Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 19:11     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
18, married him at age 25. Married 14+ years.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 19:08     Subject: Re:How old were you when you first had sex?
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Anonymous wrote:32 and he's my DH. I was a VERY late bloomer, very shy, and didn't date much until I got older and broke out if my shell. I don't know anyone who was older than me when they 1st had sex or even over 30 for that matter!



Was your DH a virgin as well?


How long were you together when it happened?


How long have you guys been married?


Sorry for the personal questions- I'll be 32 this fall and I'm like you described yourself.


DH was definitely not a virgin! We met and dated for 3 months before having sex. I told him I was a virgin and he was very patient with me and made the whole experience very special. We got engaged about 6 months later and have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids!
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 19:07     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
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Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!


Slut much?


Asshole much? You have no idea about this person's circumstances.


Don't take the bait PP. Anyone who would say "slut much?" to someone who said 13 is an insecure, unhappy person who gets their jollies being mean or trying to get reactions on anonymous message boards. Think about how pathetic it is, and don't get upset when you see stuff like that. It just plays right into their sad little hands.


I am a pp, had sex at 15. I was an insecure, unhappy person with zero self-esteem. My father was absent and my mother was not much of a parent. I would describe myself as a "slut" - as in, having sex with guys outside of the context of a relationship or very early in a relationship. Teen girls who are promiscuous (sluts) usually behave this way because they lack self-esteem. They don't value themselves - probably because they are not valued by their parents. This is not something to criticize, judge or make fun of. It is sad. Do better for your daughters so that they don't disrespect themselves.
Sorry. Lecture over.


I'm so sorry pp, I hope your life turned out well. You sound very insightful and wise.


And some teenage "sluts" do it because they enjoy the sex, excitement, and challenge. just like boys.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 19:07     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
23, still married to him!
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 19:04     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
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Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!


Slut much?


Asshole much? You have no idea about this person's circumstances.


Don't take the bait PP. Anyone who would say "slut much?" to someone who said 13 is an insecure, unhappy person who gets their jollies being mean or trying to get reactions on anonymous message boards. Think about how pathetic it is, and don't get upset when you see stuff like that. It just plays right into their sad little hands.


I am a pp, had sex at 15. I was an insecure, unhappy person with zero self-esteem. My father was absent and my mother was not much of a parent. I would describe myself as a "slut" - as in, having sex with guys outside of the context of a relationship or very early in a relationship. Teen girls who are promiscuous (sluts) usually behave this way because they lack self-esteem. They don't value themselves - probably because they are not valued by their parents. This is not something to criticize, judge or make fun of. It is sad. Do better for your daughters so that they don't disrespect themselves.
Sorry. Lecture over.


I'm so sorry pp, I hope your life turned out well. You sound very insightful and wise.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 18:55     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
16 and she was 15. We dated through high school and my freshman year, then she followed me to college and it fizzled out as she decided she wanted to be a party girl. Not in touch, but I see her name in the alumni review from time to time.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 18:43     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
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Anonymous wrote:25 late bloomer. However I am very religious. We are Facebook friends

You can't be that religious if you had sex outside of marriage

Just because I committed a sin doesn't mean I'm not that religious. I'm perfectly aware that I could burn in hell for what I did. I still believe in God. Just because I make mistakes doesn't mean I stop believing in my religion.


I would relax about the whole "burning in hell" thing if I were you. I don't mean to mock your religion, but it is a bit childish.

Childish ? I worry about it everyday. Not just the sex thing of course but every mistake I've ever made. Burning in hell is real, most people won't go to heaven. Where else do we all go ? Hell. I refuse to have kids because of it. I can't imagine creating someone who will one day be on fire for all eternity.


There is no hell. It's just a myth someone made up a long time ago, probably to keep people in line.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 17:03     Subject: Re:How old were you when you first had sex?
25 years old. Might sound strange, but I had a bad experience as an adoptee and didn't want the same for any potential DCs. Together with the same person for the 23 years.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 16:38     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
20. I see him at parties involving our college friends as he also ended up in the DC area as did many of our mutual friends.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 16:11     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
21.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 16:10     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
18, a random guy on the basketball team. I didn't want to go all the way. But it's over and done with. We're Facebook friends. I'm in a loving relationship over a decade after losing my virginity
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 15:27     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
16. He ended up marrying this other girl we were in high school with so I still see him from time to time.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 14:50     Subject: Re:How old were you when you first had sex?
14, and I am still FB friends with him. We are both now happily married
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 14:22     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
19, between freshman and sophomore year of college. It was a summer romance. We're not in touch, he lives in Israel.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2016 12:51     Subject: How old were you when you first had sex?
When does it stop being sex and start being rape or assault or something? Younger than 16 strikes me as very questionable in terms of whether someone is mature enough to legitimately consent to sex. Certainly pre-teens fit in this category in my thinking. So, 13-15?

Age matters too. A 15 and 16 year old having sex does bother me nearly as much as, say, a 15 and 18 year old.