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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't the grandparents booked their own first class tickets? Was first class sold out or did they just not want to spend the money?

I would be so pissed. My FIL tries stuff like this all the time. We stopped vacationing with him many years ago because he was always doing these shakedowns.

OP here. My dad sounds just like your FIL. He is super controlling, demands respect, and throws a temper tantrum anytime he doesn’t get what he wants. He has alienated dozens of family members over the years. He is a textbook narcissist.

OP, you obviously don’t like your parents. Why did you even invite them to accompany your family on this trip?

You should have offered the nicer seats to your parents at the beginning. I think you’re embarrassed that you didn’t do the right thing to start with and now you’re digging in your heels.

Who is paying for the cruise? Are your parents paying their own way or are you all paying for that?

Anonymous wrote:Kids and grandparents together in 1st.
Parents in coach, or pay for upgrade. Problem solved. OP, you aren't poor, are you?

Ludicrous.

Anonymous wrote:All these people talking about the elderly grandparents. I am 37 and my grandparents are in their 80’s. These people have teen grandkids. They could be 50.

. In DCUMlandia there’s no way they’re under 65 lol

All these people talking about the elderly grandparents. I am 37 and my grandparents are in their 80’s. These people have teen grandkids. They could be 50.

Anonymous wrote:Agree that you should be giving the first class seats to your parents, but it also rude for them to demand it.

This.

Anonymous wrote:Sixteen and fourteen year olds are fine in coach.

I'd definitely put my parents in first class so they are more comfortable.

So are older folks. They do not need first class seats, they want them. They are being very selfish. I see no problem in them asking or offering the kids an incentive to switch, but demanding them is ridiculous.

Anonymous wrote:Kids and grandparents together in 1st.
Parents in coach, or pay for upgrade. Problem solved. OP, you aren't poor, are you?

+1.

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Anonymous wrote:My kids would have offered to give up their seats on their own.

Things people say who have never been in the position.

Well, I was in a similar position, but no kids. DH and I gave up our seats.

Not the same at all. I'd give up my seats for my parents. I would not give up my kids seats.

Then that’s why OP and DH should do. Kids and grandparents in first class, DH and OP in coach.

+1

Kids and grandparents together in 1st.
Parents in coach, or pay for upgrade. Problem solved. OP, you aren't poor, are you?

Anonymous wrote:Just make sure your son Kevin is accounted for before the adults go to their first-class seats.

He’ll be fine home alone. He’s a clever boy.

Just make sure your son Kevin is accounted for before the adults go to their first-class seats.

Anonymous wrote:My kids would have offered the seats without being asked.

But I also think it is rude to book kids in business class in the first place.

Why is it rude?

Anonymous wrote:My kids would have offered the seats without being asked.

But I also think it is rude to book kids in business class in the first place.

What’s rude about it?

Anonymous wrote:My kids would have offered the seats without being asked.

But I also think it is rude to book kids in business class in the first place.

Why? Most of us travel as a family.

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Anonymous wrote:This speaks to American culture.

Can you imagine this dynamic in an Asian family?

There is no respect for family especially the older family members.

Name another culture where this would even be an issue?

I am not American. My parents would no way ever expect my children, their grandchildren to give up seats we bought for them. If we offered, they would refuse and probably be insulted. Then again, they buy the tickets in the class they wish to travel, which is either business or economy plus.

Asian is a broad term, so try and narrow it down a bit.

Asian parents would pay first class for everyone