Anonymous wrote:I know I’m going to get railed on here, but each of your kids have their own iPad? Honestly, it’s awful for children. You go to another country where this is not the norm and are amazed at how much more engaged the children all with their world. Here we are headed into Wall-E territory out of ignorance and defensiveness.

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Anonymous wrote:You both sound like a$$holes. Her for getting in your business but you for not having better situational awareness and sensitivity to differences in parenting styles.

The kids are 5 and 8. One kid accidentally walked by with fries; they pulled out their iPads before dinner. You actually sound like a$$hole for name-calling children.

I think PP was name-calling you and your sister. Not your kids.

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Anonymous wrote:She sounds awful, OP. I’m going home to visit my family this weekend. I love them dearly. But they are super-conservative, southern baptist, judgy Republicans who all live in the same little town. I’m a pot smoking, liberal, Dem. And a witch. And I cuss a little. I’ve had lots of “interventions”. No real advice. Just understanding. Remember, it’s only a few days.

And a witch? You are as nuts as your family.

what is wrong with being a witch?

If your parents are being a part of a "cult" being Baptist, what are you a part of with being a witch? Can't you see the insanity of your own post?

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Anonymous wrote:You both sound like a$$holes. Her for getting in your business but you for not having better situational awareness and sensitivity to differences in parenting styles.

Must be the sister! You found the thread and became defensive at being called insane?

Anonymous wrote:I’m coming to you from the future. My kids are 10 years older. None of this matters! As long as everyone is within reason, kids with major food and technology restrictions and kids with none truly do all get to the same place. Also, teenage boys need to eat about every hour. My children are rail thin and eat whatever junk they like because of genetics. You truly do not have the control that you think you do.

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Anonymous wrote:You both sound like a$$holes. Her for getting in your business but you for not having better situational awareness and sensitivity to differences in parenting styles.

The kids are 5 and 8. One kid accidentally walked by with fries; they pulled out their iPads before dinner. You actually sound like a$$hole for name-calling children.

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Anonymous wrote:My sister is fanatical about food but in ways that are very confusing to me. Like she would NEVER ever let her kids eat fast food. Or anything not organic for that matter. But her kids at ages 4 and 6 drink 6-8 sippies of milk per day. And are continuously snacking on Lara bars. Like 3-5 per day. Is a hamburger from burner king really worse?

They drink so much milk bcs they are hungry. Also, too much milk can cause anemia, I know bcs my DD had that. She had insane GERD and would only drink milk from 1 to 3 years old. Ended up malnourished, severely anemic, as in no blood could be drawn. We were in treatment for months. Switched back to formula. The milk she drank was cow milk but super enriched, it made no difference, didn't register. In my defense I would have loved to feed her anything, she just refused all food due to her severe GERD issues.

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Anonymous wrote:Not all children go bonkers when they see junk food. My children have it available at all times and they often pass on it. We have bags of Doritos sitting in front of everyone for days or weeks on end. Impossible, according to you.

Food is not a drug, that's just a metaphor of dubious utility. I don't judge people for trying to do best for their children. Honestly, I don't care. I am just telling what I am seeing. Which is that it largely does not work. Like, at all. The only child that I know where it kind of worked is, at 9, an obsessive health nut that all other children run away from.

I have a good friend who doesn't allow junk food and her kids absolutely feast at my house. They are teens so I don't get involved but it cracks me up.

I have young kids and we allow junk food - they get a small dessert every night if they want it, which they always do - yet they still feast when they go to friends houses or my in laws. My in laws in particular feed them so much sugar that they practically have to detox when they get home. In laws insist portions are small and maybe they are, but they also build it up so much that that’s all the kids think about when they go over there. It drives me crazy and they know it but I keep my mouth shut. They’re going to do it, DH sees nothing wrong with it, and to be honest my family has always struggled with weight and sugar obsession while his hasn’t, so I’m just hoping he/they are onto something with how they treat food in the long run. We did forbid fast food. My family never ate it and I hate it. I also hate the concept of eating in a car instaedb

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Anonymous wrote:Not all children go bonkers when they see junk food. My children have it available at all times and they often pass on it. We have bags of Doritos sitting in front of everyone for days or weeks on end. Impossible, according to you.

Food is not a drug, that's just a metaphor of dubious utility. I don't judge people for trying to do best for their children. Honestly, I don't care. I am just telling what I am seeing. Which is that it largely does not work. Like, at all. The only child that I know where it kind of worked is, at 9, an obsessive health nut that all other children run away from.

I have a good friend who doesn't allow junk food and her kids absolutely feast at my house. They are teens so I don't get involved but it cracks me up.

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Anonymous wrote:She sounds awful, OP. I’m going home to visit my family this weekend. I love them dearly. But they are super-conservative, southern baptist, judgy Republicans who all live in the same little town. I’m a pot smoking, liberal, Dem. And a witch. And I cuss a little. I’ve had lots of “interventions”. No real advice. Just understanding. Remember, it’s only a few days.

And a witch? You are as nuts as your family.

what is wrong with being a witch?

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Anonymous wrote:She sounds awful, OP. I’m going home to visit my family this weekend. I love them dearly. But they are super-conservative, southern baptist, judgy Republicans who all live in the same little town. I’m a pot smoking, liberal, Dem. And a witch. And I cuss a little. I’ve had lots of “interventions”. No real advice. Just understanding. Remember, it’s only a few days.

And a witch? You are as nuts as your family.

what is wrong with being a witch?

Anonymous wrote:I bet your attitude has been judgmental towards her. This may be her finally pushing back on your “oh it’s FINE” attitude.

Anonymous wrote:You both sound like a$$holes. Her for getting in your business but you for not having better situational awareness and sensitivity to differences in parenting styles.