Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Would have loved to know the the parent community is full of status obsessed people only interested in those that can help them climb socially or professionally or both. Nice to you until they get into the club you helped them get into then drop you. Those types.
Which club?
Anonymous wrote:Would have loved to know the the parent community is full of status obsessed people only interested in those that can help them climb socially or professionally or both. Nice to you until they get into the club you helped them get into then drop you. Those types.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Wish I had known that there were so many vocal Trump supporting families and country club members.
+ 100 This and that they and their kids are polarizing, divisive, exclusive - ruin the cohesiveness of the school culture.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:10000% No one will say it’s a bad class before you get there and there is no way to know beforehand either.
Everyone said it was a GREAT class and it seems to be great for athletic kids and their tight knit wine moms. The nerdy kids keep trickling away and leaving, miserable.
And yet for my other child it is a great class. People said the parents were “standoffish” but the kids are all just fine.
Can you tell from the accepted students' admission events whether the parents are nice? This is the one thing that concerns me the most: the community and the parents.
Unfortunately, the accepted student events tend to be pretty big and there's not a lot of mingle with the other accepted students' parents--or at least this was our experience for high school. You could sort of "profile" other parents based on what they were wearing, I guess, but that's not exactly a great barometer of what the school is like. For our K-8, the accepted students event was much smaller and we did actually talk with the parents and you could tell who was likely to accept and who was still on the fence/leaning elsewhere. It worked out that the parents who were accepted were all the people we liked.
Yes, we have only been to smaller schools so far. It is odd that, even though I try to build connections, I haven't gotten to chat with any other families who are also touring the school. The tours and open houses seem to discourage connection between the parents. Everyone looks so tense. I just really wish we could talk to them.
Anonymous wrote:That “affinity groups” can be alienating to those who don’t identify with one and don’t wish to conform just in order to not be left out. IMO they should be before or after school extracurricular groups and not part of the school day.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:10000% No one will say it’s a bad class before you get there and there is no way to know beforehand either.
Everyone said it was a GREAT class and it seems to be great for athletic kids and their tight knit wine moms. The nerdy kids keep trickling away and leaving, miserable.
And yet for my other child it is a great class. People said the parents were “standoffish” but the kids are all just fine.
Can you tell from the accepted students' admission events whether the parents are nice? This is the one thing that concerns me the most: the community and the parents.
Unfortunately, the accepted student events tend to be pretty big and there's not a lot of mingle with the other accepted students' parents--or at least this was our experience for high school. You could sort of "profile" other parents based on what they were wearing, I guess, but that's not exactly a great barometer of what the school is like. For our K-8, the accepted students event was much smaller and we did actually talk with the parents and you could tell who was likely to accept and who was still on the fence/leaning elsewhere. It worked out that the parents who were accepted were all the people we liked.
Anonymous wrote:
Can you tell from the accepted students' admission events whether the parents are nice? This is the one thing that concerns me the most: the community and the parents.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:10000% No one will say it’s a bad class before you get there and there is no way to know beforehand either.
Everyone said it was a GREAT class and it seems to be great for athletic kids and their tight knit wine moms. The nerdy kids keep trickling away and leaving, miserable.
And yet for my other child it is a great class. People said the parents were “standoffish” but the kids are all just fine.
Can you tell from the accepted students' admission events whether the parents are nice? This is the one thing that concerns me the most: the community and the parents.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:10000% No one will say it’s a bad class before you get there and there is no way to know beforehand either.
Everyone said it was a GREAT class and it seems to be great for athletic kids and their tight knit wine moms. The nerdy kids keep trickling away and leaving, miserable.
And yet for my other child it is a great class. People said the parents were “standoffish” but the kids are all just fine.
Anonymous wrote:10000% No one will say it’s a bad class before you get there and there is no way to know beforehand either.