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Anonymous wrote:I’m over this dumb DCUM trend of hateful threads where the whole purpose is to be nasty.

I agree, but whenever I come across these threads I think of a woman I used to know. She was the biggest amateur fashion and beauty critic I've ever met -- she frequently brought up fashion trends just to trash them or make fun of people for wearing them. I remember once being out with her and a couple friends and seeing a woman walking by in an outfit I really liked. I said "oooh, I love what that woman is wearing, do you think it would be weird to take a pic so I can google it all later?" I mostly said it as a joke (I didn't actually photograph this woman though I still remember her outfit) but I meant the compliment. Meanwhile, Ms. Fashion Critic immediately ripped into me, saying stuff like "I guess you could buy that outfit, if you wanted to look ridiculous," and then detailing everything she thought was wrong with it. It was such an over the top response. Most people, even if they didn't like the outfit, would just say... nothing. At most, a very opinionated person would say "huh, that's not my thing." But this woman went full Joan Rivers on it. It was very aggressive.

But here's the thing: she was terribly dressed. Like she never once wore an outfit I'd call flattering or fashionable. She frequently wore clothes that were at least a size too small, so her pants were always riding down and her shirts riding up. She'd pair mustard yellow with bright purple. Like I'm too live and let live to have ever actually commented on her clothes, but I can't imagine someone less qualified to be a fashion critic.

So that's who I think of when I see the comments on this website. I have no idea if it's lack of self awareness or insecurity, but I don't think the people angrily criticizing every trend and making fun of other women for wearing clothes they like and feel good in is always particularly chic or polished. Which is why I'd never take the criticism of weirdos on this site seriously. Many of them are probably at home wearing weirdly clashing, too tight clothes, thinking they know something we don't.

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You have just described the most egregious offender on this forum, the self-appointed “fashion critic” who writes long screeds on the Trump women thread. She is absolutely always right (in her mind) about every fashion choice and she will grossly overreact to even the slightest thing she considers an infraction. And if anyone dares to disagree with her, watch out. She doesn’t accept dissent.

Officious, hateful, and pathetic.

I am often on that thread and I don’t know who you are talking about. It’s mostly a silly thread with the exception of Ushabot.

Anyone who has visited that thread knows exactly who the PP is talking about.
DP

I have been a faithful reader of that thread since day 1, and I have no idea who PP is talking about. Over the years, there have been many different folks posting, and lots of different viewpoints expressed. Some are quite knowledeable in explaining why something looks good or doesn't. Sometimes it's silly, sometimes its snarky, sometimes its outright hilarious or insightful -- in all, I think it's been the gift that keeps on giving.

I've cycled into and out of that thread. The snark and rudeness isn't my cup of tea and I usually regret bothering with it.

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Anonymous wrote:Fashion sneakers at night - fine if you’re running errands or something during the day but way too casual IMO

I also cannot stand super long hair on little girls . Always looks messy and dirty. Needs to be right below the shoulders with clean ends

Are you the same person who has been talking on DCUM for years about how bad long hair on little girls is? It always catches my attn because it’s such a weird thing to hate. I refuse to believe there are a bunch of people like you.

Same. I think short cuts look unflattering… I always assume a sibling chopped their hair off while playing hairdresser. But now I’ll also wonder if their mom chopped their hair off because long hair is dirty.

Anonymous wrote:I'm the bang poster and I humbly admit I was wrong. The OK student in all over the news now could benefit from bangs:

Anonymous wrote:Tattoos
Fake long nails
Nail art on nails
Fake eye lashes
Fish lips
Poor people with designer bags looks like a sucker
Chain with a gold cross -

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Anonymous wrote:Fashion sneakers at night - fine if you’re running errands or something during the day but way too casual IMO

I also cannot stand super long hair on little girls . Always looks messy and dirty. Needs to be right below the shoulders with clean ends

Are you the same person who has been talking on DCUM for years about how bad long hair on little girls is? It always catches my attn because it’s such a weird thing to hate. I refuse to believe there are a bunch of people like you.

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Anonymous wrote:The Adidas Sambas/Gazelles. Just absolutely screams sheep with no personality.

😂 Many of us have been wearing them for decades. We were the originals, so hardly “sheep”.

Came here to say this. Most probably authentic on a genX person or older millennial.

I didn’t know what an adidas samba or gazelle was. The names sounded funny so I was curious to google.

Imagine my surprise when I saw the shoes everyone wore in high school! The 1990’s are back in force! I’m cool and I didn’t even know it! 😂

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Anonymous wrote:The Adidas Sambas/Gazelles. Just absolutely screams sheep with no personality.

😂 Many of us have been wearing them for decades. We were the originals, so hardly “sheep”.

Came here to say this. Most probably authentic on a genX person or older millennial.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m over this dumb DCUM trend of hateful threads where the whole purpose is to be nasty.

I agree, but whenever I come across these threads I think of a woman I used to know. She was the biggest amateur fashion and beauty critic I've ever met -- she frequently brought up fashion trends just to trash them or make fun of people for wearing them. I remember once being out with her and a couple friends and seeing a woman walking by in an outfit I really liked. I said "oooh, I love what that woman is wearing, do you think it would be weird to take a pic so I can google it all later?" I mostly said it as a joke (I didn't actually photograph this woman though I still remember her outfit) but I meant the compliment. Meanwhile, Ms. Fashion Critic immediately ripped into me, saying stuff like "I guess you could buy that outfit, if you wanted to look ridiculous," and then detailing everything she thought was wrong with it. It was such an over the top response. Most people, even if they didn't like the outfit, would just say... nothing. At most, a very opinionated person would say "huh, that's not my thing." But this woman went full Joan Rivers on it. It was very aggressive.

But here's the thing: she was terribly dressed. Like she never once wore an outfit I'd call flattering or fashionable. She frequently wore clothes that were at least a size too small, so her pants were always riding down and her shirts riding up. She'd pair mustard yellow with bright purple. Like I'm too live and let live to have ever actually commented on her clothes, but I can't imagine someone less qualified to be a fashion critic.

So that's who I think of when I see the comments on this website. I have no idea if it's lack of self awareness or insecurity, but I don't think the people angrily criticizing every trend and making fun of other women for wearing clothes they like and feel good in is always particularly chic or polished. Which is why I'd never take the criticism of weirdos on this site seriously. Many of them are probably at home wearing weirdly clashing, too tight clothes, thinking they know something we don't.

+1000
You have just described the most egregious offender on this forum, the self-appointed “fashion critic” who writes long screeds on the Trump women thread. She is absolutely always right (in her mind) about every fashion choice and she will grossly overreact to even the slightest thing she considers an infraction. And if anyone dares to disagree with her, watch out. She doesn’t accept dissent.

Officious, hateful, and pathetic.

I am often on that thread and I don’t know who you are talking about. It’s mostly a silly thread with the exception of Ushabot.

Anyone who has visited that thread knows exactly who the PP is talking about.
DP

I have been a faithful reader of that thread since day 1, and I have no idea who PP is talking about. Over the years, there have been many different folks posting, and lots of different viewpoints expressed. Some are quite knowledeable in explaining why something looks good or doesn't. Sometimes it's silly, sometimes its snarky, sometimes its outright hilarious or insightful -- in all, I think it's been the gift that keeps on giving.

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Anonymous wrote:I am so over beige and all its iterations. I was looking at a shirt I liked, but it came in beige, mushroom, mauve, and sand. There must be some woman that looks good in those colors. They really make me look like I might actually be dead. Give me jewel tones!

I am THAT woman. Those are my colors!

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Anonymous wrote:I’m over this dumb DCUM trend of hateful threads where the whole purpose is to be nasty.

I agree, but whenever I come across these threads I think of a woman I used to know. She was the biggest amateur fashion and beauty critic I've ever met -- she frequently brought up fashion trends just to trash them or make fun of people for wearing them. I remember once being out with her and a couple friends and seeing a woman walking by in an outfit I really liked. I said "oooh, I love what that woman is wearing, do you think it would be weird to take a pic so I can google it all later?" I mostly said it as a joke (I didn't actually photograph this woman though I still remember her outfit) but I meant the compliment. Meanwhile, Ms. Fashion Critic immediately ripped into me, saying stuff like "I guess you could buy that outfit, if you wanted to look ridiculous," and then detailing everything she thought was wrong with it. It was such an over the top response. Most people, even if they didn't like the outfit, would just say... nothing. At most, a very opinionated person would say "huh, that's not my thing." But this woman went full Joan Rivers on it. It was very aggressive.

But here's the thing: she was terribly dressed. Like she never once wore an outfit I'd call flattering or fashionable. She frequently wore clothes that were at least a size too small, so her pants were always riding down and her shirts riding up. She'd pair mustard yellow with bright purple. Like I'm too live and let live to have ever actually commented on her clothes, but I can't imagine someone less qualified to be a fashion critic.

So that's who I think of when I see the comments on this website. I have no idea if it's lack of self awareness or insecurity, but I don't think the people angrily criticizing every trend and making fun of other women for wearing clothes they like and feel good in is always particularly chic or polished. Which is why I'd never take the criticism of weirdos on this site seriously. Many of them are probably at home wearing weirdly clashing, too tight clothes, thinking they know something we don't.

+1000
You have just described the most egregious offender on this forum, the self-appointed “fashion critic” who writes long screeds on the Trump women thread. She is absolutely always right (in her mind) about every fashion choice and she will grossly overreact to even the slightest thing she considers an infraction. And if anyone dares to disagree with her, watch out. She doesn’t accept dissent.

Officious, hateful, and pathetic.

I am often on that thread and I don’t know who you are talking about. It’s mostly a silly thread with the exception of Ushabot.

Anyone who has visited that thread knows exactly who the PP is talking about.
DP

Anonymous wrote:Interesting ... my mom was an immigrant, and she used the word "midi," too. Maybe it was a London 1960s thing?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The Adidas Sambas/Gazelles. Just absolutely screams sheep with no personality.

😂 Many of us have been wearing them for decades. We were the originals, so hardly “sheep”.

Came here to say this. Most probably authentic on a genX person or older millennial.