Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some women have great husbands and great sex partners. For some women it's the same person. Other women think( hope, believe) that sex with their AP is the missing thing in their lives. These women are gamblers. We want it all great partner a great dad great in bed emotionally supportive and all. But if sex is so important for these women they will argue that in fact it should be a package. They will argue that there is no such thing as a great husband but zero sex life. Sex is everything for these women.

And a lot of women who might describe themselves as “high drive’ are really just high drama; they are broken, compulsive and have an outsized need for male attention/approval. They long for thrills mixed with some retro Hollywood idea of glamour: Champagne, luxe hotel rooms, expensive gifts, etc. I don’t doubt there are high drive women, but studies reliably show most women don’t have orgasms from sex (can’t climax from penetration and their partner either inept and unwilling at oral and digital OR the women are anxious it takes too long and fake it.)

Heh. None of this rings true. Actual sexual drive is a physical/hormonal need. DH always gets me there, and never through PIV. I would describe myself as extremely high drive but not high drama- I’ve been married to the same guy for 17 years and I lost my virginity to him.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some women have great husbands and great sex partners. For some women it's the same person. Other women think( hope, believe) that sex with their AP is the missing thing in their lives. These women are gamblers. We want it all great partner a great dad great in bed emotionally supportive and all. But if sex is so important for these women they will argue that in fact it should be a package. They will argue that there is no such thing as a great husband but zero sex life. Sex is everything for these women.

And a lot of women who might describe themselves as “high drive’ are really just high drama; they are broken, compulsive and have an outsized need for male attention/approval. They long for thrills mixed with some retro Hollywood idea of glamour: Champagne, luxe hotel rooms, expensive gifts, etc. I don’t doubt there are high drive women, but studies reliably show most women don’t have orgasms from sex (can’t climax from penetration and their partner either inept and unwilling at oral and digital OR the women are anxious it takes too long and fake it.)

You are misinformed. High drive in my 40s, never fake it.

All the women I have been have. When you do PIV it's not a straight line motion. You need to guide your penis taking her feedback into account until she tells you that's the spot. Stay in that spot take your time look her in the eyes enjoy the moment and tell.me.if she fails to climax.if she is the silent type then I don't know. You need feedback. There is no GPS there.

As a guy I think women are more high drive than men and it's not even close. If women were free to act on their sexual impulses like men, I think we would be running and hiding. Women can have sex 5 times times a day and be ready the next day. How many men can do that?

I once had a high drive girlfriend and let me tell.yiu she was ready to f**k anytime anywhere. It didn't matter if she felt disgusting, on her periods, sick, etc no she wanted to f**k all.the time. Honestly when we broke up I was happy lol. My masculinity took a hit bro, I couldn't keep up. I am.jusy being honest on this anonymous forum lol

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some women have great husbands and great sex partners. For some women it's the same person. Other women think( hope, believe) that sex with their AP is the missing thing in their lives. These women are gamblers. We want it all great partner a great dad great in bed emotionally supportive and all. But if sex is so important for these women they will argue that in fact it should be a package. They will argue that there is no such thing as a great husband but zero sex life. Sex is everything for these women.

And a lot of women who might describe themselves as “high drive’ are really just high drama; they are broken, compulsive and have an outsized need for male attention/approval. They long for thrills mixed with some retro Hollywood idea of glamour: Champagne, luxe hotel rooms, expensive gifts, etc. I don’t doubt there are high drive women, but studies reliably show most women don’t have orgasms from sex (can’t climax from penetration and their partner either inept and unwilling at oral and digital OR the women are anxious it takes too long and fake it.)

You are misinformed. High drive in my 40s, never fake it.

Anonymous wrote:Some women have great husbands and great sex partners. For some women it's the same person. Other women think( hope, believe) that sex with their AP is the missing thing in their lives. These women are gamblers. We want it all great partner a great dad great in bed emotionally supportive and all. But if sex is so important for these women they will argue that in fact it should be a package. They will argue that there is no such thing as a great husband but zero sex life. Sex is everything for these women.

And a lot of women who might describe themselves as “high drive’ are really just high drama; they are broken, compulsive and have an outsized need for male attention/approval. They long for thrills mixed with some retro Hollywood idea of glamour: Champagne, luxe hotel rooms, expensive gifts, etc. I don’t doubt there are high drive women, but studies reliably show most women don’t have orgasms from sex (can’t climax from penetration and their partner either inept and unwilling at oral and digital OR the women are anxious it takes too long and fake it.)