Anonymous wrote:In our Club---it's well-known if your kid plays travel a year earlier they will automatically drop-down to the A team the following year. More and more parents are putting their kids in earlier and earlier so the kid can drop down and start on the 'A' team. Again, it's usually more to do with the parents. Many of the kids are really struggling that first year with so many practices, tournaments and games at such a young age.
Anonymous wrote:In our Club---it's well-known if your kid plays travel a year earlier they will automatically drop-down to the A team the following year. More and more parents are putting their kids in earlier and earlier so the kid can drop down and start on the 'A' team. Again, it's usually more to do with the parents. Many of the kids are really struggling that first year with so many practices, tournaments and games at such a young age.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are there any travel programs for 5-year-olds? My kid's rec team just isn't cutting it, and we don't have travel yet at that age.
You shouldn't have travel at that age.
This thread will have a lot of newbies to soccer and travel soccer. So no reason to be snarky.
Anonymous wrote:In our Club---it's well-known if your kid plays travel a year earlier they will automatically drop-down to the A team the following year. More and more parents are putting their kids in earlier and earlier so the kid can drop down and start on the 'A' team. Again, it's usually more to do with the parents. Many of the kids are really struggling that first year with so many practices, tournaments and games at such a young age.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are there any travel programs for 5-year-olds? My kid's rec team just isn't cutting it, and we don't have travel yet at that age.
You shouldn't have travel at that age.
This thread will have a lot of newbies to soccer and travel soccer. So no reason to be snarky.
I was assuming this was satire.
I wasn't because it is indicative of this area that starts formal education and workbooks in Kumon and Kahn learning centers at age 3 so they can be 'bored' in Kindergarten and really not learn to love 'learning', i.e., so parents can brag they are reading before everyone else even though long-term studies show workbooks and worksheets that merely teach rote memorization have the opposite effect these parents think they will have and these kids get outpaced by 3rd/4th grade kids who started in a play-based approach whose brains expand more organically.
It's the same with these parents that think if they push more and more soccer structure to their children at the earliest possible ages their kids will end up far ahead of all of their neighbor's kids. No--same concept--they kill the love of the sport and it's about them not their kids. Kids that started more organically and had lots of free pick-up play to be creative and just have fun---not in a clinic at preschool ages--also avoid burnout and develop into more creative players.
Parents in these high-income, high-achieving areas think they are doing/paying the best for their children and all you see is overuse injuries by 13/14 and kids dropping out of the sport. It is always to try and one-up 'all of the competition'. It really is a pissing match between parents.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are there any travel programs for 5-year-olds? My kid's rec team just isn't cutting it, and we don't have travel yet at that age.
You shouldn't have travel at that age.
This thread will have a lot of newbies to soccer and travel soccer. So no reason to be snarky.
I was assuming this was satire.
Anonymous wrote:For a 5-year-old, I'd look into some of the mini academies the clubs run, in addition to rec.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are there any travel programs for 5-year-olds? My kid's rec team just isn't cutting it, and we don't have travel yet at that age.
You shouldn't have travel at that age.
This thread will have a lot of newbies to soccer and travel soccer. So no reason to be snarky.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are there any travel programs for 5-year-olds? My kid's rec team just isn't cutting it, and we don't have travel yet at that age.
You shouldn't have travel at that age.
Anonymous wrote:Are there any travel programs for 5-year-olds? My kid's rec team just isn't cutting it, and we don't have travel yet at that age.