Anonymous
Post 07/28/2019 13:50     Subject: Re:Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Emotional support pet = first world luxury.
Anonymous
Post 07/28/2019 12:45     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

OP, you are awesome.
Anonymous
Post 07/28/2019 11:28     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Yes they are.

By the same token it is well within the bounds of good taste to restrict attendance. Sometimes it’s all adult no kid. Sometimes all kid no adult. Sometimes no kids under 10. It’s all good and you shouldn’t be questioned about it. Ever.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2019 11:45     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Thanks, OP! Very satisfying update!
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2019 11:33     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

How are niece and SIL doing now? Will they attend Thanksgiving at the crazy aunt's house or will they vacation with you *wink*?

BTW you should send a group email with a picture of your dog's return from doggie day care vacation and comments from doggie about how much fun it was over the weekend.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2019 11:21     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Good job, OP! And DH should get a pat on the back too! Are we related? Your MIL sounds like my mom for taking credit for stuff she had nothing to do with. Ugh. Good luck to you!
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2019 11:10     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

I want to be friends with OP. She calmly deals with more drama than a shakespeare festival with tact, humor and maturity. Well done!
Anonymous
Post 07/26/2019 00:36     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

OP, thanks so much for the follow-up! So often on DCUM I'll find myself a little emotionally invested in a situation only to never hear the outcome because the OP ghosted. Your follow-up was highly entertaining and satisfying. Thank you!
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2019 16:15     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our dogs are certainly part of our family. I openly call them kid #1 and #2. Our human kids are kids #3 and #4.

That said, we don't bring them everywhere with us. Just like the kids.



Freak


Hater
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2019 16:10     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

OP, i love you. thanks for the update!

and you should really look into writing as a side hobby, i would be your fan! as someone else said, love your style.

was your SIL stressed out because of the MIL? i really appreciate you standing up for your niece to these locos.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2019 15:54     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Unless you are a public venue, Aunt's emotional support papers mean didly squat.


Unless the papers are from the ADA they mean squat! Those support animal certificates are not service animal certificates. Only service animals are legally protected. (FYI, per ADA guidelines, only dogs and mini horses can be service animals, so cats are not legally protected in a public space if a shop owner kicks them out.)


They are relevant for housing purposes, per the Fair Housing Act.


Not for visitors, you dolt.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2019 15:51     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Unless you are a public venue, Aunt's emotional support papers mean didly squat.


Unless the papers are from the ADA they mean squat! Those support animal certificates are not service animal certificates. Only service animals are legally protected. (FYI, per ADA guidelines, only dogs and mini horses can be service animals, so cats are not legally protected in a public space if a shop owner kicks them out.)


They are relevant for housing purposes, per the Fair Housing Act.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2019 14:52     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

OP thank you for the story! Great writing. And good for you standing up for yourself and niece. Your relatives pretty entitled!
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2019 14:33     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Anonymous wrote:Our dogs are certainly part of our family. I openly call them kid #1 and #2. Our human kids are kids #3 and #4.

That said, we don't bring them everywhere with us. Just like the kids.



Freak
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2019 14:30     Subject: Your dogs are NOT members of the family

Thanks for the update, I'm glad you had a nice dog-free event!