Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:27     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

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Anonymous wrote:I am a professor and the idea of strategic position is so nauseating to me that I feel like writing a letter to our admissions office to let them know about what I read in this forum and others.

To be clear, I am not attacking the OP. She did what she felt she had to do to benefit her child. However, favoring students with unusual niche interests is clearly not the best way to find the most authentic students. Maybe this approach was more authentic 10 years ago before college admissions officers and parents pushed it en masse, but clearly this is no longer the way.


I always wonder how professors view their admissions offices and admission priorities.

Our child was told that activism was the essential key to admission to selective colleges. He followed a different path and somehow ended up at HYSPM.

He has met many classmates who were primarily involved in activism and impact-oriented activities. Sadly, he has seen those classmates struggle with the material to the confusion of their professors. I wonder if professors understand what the admissions offices are doing.


Professors admit graduate students, and since we work directly with the students we admit, we get obvious feedback on our selection methods. We see some students succeed, and others falter. Admissions officers don't have this benefit, because they will never teach the students they select.



This is why it surprises me that admission officers don’t get feedback/input from professors in making admissions priorities. The professors know who succeeds. Don’t admissions offices care about students’ success?


DP professors most definitely give feedback to the admissions office. An AO's #1 audience is the board of trustees, who are in turns motivated by college rankings, donations, alums, endowment, gov funding and the media. AO's #2 audience is the faculty. In multiple podcasts on YCBK, AOs have said "the last thing you want is for the faculty to call and complain about the students you admitted." This is why when a HS sends a borderline kid to a rigorous school, it could hurt applicants for the next 2 years. This is literally happening at DC's school right now: a very well connected kid/recruited athlete is failing Caltech in his freshman year (he told all his old HS buddies and is trying to transfer out); now everyone is saying no one will get in from our school this year. Another example is Carnegie Mellon: More incoming freshmen have been failing Calculus since TO. They are bringing back test requirements but also adding a Pre-Cal course for the first time next year. They wouldn't be doing that if there weren't complaints from professors.

Adding a precacl course should not be seen as a long term solution. Students at a top STEM school needing a remedial course is not a good look.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:26     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a professor and the idea of strategic position is so nauseating to me that I feel like writing a letter to our admissions office to let them know about what I read in this forum and others.

To be clear, I am not attacking the OP. She did what she felt she had to do to benefit her child. However, favoring students with unusual niche interests is clearly not the best way to find the most authentic students. Maybe this approach was more authentic 10 years ago before college admissions officers and parents pushed it en masse, but clearly this is no longer the way.


I always wonder how professors view their admissions offices and admission priorities.

Our child was told that activism was the essential key to admission to selective colleges. He followed a different path and somehow ended up at HYSPM.

He has met many classmates who were primarily involved in activism and impact-oriented activities. Sadly, he has seen those classmates struggle with the material to the confusion of their professors. I wonder if professors understand what the admissions offices are doing.


Professors admit graduate students, and since we work directly with the students we admit, we get obvious feedback on our selection methods. We see some students succeed, and others falter. Admissions officers don't have this benefit, because they will never teach the students they select.



This is why it surprises me that admission officers don’t get feedback/input from professors in making admissions priorities. The professors know who succeeds. Don’t admissions offices care about students’ success?


DP professors most definitely give feedback to the admissions office. An AO's #1 audience is the board of trustees, who are in turns motivated by college rankings, donations, alums, endowment, gov funding and the media. AO's #2 audience is the faculty. In multiple podcasts on YCBK, AOs have said "the last thing you want is for the faculty to call and complain about the students you admitted." This is why when a HS sends a borderline kid to a rigorous school, it could hurt applicants for the next 2 years. This is literally happening at DC's school right now: a very well connected kid/recruited athlete is failing Caltech in his freshman year (he told all his old HS buddies and is trying to transfer out); now everyone is saying no one will get in from our school this year. Another example is Carnegie Mellon: More incoming freshmen have been failing Calculus since TO. They are bringing back test requirements but also adding a Pre-Cal course for the first time next year. They wouldn't be doing that if there weren't complaints from professors.

Why punish the schools instead of looking at more systemic reasons (athletic recruitment, admitting students without exceptionally strong extracurricular STEM achievement).

Also just curious, when we're they recruited? Because I thought Caltech decided to stop recruiting for athletics in September 2024.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:25     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

What are other examples of barbs?
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:22     Subject: Re:Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:With the advent of clever AI, such BS can be much more easily detected than replying on the mediocre AOs of those elite colleges.

https://dianeravitch.net/2018/11/30/louisiana-the-miracle-school-that-was-a-fraud/

This has nothing to do with the topic.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:06     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:To make a "barb" look legitimate to an top5 admissions committee, a student can't just join a club. They need national-level awards, published research, or significant, measurable impact in that specific micro-field. Forcing a high schooler to spend thousands of hours over four years doing intense, rigorous work in an obscure field they actually don't care about is psychological torture.

Even if a student successfully fakes a passion for four years, gets into Harvard, and switches to a major they actually like, they arrive on campus having spent their entire adolescence living a fabricated narrative. Burnout among these types of students is notoriously high.


These kids are actually interested in this stuff….
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 20:56     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

To make a "barb" look legitimate to an top5 admissions committee, a student can't just join a club. They need national-level awards, published research, or significant, measurable impact in that specific micro-field. Forcing a high schooler to spend thousands of hours over four years doing intense, rigorous work in an obscure field they actually don't care about is psychological torture.

Even if a student successfully fakes a passion for four years, gets into Harvard, and switches to a major they actually like, they arrive on campus having spent their entire adolescence living a fabricated narrative. Burnout among these types of students is notoriously high.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 14:27     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It is funny to see people fall for trolling so deeply.

There are roughly about 20 students who get admitted to all 5 of HYPSM. The chance that some parent of these 20, posts on DCUM and that too with the language used by OP, is near zero.



Can't help to wonder why people troll others? Seriously, for what?


This is what google tells me "People troll others online primarily for entertainment, to assert power, to seek attention, or to inflict emotional pain, often driven by boredom, anonymity, and a lack of empathy. "

On some threads I try to write a sarcastic/funny/roll your eyes response, and to my horror I see people take that seriously and debate the merits/issues with that!
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 14:06     Subject: Re:Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

My oldest is applying this year to HPY. High stats, rigor, all the things and from a private feeder. Got deferred in December to RD from his first choice so obviously he is still waiting to hear, but I agree with the general sentiment that there has to be a shorthand for the AOs to identify a kid. So yes, be authentic and well-rounded (mine is) but have something that differentiates them from the avalanche of applications. Mine has something that everyone knows him by so it was easy to identify his spike, or barb, or whatever you want to call it. But it's authentic to him so I hope that means good results. He knows all he's done is earn himself some lottery tickets, and if it doesn't work out he'll still be okay. He's got a place already where he's be happy to go and would thrive. Good luck to everyone... end is in sight!
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 12:27     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It is funny to see people fall for trolling so deeply.

There are roughly about 20 students who get admitted to all 5 of HYPSM. The chance that some parent of these 20, posts on DCUM and that too with the language used by OP, is near zero.



There's more! At some rando private with a 3.85 (and only ONE "B") and test optional and completely unhooked ... and got into ALL of the schools. The odds of that are like, what ... being struck by lightening, getting up, and then struck by lightening the minute you got up. Um, sure.


Could it be that the kid applied to some obscure major that is offered at all of the schools and they need enough students to enroll into that major? Sure, that's totally possible! And, that would be the "hook". So to make it sound like it's something unique about the kid's "barb-like" profile is misrepresenting what worked.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 12:23     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:As the college counselor at DD’s school said last week in a presentation, “College has ruined high school.” So glad to attend a school that encourages kids to try all sorts of things rather than “barb” themselves into college. This is the time to experience and develop, people!


I have kids at HYP. My advice for unhooked kids: do it ALL in high school. anything you want. and quit if you want.

but when during the two days when you write up your activities section on the common app, be selective. My kids left a ton out of their list. they had more things out than in. What they left in told a story. This is a STEM kids interested in Genetics and look at this research paper, this essay competition, and this summer research lab job. Or this kid is interested in policy surrounding school lunches - as evidenced by this essay, these debate awards, this internship with the local city rep and his old grade school. and sure, add in they were on the track team for flavor. But leave the stem stuff off the humanities application. Leave the lawn care business off the prospective philosophy major. Being in the school play or taking that service trip can be really fun and even important, but don't clog up the activities section with all this stuff. COLLEGES DON'T CARE

Be memorable as the kid that does X. That's it. That's important to top 20 colleges.

Also, you can change your application for every school. People here balk at high schools that limit applications, because they don't realize those kids are tailoring each application for each school. You can't do that if you're applying to 20 schools.

But of this stops kids from doing as much as they want in high school - experience! develop! Just don't talk about it. It's confusing. the rule is always KISS
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 12:23     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:It is funny to see people fall for trolling so deeply.

There are roughly about 20 students who get admitted to all 5 of HYPSM. The chance that some parent of these 20, posts on DCUM and that too with the language used by OP, is near zero.



There's more! At some rando private with a 3.85 (and only ONE "B") and test optional and completely unhooked ... and got into ALL of the schools. The odds of that are like, what ... being struck by lightening, getting up, and then struck by lightening the minute you got up. Um, sure.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 12:20     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"HYSPM" is not a monolith. I love it how parents obfuscate and note their kid is at a "HYSPM" ... you're on an anonymous board with tens of thousands of parents (maybe much much more!) ... trust me, if you say your kid is at Princeton, or Harvard, or Stanford, no one is going to isolate that we're talking about YOUR family or your child! You can go ahead and name the school. It's kind of ridiculous what gets posted on this forum and passes the smell test for people.


If I say my kid is a freshman at Princeton who had a spike in basket weaving, the kid is identifiable.


PP here: Actually doubt that. People surfing on DCUM don't exactly know the student body population at Princeton (a university with roughly 6000 undergrad) ... and for basketweaving to be major at Princeton or anywhere else, more than 1 person has to be enrolled. Kind of ridiculous what gets posted on this forum and passes the smell test for people.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 12:17     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:It is funny to see people fall for trolling so deeply.

There are roughly about 20 students who get admitted to all 5 of HYPSM. The chance that some parent of these 20, posts on DCUM and that too with the language used by OP, is near zero.



Can't help to wonder why people troll others? Seriously, for what?
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 12:13     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

It is funny to see people fall for trolling so deeply.

There are roughly about 20 students who get admitted to all 5 of HYPSM. The chance that some parent of these 20, posts on DCUM and that too with the language used by OP, is near zero.

Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 11:43     Subject: Reflections from 2025 HYPSM admit(s)

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a professor and the idea of strategic position is so nauseating to me that I feel like writing a letter to our admissions office to let them know about what I read in this forum and others.

To be clear, I am not attacking the OP. She did what she felt she had to do to benefit her child. However, favoring students with unusual niche interests is clearly not the best way to find the most authentic students. Maybe this approach was more authentic 10 years ago before college admissions officers and parents pushed it en masse, but clearly this is no longer the way.


I always wonder how professors view their admissions offices and admission priorities.

Our child was told that activism was the essential key to admission to selective colleges. He followed a different path and somehow ended up at HYSPM.

He has met many classmates who were primarily involved in activism and impact-oriented activities. Sadly, he has seen those classmates struggle with the material to the confusion of their professors. I wonder if professors understand what the admissions offices are doing.


Professors admit graduate students, and since we work directly with the students we admit, we get obvious feedback on our selection methods. We see some students succeed, and others falter. Admissions officers don't have this benefit, because they will never teach the students they select.



This is why it surprises me that admission officers don’t get feedback/input from professors in making admissions priorities. The professors know who succeeds. Don’t admissions offices care about students’ success?


DP professors most definitely give feedback to the admissions office. An AO's #1 audience is the board of trustees, who are in turns motivated by college rankings, donations, alums, endowment, gov funding and the media. AO's #2 audience is the faculty. In multiple podcasts on YCBK, AOs have said "the last thing you want is for the faculty to call and complain about the students you admitted." This is why when a HS sends a borderline kid to a rigorous school, it could hurt applicants for the next 2 years. This is literally happening at DC's school right now: a very well connected kid/recruited athlete is failing Caltech in his freshman year (he told all his old HS buddies and is trying to transfer out); now everyone is saying no one will get in from our school this year. Another example is Carnegie Mellon: More incoming freshmen have been failing Calculus since TO. They are bringing back test requirements but also adding a Pre-Cal course for the first time next year. They wouldn't be doing that if there weren't complaints from professors.


I think test optional cohorts from the top schools are seeing lower reputational benefits in recruitment.