and beauty.
Daughter at GFES said ~2/3 of her class was unmasked yesterday.
Following this thread makes me happy that we live in one of the more sane parts of the county. At the end of the day, who cares how many students are masked or unmasked? The great thing about the new rules is that everyone gets to make their own choice. (And, if one follows the actual -- and not just the political -- science, one should know that unmasked students are not putting their masked classmates at any materially higher risk of Covid infection.)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My high schooler says that the worst of the judgmental remarks come from other students, not the teachers. Parents: please tell your kids to wear their mask if they desire and to respect others' decisions not to.
My HS kid know better than to say anything. But, she also doesn’t want to be around unmasked kids. And, it’s her right to decide where to eat lunch and to ask for changes in seat assignements and to hang out with other masked kids. If your kid feels judged, it’s probably because they are being judged.
+1. My kid doesn't say anything rude or mean but she also doesn't want to be around unmasked people and I won't force her too. People want to take their masks off, go for it. But if people have a reaction to that it is their right.
+2. Decisions have consequences. It’s a good life lesson for your kod. I would hope no one is unnecessarily rude to the COVID vector kids. But I can certainly understand why the HS kids with a lot to lose if they have to isolate for 2 weeks would steer clear of unmasked kids. Especially since kids who make high risk decisions in terms of masking are probably engaging in higher risk COVID behaviors outside of school.
Your saying COVID is over doesn’t make COVID over. Especially when FCPS has such draconian exclusion policies. COVID is only “no worse than a cold” when my kid only has to miss a day or two of school while symptomatic. She’s already missed two spring plays. She doesn’t want to miss this years as well. Or spring break. Or prom. Or APs. Etc., Etc. She plans to wear her mask and avoid the IDGAF kids and the kids making political statements.