Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is faculty a big hook?
IMO yes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is faculty a big hook?
IMO yes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Our soon to be valedictorian of a top private (and probably on financial aid) did not get into an IVY but multiple 25-50% ranked kids with legacy were accepted. An AA child that currently takes the lowest math level just go into an IVY too. It has been a VERY awkward week in school for a lot of these kids. They see the rich and URM's getting in and the middle and lower income white kids, getting deferred or rejected.
That doesn't mean the valedictorian won't get in RD. The early decision bump goes to the hooked. Everyone knows that.
I am the PP. Some of the rich have legacy, some don’t have any hooks. The URM aren’t hooked with anything but their skin color. We are talking about nice kids but not the top of the class by any means. In a school that talks about treating everyone equally, it is quite apparent college’s do not. Money or minority is what gets you in these days.
Spare us your whining. Maybe your kid is just less qualified.
how can you be less qualified than being admitted based on skin color or ethnic origin?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Our soon to be valedictorian of a top private (and probably on financial aid) did not get into an IVY but multiple 25-50% ranked kids with legacy were accepted. An AA child that currently takes the lowest math level just go into an IVY too. It has been a VERY awkward week in school for a lot of these kids. They see the rich and URM's getting in and the middle and lower income white kids, getting deferred or rejected.
That doesn't mean the valedictorian won't get in RD. The early decision bump goes to the hooked. Everyone knows that.
I am the PP. Some of the rich have legacy, some don’t have any hooks. The URM aren’t hooked with anything but their skin color. We are talking about nice kids but not the top of the class by any means. In a school that talks about treating everyone equally, it is quite apparent college’s do not. Money or minority is what gets you in these days.
Spare us your whining. Maybe your kid is just less qualified.
Anonymous wrote:Is faculty a big hook?
Anonymous wrote:If your child is applying for admission now, she/he is not a valedictorian, and you likely would not know the grades or the backgrounds or the ecs of those who may have gotten in.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Our soon to be valedictorian of a top private (and probably on financial aid) did not get into an IVY but multiple 25-50% ranked kids with legacy were accepted. An AA child that currently takes the lowest math level just go into an IVY too. It has been a VERY awkward week in school for a lot of these kids. They see the rich and URM's getting in and the middle and lower income white kids, getting deferred or rejected.
That doesn't mean the valedictorian won't get in RD. The early decision bump goes to the hooked. Everyone knows that.
I am the PP. Some of the rich have legacy, some don’t have any hooks. The URM aren’t hooked with anything but their skin color. We are talking about nice kids but not the top of the class by any means. In a school that talks about treating everyone equally, it is quite apparent college’s do not. Money or minority is what gets you in these days.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:my kid made it into yale EA. She has a talent on the national level, is 1st in her class, took a ton of APs and got great LOR etc. 1500 SAT. She is in a group chat with accepted students and the GC is 250+ ppl so far. They all have "something". High grades and tests are not enough, not even close.
FY!- we make 175K HHI, have another in college and our total cost is 18,979. The ivy league is extremely generous.
Congratulations. My kid is at Yale now and loves it. For Yale what I notice is that they select happy, self-assured, non-competitive kids, just wait until you start meeting her classmates. They appreciate what their classmates bring to the table. Maybe it is the same at other schools but I stopped thinking about it as being a "lottery" there is definitely a method to the madness. They really think hard about what each kid brings to the community, stats are a bar but the least important IMO.
I also believe your kid is a legacy and URM, correct?
Yes, the ENTIRE CLASS is URM. 100 %.
That’s why your kid is going to state school.
My dd who has been accepted to Yale is not URM, not legacy. She is white.
Athlete? Stats please? EC?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Our soon to be valedictorian of a top private (and probably on financial aid) did not get into an IVY but multiple 25-50% ranked kids with legacy were accepted. An AA child that currently takes the lowest math level just go into an IVY too. It has been a VERY awkward week in school for a lot of these kids. They see the rich and URM's getting in and the middle and lower income white kids, getting deferred or rejected.
That doesn't mean the valedictorian won't get in RD. The early decision bump goes to the hooked. Everyone knows that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:These schools are always several steps ahead, just when you think you figured out their formula, they flip the script. They are looking for genuine intellectual ability, rare talent and kids who are not "created" by parents and college consultants. They have their ways of figuring this out. It's less about the schools they come from, once you pass the academic bar, the rest weighs a lot more.
HYP grad here. The top schools stay a few steps ahead but you’d be surprised at how many kids without ultra-rare talents figure out the formula and make it in.
Hence the influx of recent Water Polo "enthusiasts".
I live in California and water polo is like religion out here. Trust me, there is no shortage of great players. East coast poseurs will not fool anyone.
no one in CA talks like that - you probably live in Fairfax VA![]()