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Anonymous wrote:My daughter nearly died from an eating disorder. She spent four months in an inpatient facility. She has been in recovery for 18 months, thankfully. At 5’7 and 90 pounds she still wasn’t “skinny enough”. I blame every single woman on this thread fat shaming others, including the OP. You have no idea the damage you do. You have no idea who might be reading this thread. And yes, as women, we are fuking responsible for each other.

And before you fat shame me, I’m 53 years old, 5’5 and 115 pounds. I don’t diet. I eat like a horse. It’s genetics. I am naturally thin. That doesn’t make me better than my 200 pound friend.

Most of the fat shaming I see comes FROM girls with eating disorders.

And vice versa. Most skinny shaming comes from overweight women.

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter nearly died from an eating disorder. She spent four months in an inpatient facility. She has been in recovery for 18 months, thankfully. At 5’7 and 90 pounds she still wasn’t “skinny enough”. I blame every single woman on this thread fat shaming others, including the OP. You have no idea the damage you do. You have no idea who might be reading this thread. And yes, as women, we are fuking responsible for each other.

And before you fat shame me, I’m 53 years old, 5’5 and 115 pounds. I don’t diet. I eat like a horse. It’s genetics. I am naturally thin. That doesn’t make me better than my 200 pound friend.

Most of the fat shaming I see comes FROM girls with eating disorders.

And vice versa. Most skinny shaming comes from overweight women.

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter nearly died from an eating disorder. She spent four months in an inpatient facility. She has been in recovery for 18 months, thankfully. At 5’7 and 90 pounds she still wasn’t “skinny enough”. I blame every single woman on this thread fat shaming others, including the OP. You have no idea the damage you do. You have no idea who might be reading this thread. And yes, as women, we are fuking responsible for each other.

And before you fat shame me, I’m 53 years old, 5’5 and 115 pounds. I don’t diet. I eat like a horse. It’s genetics. I am naturally thin. That doesn’t make me better than my 200 pound friend.

Most of the fat shaming I see comes FROM girls with eating disorders.

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter nearly died from an eating disorder. She spent four months in an inpatient facility. She has been in recovery for 18 months, thankfully. At 5’7 and 90 pounds she still wasn’t “skinny enough”. I blame every single woman on this thread fat shaming others, including the OP. You have no idea the damage you do. You have no idea who might be reading this thread. And yes, as women, we are fuking responsible for each other.

And before you fat shame me, I’m 53 years old, 5’5 and 115 pounds. I don’t diet. I eat like a horse. It’s genetics. I am naturally thin. That doesn’t make me better than my 200 pound friend.

Previous poster, perhaps your latent or subliminal preocupation or concern with your own weight, dimensions, and thinness- as articulated and expressed in your final paragraph - influenced your daughter's attitudes.

Anonymous wrote:My daughter nearly died from an eating disorder. She spent four months in an inpatient facility. She has been in recovery for 18 months, thankfully. At 5’7 and 90 pounds she still wasn’t “skinny enough”. I blame every single woman on this thread fat shaming others, including the OP. You have no idea the damage you do. You have no idea who might be reading this thread. And yes, as women, we are fuking responsible for each other.

And before you fat shame me, I’m 53 years old, 5’5 and 115 pounds. I don’t diet. I eat like a horse. It’s genetics. I am naturally thin. That doesn’t make me better than my 200 pound friend.

Anonymous wrote:My daughter nearly died from an eating disorder. She spent four months in an inpatient facility. She has been in recovery for 18 months, thankfully. At 5’7 and 90 pounds she still wasn’t “skinny enough”. I blame every single woman on this thread fat shaming others, including the OP. You have no idea the damage you do. You have no idea who might be reading this thread. And yes, as women, we are fuking responsible for each other.

And before you fat shame me, I’m 53 years old, 5’5 and 115 pounds. I don’t diet. I eat like a horse. It’s genetics. I am naturally thin. That doesn’t make me better than my 200 pound friend.

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Anonymous wrote:Only white men who are trying to impress other white men are fetishizing women shaped like a 2X4.

Very rich competitive white men marry skinny women as status symbols. It doesnt rule out he’d rather be banging a size 16 on the side, and probably is. But he needs a size 2 on his arm at functions, ideally one that the other women are jealous of. That’s the game.

Uh, wealthy white men are most certainly not commonly banging size 16s mistresses. Lol.

+1 That's hilarious. Size 8 max, I'd say.

As a woman I agree 16 would be extreme. I’d say 10 or 12. That said any man who knows a woman’s size is completely gay.

I'm willing to bet many rich men know women sizes below 4, but not above that.

I know my wife is a size 0. How else am I supposed to shop for Christmas? Damn, guess I'm gay now. Oh well

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Your rant is strange. The entire point is that BMI is a math problem. And at that height and weight, BMI is normal. Please stop you rant.

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Anonymous wrote:I hang with a bunch of very wealthy skinny bitches.
I’m the fat one and I can tell you that I feel the pressure. I’ve started to lose some weight, but I have a LOOOONG way to go. But yes, wealthy men expect their partners to look a certain way.
And I am much MUCH bigger than the ladies I’m socializing with. I need to lose about 65 lbs, and even then I wouldn’t be as thin as they are.
I’m the funny one... with the “pretty” face.

Oh I’ll add that I don’t feel pressure from my husband. The pressure is from the other ladies. They don’t say anything. That are very nice, but I want to fit in. I want to dress nicely. It’s simply peer pressure.

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Anonymous wrote:What am I with my stats? 5’4, 144, 39/30/38. I don’t even know!

You need to lose about 15 to 20lbs. I’m 5’8” 138, 37/25/38 with a normal BMI . At 144, your BMI is overweight.

No. It is not.

Considering most people lie about their weight, BMI is still 25 which is considered overweight. Especially belly weight which is the cause of all kinds of health issues.

At 144, BMI is not overweight.

Unless you are training hard with a lot of muscle mass your weight is fine . But with a waist measurement at 30 I highly doubt it. But this is the mindset of women these days with the obesity epidemic. People are getting more and more excepting of being overweight and just don’t give a shit anymore. I’ve traveled to England, Ireland and the same there . Obesity population there was unbelievable. This one man knew rt away I was a tourist. I asked why, he said because I was so fit(size6), and we don’t see women like you much around here.

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Anonymous wrote:What am I with my stats? 5’4, 144, 39/30/38. I don’t even know!

You need to lose about 15 to 20lbs. I’m 5’8” 138, 37/25/38 with a normal BMI . At 144, your BMI is overweight.

You need to lose about 15 Lbs. I’m 5’9” 123 with an 18 BMI and toned.

Anonymous wrote:I hang with a bunch of very wealthy skinny bitches.
I’m the fat one and I can tell you that I feel the pressure. I’ve started to lose some weight, but I have a LOOOONG way to go. But yes, wealthy men expect their partners to look a certain way.
And I am much MUCH bigger than the ladies I’m socializing with. I need to lose about 65 lbs, and even then I wouldn’t be as thin as they are.
I’m the funny one... with the “pretty” face.