Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 14:00     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:JLo is a piece if shit, Ben is a piece of shit.

At least Ben’s kids will be okay. JLo’s really don’t have a chance with a coke head dad, and a narcissist mom


JLos kids seem fine. She keeps them out of the spotlight and she has a great relationship with her own mom. That’s very grounding for children of celebrities.


I don't think she necessarily keeps them out of the spotlight though....I know more about emme than I think i should (that she wrote a book, colored her hair blue, worries about her mom, was in mom's documentary talking about missing her father because parents were divorcing, etc. ) Her son is less known....both children were on the cover of people magazine when they were born...and there were recent pics of their outings with afflects kids trick or treating...that's not really keeping them out of the spotlight. They're on her Instagram too
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 13:58     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Garner is the winner in this.

All of these women that want this awful addict who is 'blameless' in his own eyes, they can have him.

Garner protects her kids and doesn't bash their dad in public. Class Act, especially for one who has been through what she has been through with him (him banging their nanny, incoherent, addiction and gambling and benders, etc).


she might be a moral winner but having your ex tell the world that he had to drink to bear being married to you is not anyone's idea of winning.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 13:55     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Seems the same to me.

Brad: Because of my marriage to Jen, I sat on the couch and smoked pot.
Ben: Because of my marriage to Jen, I sat on the couch and drank scotch.


Thank you. Their defenders really seem eager to argue that "He didn't mean it that way," when what's really happening is that "He didn't realize the implications of what he said, and he really, really didn't want any of us to notice, either." But we did.


Worse than that. More like "He knew and enjoyed the implications of what he said, but hoped that by 'implying' and not 'saying,' he could absolve himself AND avoid any blowback."
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 12:40     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Seems the same to me.

Brad: Because of my marriage to Jen, I sat on the couch and smoked pot.
Ben: Because of my marriage to Jen, I sat on the couch and drank scotch.


Thank you. Their defenders really seem eager to argue that "He didn't mean it that way," when what's really happening is that "He didn't realize the implications of what he said, and he really, really didn't want any of us to notice, either." But we did.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 12:33     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:So revealing that Ben shares that HIS feelings were hurt by the backlash. Never mind that Jen Garner's feelings may have been hurt. Very self-focused way of thinking and feeling.



Classic narc!
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 12:26     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:How long until he feels trapped with jlo?


well, if he is relapsing, not much longer
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 10:09     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
How long until he feels trapped with jlo?
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 09:58     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Garner is the winner in this.

All of these women that want this awful addict who is 'blameless' in his own eyes, they can have him.

Garner protects her kids and doesn't bash their dad in public. Class Act, especially for one who has been through what she has been through with him (him banging their nanny, incoherent, addiction and gambling and benders, etc).


Oh and she even pushed to get him help, and enlisted his lifelong friend Damon--all to keep him healthy and sound for their kids.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 09:58     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Garner is the winner in this.

All of these women that want this awful addict who is 'blameless' in his own eyes, they can have him.

Garner protects her kids and doesn't bash their dad in public. Class Act, especially for one who has been through what she has been through with him (him banging their nanny, incoherent, addiction and gambling and benders, etc).
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 09:58     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
So revealing that Ben shares that HIS feelings were hurt by the backlash. Never mind that Jen Garner's feelings may have been hurt. Very self-focused way of thinking and feeling.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 09:54     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:JLo is a piece if shit, Ben is a piece of shit.

At least Ben’s kids will be okay. JLo’s really don’t have a chance with a coke head dad, and a narcissist mom


JLos kids seem fine. She keeps them out of the spotlight and she has a great relationship with her own mom. That’s very grounding for children of celebrities.


J Lo's mom and their dad seem to be doing a fine job of raising those kids. Leaves time for J Lo to work and have the freedom to travel and play with Ben.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 09:33     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:JLo is a piece if shit, Ben is a piece of shit.

At least Ben’s kids will be okay. JLo’s really don’t have a chance with a coke head dad, and a narcissist mom


JLos kids seem fine. She keeps them out of the spotlight and she has a great relationship with her own mom. That’s very grounding for children of celebrities.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 09:29     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The Stern/Affleck interview reminds me of the interview Brad Pitt gave where he shaded his marriage to Jennifer Aniston and blamed it for his pot-smoking.

"I started to get sick of myself sitting on a couch, holding a joint, hiding out. It started feeling pathetic. It became very clear to me that I was intent on trying to find a movie about an interesting life, but I wasn’t living an interesting life myself." "I think that my marriage [to actress Jennifer Aniston] had something to do with it. Trying to pretend the marriage was something that it wasn’t.”



Sure, classic narcissist play.


I think it’s different.

It’s okay to admit your marriage isn’t working out. Brad didn’t blame Jen. He just said the marriage was over/not fulfilling. People fall out of love. Whatever.

Ben’s comments were far worse.


Seems the same to me.

Brad: Because of my marriage to Jen, I sat on the couch and smoked pot.
Ben: Because of my marriage to Jen, I sat on the couch and drank scotch.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2021 09:07     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: Ben Affleck has the behavior of a cokehead, this isn't just alcoholism .


I was thinking “hookers and blow” also.


Coke head are JLo’s type.


Is Puff Diddy like that?


I have often thought puff daddy was the true love of her life . They met while both were NYC teenagers, he was attending an all boys catholic school, she was attending her all girls catholic school . Both will reconnect In the mid 90s after he founded his eponymous record label which will go on to make him a millionaire many times over thanks to the success of his famous signee—Notorious B.I.G. .

The same puff daddy was the mastermind behind her first and most successful album to date titled On the 6 which sold over three million units . However, in NYC, it was known fact that he was a serial cheater . There were plenty of stories of lopez going to hotels and banging on doors hoping to catch him with groupies. One can't deny that she doesn't have that kind of deep history with Affleck.


PP here. Thanks for posting this bit of info. Very interesting.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2021 21:44     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: Ben Affleck has the behavior of a cokehead, this isn't just alcoholism .


I was thinking “hookers and blow” also.


Coke head are JLo’s type.


Is Puff Diddy like that?


I have often thought puff daddy was the true love of her life . They met while both were NYC teenagers, he was attending an all boys catholic school, she was attending her all girls catholic school . Both will reconnect In the mid 90s after he founded his eponymous record label which will go on to make him a millionaire many times over thanks to the success of his famous signee—Notorious B.I.G. .

The same puff daddy was the mastermind behind her first and most successful album to date titled On the 6 which sold over three million units . However, in NYC, it was known fact that he was a serial cheater . There were plenty of stories of lopez going to hotels and banging on doors hoping to catch him with groupies. One can't deny that she doesn't have that kind of deep history with Affleck.