Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 14:29     Subject: Gift for first period?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think the best way to make the most of a first period is to day “here’s a pad and some Advil. Let me know when you’re ready to head out and I’ll take you to CVS and let you pick out your own period products. I’ll help you.”

Then put on your masks, go to CVS, and happen to take a spin through the makeup and candy aisles and say “yes” to everything, suggesting silly or indulgent purchases along the way. That’s a chill but fun memory she will have.


I like this


+2. Low key.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 09:43     Subject: Gift for first period?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My 11 year old DS ran around the house showing everyone his new public hair. It was such a touching moment. The men made jokes like " I like your cut G" and remarked it looks like a Ceasar 'do.

Help with gift ideas?



That's quite different Rightly or wrongly, talking about periods are still taboo in our culture. Mom, take her out to a nice lunch or dinner. A gift is going to get an eye-roll from her friends.


I dont understand? You believe a girl needs a special ceremony or gift for her puberty but I boy shouldn't be celebrated?
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2020 01:44     Subject: Gift for first period?
Anonymous wrote:My 11 year old DS ran around the house showing everyone his new public hair. It was such a touching moment. The men made jokes like " I like your cut G" and remarked it looks like a Ceasar 'do.

Help with gift ideas?



That's quite different Rightly or wrongly, talking about periods are still taboo in our culture. Mom, take her out to a nice lunch or dinner. A gift is going to get an eye-roll from her friends.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2020 23:41     Subject: Gift for first period?
Anonymous wrote:Garnet or ruby jewelry and a special outing with mom & grandma.


This is really nice. I like this idea. And for everyone saying how embarrassing it will be… No one needs to know that’s what it’s for. I’d love for my mom to have done this.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2020 23:37     Subject: Gift for first period?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That’s too weird, OP. She may not see it the way you do. It’s personal. Your gift should be you being there for her and talking to her, reassuring her, but not making a huge deal of it.

Agreed. This entire idea is so terribly provincial.
OP, are you expecting a party for your upcoming menopause?


Not OP but actually yes. There are groups of women who celebrate & acknowledge the transition of menopause. As a rite of passage.
Why shouldn’t they? I’d love some acknowledgement, open discussion & honoring about the immense changes my body is going through. It impacts every area of my life!


I sure will! Menopause is an enormous rite of passage. I’ve been to one of these ceremonies and they are incredible. My daughter will likely be beginning her menarche as I finish peri menopause, it’s kind of a neat balance.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2020 23:34     Subject: Gift for first period?
My 11 year old DS ran around the house showing everyone his new public hair. It was such a touching moment. The men made jokes like " I like your cut G" and remarked it looks like a Ceasar 'do.

Help with gift ideas?