Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s normal to say “pass to Ava!” Or “shoot!” At that age.
No, it is not. Rude parents. I would just yell back - Ava, don't listen to these rude parents. Listen to your coach.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:An option would be to video record the parent(s) that are saying/yelling negative comments to the player(s) on the same team. Send the video to the coach, team manager and the club director.
I like this but I’d also send it to their boss.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:An option would be to video record the parent(s) that are saying/yelling negative comments to the player(s) on the same team. Send the video to the coach, team manager and the club director.
I like this but I’d also send it to their boss.
Even better
Anonymous wrote:It’s normal to say “pass to Ava!” Or “shoot!” At that age.
Anonymous wrote:U15B team had a player use the f bomb at an opposing team parent. Ref gave the kid a red card.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you put your kid on public display you have to be open to criticism not threats but critics have all rights to boo or cheer the same. you approaching the critic is actual a form of assault and can be subject to arrest. if you cant handle the boos keep your kid home but if you come out in public your subject to public opinion.
Just remember that any parent can be packing heat and might not hesitate to shut you up with it. If you can’t handle it, then keep your mouth shut and stay home.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP this is unacceptable. Parent of two that played Divison 1.
If anyone criticized my kids at any age they'd have to deal with all four foot ten of me and it would not be pretty.
Also, I never had my kids with coaches that screamed at kids. Never. Walked away twice never looked back.
+1. I’m a parent of two boys that are also playing D1 soccer.
If anyone on our team that criticizes my boys during their youth soccer games, they would have to deal with my husband who is 6’6” 270 lbs and former D1 football player. There are many games that their uncles would attend who are as equally large and strong. It’s interesting that no parents ever criticize my boys back then even though they were late bloomers/growth spurts. I don’t know if the other parents were just decent human beings or were just too scared to piss off my husband.
Lady you would be surprised how many people pack heat and are not afraid to use it thats a huge equalizer to 6'6" 270lbs
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yelling at kids when they make a mistake is completely wrong especially when yelling at players on your DC’s team. Did your mother teach you “if you can’t say anything positive, keep your mouth shut”?
Yes, it is frustrating when your DC’s teammates sucks, but it’s not appropriate whatsoever to comment anything negative.
Snowflake. My kid needs teammates who don't suck. And if your kid sucks they need to hear it so they either shape up or ship out.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:An option would be to video record the parent(s) that are saying/yelling negative comments to the player(s) on the same team. Send the video to the coach, team manager and the club director.
I like this but I’d also send it to their boss.
Even better
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:An option would be to video record the parent(s) that are saying/yelling negative comments to the player(s) on the same team. Send the video to the coach, team manager and the club director.
I like this but I’d also send it to their boss.
Anonymous wrote:An option would be to video record the parent(s) that are saying/yelling negative comments to the player(s) on the same team. Send the video to the coach, team manager and the club director.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Criticizing a play is nowhere close to a threat. if you tell me to shut up or else thats a threat. Restraining orders will only deter not prevent.
Statements made to kids with the intent to harass or annoy is harassment. Doesn’t have to be a direct threat. Just need to be repetitive. And you can tell someone to stop without threatening them.