Complex ptsd

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People in therapy

OMG! Yes! Most people do NOT need to go to therapy. Going to therapy is not something to be proud of and is not something that should be talked about publicly. I have several friends who go to therapy and I have to try not to visibly cringe when they talk about it. Sometimes I want to scream at them, "Stop talking about your therapist!"

Going to therapy IS something to be proud of. It means people are being proactive about their mental health which is a good thing. People should talk about it publicly because in the past there was stigma about such things and there shouldn’t be. It is in the public interest to encourage and normalize therapy for those who need it.

- people who appropriate the ethnicity/culture of their spouse and preen around promoting every cliche of said culture. FYI: your in-laws don’t like you.
- people who think their spouse’s profession somehow makes them the same profession. “As the wife of a surgeon…”

Anonymous wrote:Pregnant women on social media!

We get it, you’re pregnant! We don’t need daily belly pics complete with dramatic belly rubs. We see your belly, you don’t need to point it out.

I’ll give a pass for first time moms. But for the moms who are pregnant with baby #4, you’re annoying as all hell.

Anonymous wrote:So in conclusion, the entire world is annoying and anyone who has a passion, interest,.or concern about something and talks about it a lot is annoying.

Crazy, right? Only on DCUM.

Pregnant women on social media!

We get it, you’re pregnant! We don’t need daily belly pics complete with dramatic belly rubs. We see your belly, you don’t need to point it out.

Thirsty moms and dads living vicariously thru their kids.
One parent videotaped their college bound daughter leaving the house, in the car and then walking to her impeccably decorated dorm room. This was posted for all of us to see on social. In addition to photos of every single thing their precious kids have done, including their baby who farted and had to post it with flowers photoshopped coming out of its diaper.

Pronoun people / Trans LBGTQ advocates - live your life. I hope there's more to it than your sexuality.

People constantly talking about their "neurodivergence" when they're not.

Clean eating / Clean beauty people. They whole "Clean'" verbiage grates.

Nurses and I’m a nurse. And don’t get me started on certain nurses of social media. Not the ones providing good info. The vapid ones dancing on TikTok. Or ones who are more concerned about their Influencer status but don’t actually have much nursing experience.

Being MAGA, Trump cult

Being anti-Trump.

I’m a very political person, but I can’t stand people who make their whole identity or political ideology about Trump.

Honestly, there are so many people out there who don’t understand the art of conversing. They don’t understand that it’s a give-and-take of multiple individuals. They literally just want to talk about themselves the whole time and have no idea how to reciprocate and ask about others. That’s probably why it seems like they make their interests their entire personality. You end up finding out all about what makes them tick, and they know nothing about you.

If possible, I try to avoid these people because they’re exhausting and usually boring.

Anonymous wrote:Having "anxiety"

+100
Most of us have some anxiety. Lots of us a lot of anxiety. None of us wants to hear about yours all the time.

Having "anxiety"

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ah DCUM, we’re annoyed at literally all of humankind.

+1 they probably want to be like them, but since they can they are annoyed.

*can’t

Anonymous wrote:Ah DCUM, we’re annoyed at literally all of humankind.

+1 they probably want to be like them, but since they can they are annoyed.