Anonymous wrote:Sometimes, I am convinced that the immature people get married. The rational ones stay single until they can find a soul mate.

Anonymous wrote:DH had a vasectomy after his second child. She was 10 when I got pregnant using donor sperm.

Anonymous wrote:If he is 38, chances are extremely high he will have more kids with someone else- biological or step. You need to come to terms with the fact that and the fact that once you divorce him a large part of his income will go to “other things” such as dating, gifts, vacations, and another family. A vasectomy will not stop this and you are a low and dirty for trying to force your agenda on him.

If he is smart he won’t have any more kids, but that isn’t up to you. Keep your dignity. You won’t be able to stop this train wreck. And you’ll spend enough to send both kids to college with the amount you will blow on lawyers fees between the two of you anyhow. Divorce is the ultimate money suck.

Anonymous wrote:Are you people insane?

You want to control the fertility of another person. Think about this. And potentially a third person as well. You all need some damn hobbies.

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Anonymous wrote:OP has to think about her children. If you think it's in their best interest to encourage him to get a vasectomy, do it.

If OP were actually thinking about her kids, she would not have had more children than she can support all by herself.

Pay attention, Ladies. DCUM has been especially enlightening about male attitudes this week.

Any nudes you send him, he will share with his buddies.
Men marry for sex.
Be able to support any kids he fathers with you all on your own.

Keep ‘em coming, guys. This is going to spare a lot of women.

And this thread also shows how many females view men and quite frankly it's terrifying.

Pay attention men:

You are a walking wallet. Any woman you marry will make sure you pay her way for the rest of your working life. Of course cough cough it's for the children.

As a man you cannot have any say over her fertility or her body however she will feel like she can have a say over yours.

Forget honesty, you will be manipulated and lied to for her to achieve the result best suited for HER.

You actually don’t know how child support works, do you?

It stops at 18 in the vast majority of cases. 21 in a few states and DC. Unless your kids with that ex-wife are a decade or more apart in age, CS is going to be a short obligation on your part and a brief benefit for her and the kids.

It is also typically a low sum unless you are a multi-millionaire (and we know YOU and most of your audience aren’t) so hardly enough to fully support the exwife and kids.

And unless you stopped having at kids at age 50, paying even 18 years of child support won’t be for the rest of your working life. Let’s be honest that you were never going to be able to retire early anyway.

Funny, so many assumptions you make. I'm female and will be retiring before 68 years old. From money I made FYI.

As a female I am a little horrified at some of the thought processes on this thread. There are some really low females posting here. Really really low.

Some appalling women. Don't any of you have sons?

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes, I am convinced that the immature people get married. The rational ones stay single until they can find a soul mate.

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Anonymous wrote:OP has to think about her children. If you think it's in their best interest to encourage him to get a vasectomy, do it.

If OP were actually thinking about her kids, she would not have had more children than she can support all by herself.

Pay attention, Ladies. DCUM has been especially enlightening about male attitudes this week.

Any nudes you send him, he will share with his buddies.
Men marry for sex.
Be able to support any kids he fathers with you all on your own.

Keep ‘em coming, guys. This is going to spare a lot of women.

And this thread also shows how many females view men and quite frankly it's terrifying.

Pay attention men:

You are a walking wallet. Any woman you marry will make sure you pay her way for the rest of your working life. Of course cough cough it's for the children.

As a man you cannot have any say over her fertility or her body however she will feel like she can have a say over yours.

Forget honesty, you will be manipulated and lied to for her to achieve the result best suited for HER.

You actually don’t know how child support works, do you?

It stops at 18 in the vast majority of cases. 21 in a few states and DC. Unless your kids with that ex-wife are a decade or more apart in age, CS is going to be a short obligation on your part and a brief benefit for her and the kids.

It is also typically a low sum unless you are a multi-millionaire (and we know YOU and most of your audience aren’t) so hardly enough to fully support the exwife and kids.

And unless you stopped having at kids at age 50, paying even 18 years of child support won’t be for the rest of your working life. Let’s be honest that you were never going to be able to retire early anyway.

Funny, so many assumptions you make. I'm female and will be retiring before 68 years old. From money I made FYI.

As a female I am a little horrified at some of the thought processes on this thread. There are some really low females posting here. Really really low.

Some appalling women. Don't any of you have sons?

I would be so appalled if either of my sons left their first family and had more children with another woman. That is very bad for the children who already exist. I hope they have better values than that.

But it’s okay if a dd does it?

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Anonymous wrote:OP has to think about her children. If you think it's in their best interest to encourage him to get a vasectomy, do it.

If OP were actually thinking about her kids, she would not have had more children than she can support all by herself.

Pay attention, Ladies. DCUM has been especially enlightening about male attitudes this week.

Any nudes you send him, he will share with his buddies.
Men marry for sex.
Be able to support any kids he fathers with you all on your own.

Keep ‘em coming, guys. This is going to spare a lot of women.

And this thread also shows how many females view men and quite frankly it's terrifying.

Pay attention men:

You are a walking wallet. Any woman you marry will make sure you pay her way for the rest of your working life. Of course cough cough it's for the children.

As a man you cannot have any say over her fertility or her body however she will feel like she can have a say over yours.

Forget honesty, you will be manipulated and lied to for her to achieve the result best suited for HER.

You actually don’t know how child support works, do you?

It stops at 18 in the vast majority of cases. 21 in a few states and DC. Unless your kids with that ex-wife are a decade or more apart in age, CS is going to be a short obligation on your part and a brief benefit for her and the kids.

It is also typically a low sum unless you are a multi-millionaire (and we know YOU and most of your audience aren’t) so hardly enough to fully support the exwife and kids.

And unless you stopped having at kids at age 50, paying even 18 years of child support won’t be for the rest of your working life. Let’s be honest that you were never going to be able to retire early anyway.

Funny, so many assumptions you make. I'm female and will be retiring before 68 years old. From money I made FYI.

As a female I am a little horrified at some of the thought processes on this thread. There are some really low females posting here. Really really low.

Some appalling women. Don't any of you have sons?

I would be so appalled if either of my sons left their first family and had more children with another woman. That is very bad for the children who already exist. I hope they have better values than that.

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Anonymous wrote:OP has to think about her children. If you think it's in their best interest to encourage him to get a vasectomy, do it.

If OP were actually thinking about her kids, she would not have had more children than she can support all by herself.

Pay attention, Ladies. DCUM has been especially enlightening about male attitudes this week.

Any nudes you send him, he will share with his buddies.
Men marry for sex.
Be able to support any kids he fathers with you all on your own.

Keep ‘em coming, guys. This is going to spare a lot of women.

And this thread also shows how many females view men and quite frankly it's terrifying.

Pay attention men:

You are a walking wallet. Any woman you marry will make sure you pay her way for the rest of your working life. Of course cough cough it's for the children.

As a man you cannot have any say over her fertility or her body however she will feel like she can have a say over yours.

Forget honesty, you will be manipulated and lied to for her to achieve the result best suited for HER.

You actually don’t know how child support works, do you?

It stops at 18 in the vast majority of cases. 21 in a few states and DC. Unless your kids with that ex-wife are a decade or more apart in age, CS is going to be a short obligation on your part and a brief benefit for her and the kids.

It is also typically a low sum unless you are a multi-millionaire (and we know YOU and most of your audience aren’t) so hardly enough to fully support the exwife and kids.

And unless you stopped having at kids at age 50, paying even 18 years of child support won’t be for the rest of your working life. Let’s be honest that you were never going to be able to retire early anyway.

Funny, so many assumptions you make. I'm female and will be retiring before 68 years old. From money I made FYI.

As a female I am a little horrified at some of the thought processes on this thread. There are some really low females posting here. Really really low.

Some appalling women. Don't any of you have sons?

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Anonymous wrote:You should try to get him to have a V because then his sex life with the new, hotter, younger women he meets after you will be 10X better. Nothing is sexier to a woman than a man with a V. Trust me, I know. They thank me for it. It's sexual freedom. No contraceptives, no condoms, zero fear of pregnancy. I can barely remember life before the V.

This would have been perfectly fine with me. My XH can shoot blanks all over the continental US and I wouldn’t care.