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Anonymous wrote:Who cares what these old hens think. I'm 50 and hook up with women of all ages in the US and when I'm traveling, which is several months per year. Most women in the DC area tend to be really serious and boring, so I screen hard and only date here when I'm really bored.

If you’re so desirable, why do you have to date women from DC at all? Why aren’t they flying in to spend time with you?

DH’s fraternity brother is ridiculously good looking and charismatic. He has beautiful women traveling on their own dime to see him. Once two arrived for the same three day weekend and they knew about each other!

Did they have a threesome ?

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares what these old hens think. I'm 50 and hook up with women of all ages in the US and when I'm traveling, which is several months per year. Most women in the DC area tend to be really serious and boring, so I screen hard and only date here when I'm really bored.

If you’re so desirable, why do you have to date women from DC at all? Why aren’t they flying in to spend time with you?

DH’s fraternity brother is ridiculously good looking and charismatic. He has beautiful women traveling on their own dime to see him. Once two arrived for the same three day weekend and they knew about each other!

I never really claimed to be desirable, certainly not at the same level as your DH's frat bro lol. I usually don't date when I'm DC and every once in a while I'll have a friend come visit. I travel a lot and dating opportunities are much better elsewhere, so that's what works for me. I almost feel bad for guys who are stuck in DC.

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Anonymous wrote:OP: you should have bought a ticket to Thailand this morning. You will do much better there.

If you insist on dating here, date younger. I now realize I was wasting my time with women around my age. I currently have a 26 year old GF, we have been together for three years.

You think she’ll stick around when she’s 56 and you are 76?

When I'm 76 she will be 35.

Do you think she’ll enjoy sleeping with 76 yo you? Does it matter for you when your partner is satisfied and happy or only your need matter ? Do you plan kids (because otherwise she won’t stick around unless you can provide $5m+ in your will for her in current present value).

That’s a very creepy statement. She doesn’t want a child and guys like me don’t have wills, we have trusts.

If you don’t have a will, only a trust, that tells me that someone (a parent or grandparent) didn’t trust you and you only have access to whatever money is ladled out to you at the discretion of someone else.

As an adult who has reached maturity, you should have property that is not covered by the trust. If any of it had value, it would be in a will. You’re probably sleeping on a bed from West Elm and driving a leased BMW.