Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:38     Subject: I got called a doormat
*and they couldn't delay babies for career because biological clock was ticking.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:37     Subject: I got called a doormat
35 is hardly old to have another kid, especially around here. Second at 37. Sex one time. Many people here have first, second and third kids between 35-42.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:28     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:I am shocked to hear someone is a great parent but they only see their child 2/7 days out of the week. Yikes. Op sounds delusional quite frankly. This guy doesn’t sound “amazing” at all, but if op is happy that’s ultimately what matters.

I think divorced dads see their kids more than ops husband.


People don't have much choice sometimes. Many of my friends of both genders had periods in their careers where they were working or traveling too much and hardly get to sleep but it took time to climb the next step or finish the training or change the path.

With student loans, wedding expenses, house down payment and mortgage etc, there was little choice.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:23     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Op here. Cry harder folks.


Ok so you're entirely too much in the right-leaning online world. That's your main problem.

Explain again how he managed to buy you a house with your money, because I still don't understand it.


Bought a house with her money and put his name on the title.


She got scammed!


OP here. My name is on the house and all accounts.

Some people are being rude on here.

I have my own savings before marriage and some of my salary tucked away that is hate mine. The salary I’ve been earning since marriage has gone into a savings account. My husband used his money ( I know it’s our money) to buy the home for us. He bought me a car and paid for our wedding on his own.

It’s our money but I say he bought me a house have he wanted a different home but settled to make me happy. Both of our names are on the deed and on all accounts.



That's not what you said before. You said it was paid for partially with your earnings. Why are you changing the story?

And why can't you say "he went with the house I preferred" or literally anything more accurate than the fictional story that you're telling about Mr Benevolent Patriarch?


OP here. I said he paid for the house with savings. You guys fan with it that I paid to because I put my salary into savings. Different savings accounts.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:22     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:I am shocked to hear someone is a great parent but they only see their child 2/7 days out of the week. Yikes. Op sounds delusional quite frankly. This guy doesn’t sound “amazing” at all, but if op is happy that’s ultimately what matters.

I think divorced dads see their kids more than ops husband.


OP here. My marriage is happy while you all complain daily how you hate your husbands and want to cheat.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:22     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Cry harder folks.


Ok so you're entirely too much in the right-leaning online world. That's your main problem.

Explain again how he managed to buy you a house with your money, because I still don't understand it.


Bought a house with her money and put his name on the title.


She got scammed!


OP here. My name is on the house and all accounts.

Some people are being rude on here.

I have my own savings before marriage and some of my salary tucked away that is hate mine. The salary I’ve been earning since marriage has gone into a savings account. My husband used his money ( I know it’s our money) to buy the home for us. He bought me a car and paid for our wedding on his own.

It’s our money but I say he bought me a house have he wanted a different home but settled to make me happy. Both of our names are on the deed and on all accounts.



That's not what you said before. You said it was paid for partially with your earnings. Why are you changing the story?

And why can't you say "he went with the house I preferred" or literally anything more accurate than the fictional story that you're telling about Mr Benevolent Patriarch?
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:21     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:Isn't the point of a "girls' trip" to get away from housework, husbands and childcare duties? Shouldn't they be out doing Jello shots and flirting with dudes at pool?

Sounds like a boring trip TBH.


OP here. Maybe if you’re trashy. I don’t cheat - why would I flirt with some stranger when I’m a married woman? Very low class. Drinking in excess is low class. I don’t drink much. I enjoyed 2 glass of wine the whole trip.

The trip was for a friends birthday party. All married and no one flirted with strange men.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:20     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Cry harder folks.


Ok so you're entirely too much in the right-leaning online world. That's your main problem.

Explain again how he managed to buy you a house with your money, because I still don't understand it.


Bought a house with her money and put his name on the title.


She got scammed!


OP here. My name is on the house and all accounts.

Some people are being rude on here.

I have my own savings before marriage and some of my salary tucked away that is hate mine. The salary I’ve been earning since marriage has gone into a savings account. My husband used his money ( I know it’s our money) to buy the home for us. He bought me a car and paid for our wedding on his own.

It’s our money but I say he bought me a house have he wanted a different home but settled to make me happy. Both of our names are on the deed and on all accounts.

Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 17:18     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Cry harder folks.


Aw, cute, OP is fighting back to show that she is not a doormat.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 16:41     Subject: I got called a doormat
I am shocked to hear someone is a great parent but they only see their child 2/7 days out of the week. Yikes. Op sounds delusional quite frankly. This guy doesn’t sound “amazing” at all, but if op is happy that’s ultimately what matters.

I think divorced dads see their kids more than ops husband.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 16:19     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Cry harder folks.


You're an insufferable, annoying ahole and got (kinda mildly...) called out on it. Do better, be best.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 16:18     Subject: I got called a doormat
Isn't the point of a "girls' trip" to get away from housework, husbands and childcare duties? Shouldn't they be out doing Jello shots and flirting with dudes at pool?

Sounds like a boring trip TBH.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 16:14     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Cry harder folks.


Ok so you're entirely too much in the right-leaning online world. That's your main problem.

Explain again how he managed to buy you a house with your money, because I still don't understand it.


Bought a house with her money and put his name on the title.


She got scammed!


She did get scammed. Ergo, she is a doormat.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 15:43     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Cry harder folks.


Ok so you're entirely too much in the right-leaning online world. That's your main problem.

Explain again how he managed to buy you a house with your money, because I still don't understand it.


Bought a house with her money and put his name on the title.


She got scammed!
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2025 15:27     Subject: I got called a doormat
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Cry harder folks.


Oh you really pwned us with that!

You're the one who asked for advice. And some people were mean about it but I think you did get some pretty helpful feedback to help you understand your experience. Nobody's crying except you.