Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have been getting laser treatments on my face and I swear I didn’t notice how much discoloration I had and how it kind of makes your face look “dirty” even when it’s not. It’s lasers. That’s why they look cleaner than the rest of us.
Melanin isn't dirty
Anonymous wrote:OP, try to understand your need to look faux wealthy with a therapist.
Anonymous wrote:I hate that curly hair will apparently never be in style again. I have objectively perfect curls (dark, shiny, fat ringlets. Think Julia Louis Dreyfus back in the day) but it's when I iron it straight that I get all the compliments.
Anonymous wrote:Like real estate agents. They never look in person like the picture on their signs.
Anonymous wrote:There’s plenty of rich people who dress frumpy and look dumpy. Come on!
Anonymous wrote: Wear modest clothing as an attractive person and people think you’re rich.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know but when I went back for my posh private school reunion I totally felt the way you do, OP. Like, how do they all so casual yet fit and polished?
I think having straight hair helps a lot. I am curly
I’m curly and I’ve noticed it too. Most people I know who are UMC or rich style it straight/wavy, no matter their original hair texture. I get it. My face looks better when I straighten my hair, but the hair itself looks terrible. I hate having to choose.
Anonymous wrote:It's generally grooming that produces the subtle differences you can't put your finger on. Expensive haircuts vs cheap ones. Professionally tamed eyebrows. Whitened teeth. Moisturized skin. Mani/pedis (including on the men). And expensive makeup does look different from drugstore makeup.
Anonymous wrote:I had the hair, the skin, and all the clothes and bags and shoes, but it wasn’t until I lost 60 pounds on ozempic that I actually started looking out together. I hate that this is about weight, but it’s always about weight. Yes I’m type 2 before anyone harps on me taking medication from diabetics.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know but when I went back for my posh private school reunion I totally felt the way you do, OP. Like, how do they all so casual yet fit and polished?
I think having straight hair helps a lot. I am curly