Anonymous wrote:The 4B movement is gaining traction worldwide for a reason. Maybe in 500 years most women will realize that marriage and men are really not worth the effort and sacrifice. And that realization will save our planet. Less marriages, sex and babies are good for our species in the long run. There are too many of us. Not enough opportunities and definitely too much pollution and depletion of resources.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Um quick question - why is OPs daughter wrong to want to be with someone who respects women and has similar values? Why would anyone want to date someone who doesn’t share their values? Who is she a baby or not ready for a relationship? You people are strange - or old wives who have been mistreated for so long you think it’s normal.
But that's not what OP's daughter was sharing. Yes, of course everyone should be with someone who shares similar values, but also in a relationship that respects one another's views and opinions that will definitely at some point not fully align.
What's wrong with OP's daughter is her over the top dramatic blanket statements about all men...that she "lost her faith in men" and that "there are no men worth dating". That she's "scared for her future and wants nothing to do with men."
It's a blanket statement against all men. Ridiculous.
Lol. Kinda. But reading through this thread, she has her work cut out for her. She should certainly avoid the arrogant blow hards posting most of the obnoxious answers in this thread.
Good luck honey...you are going to need it based on this thread!
Yes, OPs daughter is going to need luck. OP has managed to cripple her in a way that prevents her from ever attaining a normal, balanced, and meaningful existence. That’s the crime here-the parenting that manages to result in what OP described originally.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Um quick question - why is OPs daughter wrong to want to be with someone who respects women and has similar values? Why would anyone want to date someone who doesn’t share their values? Who is she a baby or not ready for a relationship? You people are strange - or old wives who have been mistreated for so long you think it’s normal.
But that's not what OP's daughter was sharing. Yes, of course everyone should be with someone who shares similar values, but also in a relationship that respects one another's views and opinions that will definitely at some point not fully align.
What's wrong with OP's daughter is her over the top dramatic blanket statements about all men...that she "lost her faith in men" and that "there are no men worth dating". That she's "scared for her future and wants nothing to do with men."
It's a blanket statement against all men. Ridiculous.
Lol. Kinda. But reading through this thread, she has her work cut out for her. She should certainly avoid the arrogant blow hards posting most of the obnoxious answers in this thread.
Good luck honey...you are going to need it based on this thread!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Um quick question - why is OPs daughter wrong to want to be with someone who respects women and has similar values? Why would anyone want to date someone who doesn’t share their values? Who is she a baby or not ready for a relationship? You people are strange - or old wives who have been mistreated for so long you think it’s normal.
But that's not what OP's daughter was sharing. Yes, of course everyone should be with someone who shares similar values, but also in a relationship that respects one another's views and opinions that will definitely at some point not fully align.
What's wrong with OP's daughter is her over the top dramatic blanket statements about all men...that she "lost her faith in men" and that "there are no men worth dating". That she's "scared for her future and wants nothing to do with men."
It's a blanket statement against all men. Ridiculous.
Lol. Kinda. But reading through this thread, she has her work cut out for her. She should certainly avoid the arrogant blow hards posting most of the obnoxious answers in this thread.
Good luck honey...you are going to need it based on this thread!
Honey? You might be part of the problem. Women have names.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Um quick question - why is OPs daughter wrong to want to be with someone who respects women and has similar values? Why would anyone want to date someone who doesn’t share their values? Who is she a baby or not ready for a relationship? You people are strange - or old wives who have been mistreated for so long you think it’s normal.
But that's not what OP's daughter was sharing. Yes, of course everyone should be with someone who shares similar values, but also in a relationship that respects one another's views and opinions that will definitely at some point not fully align.
What's wrong with OP's daughter is her over the top dramatic blanket statements about all men...that she "lost her faith in men" and that "there are no men worth dating". That she's "scared for her future and wants nothing to do with men."
It's a blanket statement against all men. Ridiculous.
Lol. Kinda. But reading through this thread, she has her work cut out for her. She should certainly avoid the arrogant blow hards posting most of the obnoxious answers in this thread.
Good luck honey...you are going to need it based on this thread!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Um quick question - why is OPs daughter wrong to want to be with someone who respects women and has similar values? Why would anyone want to date someone who doesn’t share their values? Who is she a baby or not ready for a relationship? You people are strange - or old wives who have been mistreated for so long you think it’s normal.
But that's not what OP's daughter was sharing. Yes, of course everyone should be with someone who shares similar values, but also in a relationship that respects one another's views and opinions that will definitely at some point not fully align.
What's wrong with OP's daughter is her over the top dramatic blanket statements about all men...that she "lost her faith in men" and that "there are no men worth dating". That she's "scared for her future and wants nothing to do with men."
It's a blanket statement against all men. Ridiculous.
Anonymous wrote:Um quick question - why is OPs daughter wrong to want to be with someone who respects women and has similar values? Why would anyone want to date someone who doesn’t share their values? Who is she a baby or not ready for a relationship? You people are strange - or old wives who have been mistreated for so long you think it’s normal.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My 25 yr old daughter, who just moved to new city with a new job, has lost her faith in men. After America chose a misogynistic rapist to lead our country, she believes there are no men worth dating. She’s scared for her future and wants nothing to do with men. I am trying to convince her that there are supportive kind men out there (including her own father). Can you share examples of young men fighting for women’s rights?
Omg - this is why liberal women are miserable - creating their own victim-hood to be miserable and unhappy.
Anonymous wrote:The 4B movement is gaining traction worldwide for a reason. Maybe in 500 years most women will realize that marriage and men are really not worth the effort and sacrifice. And that realization will save our planet. Less marriages, sex and babies are good for our species in the long run. There are too many of us. Not enough opportunities and definitely too much pollution and depletion of resources.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My 25 yr old daughter, who just moved to new city with a new job, has lost her faith in men. After America chose a misogynistic rapist to lead our country, she believes there are no men worth dating. She’s scared for her future and wants nothing to do with men. I am trying to convince her that there are supportive kind men out there (including her own father). Can you share examples of young men fighting for women’s rights?
Yes. They are in the US military and are either fighting for or willing to fight for the rights of women as well as men. However, your daughter is not worthy of them.
Have you ever met some members of the military?
Anonymous wrote:My 25 yr old daughter, who just moved to new city with a new job, has lost her faith in men. After America chose a misogynistic rapist to lead our country, she believes there are no men worth dating. She’s scared for her future and wants nothing to do with men. I am trying to convince her that there are supportive kind men out there (including her own father). Can you share examples of young men fighting for women’s rights?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are a gazillion men that voted for Harris. And for those that didn't, at that age point - 25 and presumably college educated - they are unlikely to be hardcore Trumpers. More likely, is that they are "libertarian" or "pox on both houses" or non-voters entirely. I 100 percent agree to avoid any enthusiastic 25 year old Trump supporters. But among college educated young men, Trump enthusiasm is not typically a thing. But what is real is that there is a majority of young men that do feel disconnected from today's Democratic Party - hispanics, asians, whites, black men, working class, middle class, straight. And it's not at all access to reproductive care for women that's driving it. It's the rest of it. They've been told they are the enemy by progressives their entire lives. So they don't identify with the Democratic Party today.
This +100. My college educated 20-25 yr old DS voted for Trump.
I brought him up well to respect women, hold doors open for them...let them leave an elevator ahead of him. He may not be perfect, but he is a gentleman. But what PP said above is 100% truth. Many women appreciate the gentleman's "southern hospitality"....his current girlfriend included. He is pro-choice...but this election was about so much more than that.
If OP's daughter is a radical feminist, then no...she isn't going to do well with someone like my DS. She needs to find someone willing to put up with radical feminism. Which is definitely a thing and has turned off many men of all races. Just like women don't want the extreme machismo men who expect a woman to be pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen...men also don't want the extreme radical feminists who go to the opposite extreme. Most young men, including my DS, simply want to find someone who is willing to meet them in the middle.
The Democratic Party is where all the radical feminists are and that's fine - you do you. But don't criticize young men for wanting a more traditional relationship, for choosing to open doors for ladies. FWIW - my DS cooks and cleans (not always the best tasting or the cleanest though lol), knows to respect women and wants what most young men want...a good job and a wife and family some day.
If OP's daughter is so distraught she should understand that picking a date simply based on who they voted for is ridiculous. Period.
This post sounds like it came from the 1950s. Can you please define what you mean by “radical feminism” and why OP’s daughter is “radical” because she wants date a man who believes women should have rights? I don’t think OP even used the word abortion btw. Let me guess, you can’t wait to put Project 25 into play and put women back in their place.