Anonymous wrote:I'm 25 and still a virgin. I dated a few guys in high school and one guy in college but never was ready. The last bf I had I was ready to give it to but find out he was a total douche before it ever happened. I've had lots of oral though. With grad school and work to pay for it, I don't have much time for a relationship and I don't want to lose it to a random guy. I feel like a freak sometimes and other times I want to wait until I get engaged or married. I think it will happen when I meet the right guy.
. With grad school and work to pay for it, I don't have much time for a relationship and I don't want to lose it to a random guy. I feel like a freak sometimes and other times I want to wait until I get engaged or married. I think it will happen when I meet the right guy.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was 16 and I lost it to my older brothers friend. After helping my brother move, his friend ( J) went to pick up some stuff my brother needed. On the way home he asked me I ever had sex. I told him no because my boyfriend just broke up with me for a slut. He started talking sexual and next thing you know we are stopped and he is eating me out. I proceeded to give him a blowjob but I wasn't good at it back then lol. We ended up having sex in the back of his van. He was 27. I regret it big time and it was so painful.
Why was it so painful ? I thought that was all just an old wives tales to keep daughters virgins.
He was a terrible friend to your brother. If my friend did that to my sister, I'd beat his head in with a shovel. Totally not cool for a 27 male to take advantage of a child.
Anonymous wrote:19.
It lasted all of 30 seconds. Me and the girl both laughed. She knew I was a virgin and we actually had a bet to see if I could make it a whole minute. Two months later, however, I was a pro.
Anonymous wrote:21 with my first long term boyfriend. Dated him for 3 years. Went through a "slutty" phase in my late 20s/early 30s, right before I met DH. I don't regret a thing.

Anonymous wrote:I was 17. He was 23. My loser parents were fine with this. It sickens me.
Anonymous wrote:PP again - my friends were all having sex in our teens, also.
And before those "you're trashy" posters come out: these were mainly private school kids who went on to great colleges, great lives. This was 25 years ago; it may have been a less prudish time than we are living in now?
I'm curious about the 52 year old, too! Are you waiting for something in particular? Just not interested? More, please!