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Anonymous wrote:They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.

Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them?

And who thought he'd be a good husband and father for her kids?

Nothing is ever a man's fault, huh?

Who said that? It's why women should choose wisely. Repeated dissolution of relationships indicates a big ole problem with the one choosing all these troubled, irresponsible men.

Marc Anthony chased JLo her entire life until she married him.

And yes, you are implying that nothing is ever a man's fault.

Nope. Saying pick a guy who won't be doing things and engaging in behaviors that are his fault. Pick the kind of loving, kind, and supportive guy who will make a great partner. They're out there, I promise you.

Sure there are! Maybe 1 for every half million women. Not great for a woman like JLo who can't be alone.

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Anonymous wrote:They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.

Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them?

And who thought he'd be a good husband and father for her kids?

Nothing is ever a man's fault, huh?

Who said that? It's why women should choose wisely. Repeated dissolution of relationships indicates a big ole problem with the one choosing all these troubled, irresponsible men.

Marc Anthony chased JLo her entire life until she married him.

And yes, you are implying that nothing is ever a man's fault.

So if a loser chases you your entire life, you're going to marry him? Be smarter than that.

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Anonymous wrote:They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.

Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them?

And who thought he'd be a good husband and father for her kids?

Nothing is ever a man's fault, huh?

Who said that? It's why women should choose wisely. Repeated dissolution of relationships indicates a big ole problem with the one choosing all these troubled, irresponsible men.

Marc Anthony chased JLo her entire life until she married him.

And yes, you are implying that nothing is ever a man's fault.

Nope. Saying pick a guy who won't be doing things and engaging in behaviors that are his fault. Pick the kind of loving, kind, and supportive guy who will make a great partner. They're out there, I promise you.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Maybe she wants to work hard and doesn’t want to stay in a marriage unhappy. Jennifer can retire now, and never work again but not working didn’t help her relationship during COVID nor did it help when she was on maternal leave for like 2 years. She was still cheated on by Marc Anthony and ARod even when she was at home as a stay at home mom.

She just loves cheaters and shitty guys. She left one cheater when another cheater contacted her (Ben).

Why on earth would she think a man who slept with a stripper and dumped her three days before their wedding was worthy of taking back ?

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Anonymous wrote:They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.

Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them?

And who thought he'd be a good husband and father for her kids?

Nothing is ever a man's fault, huh?

Who said that? It's why women should choose wisely. Repeated dissolution of relationships indicates a big ole problem with the one choosing all these troubled, irresponsible men.

Marc Anthony chased JLo her entire life until she married him.

And yes, you are implying that nothing is ever a man's fault.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Moms don't need to work THAT hard. Moms don't even really need to work at all. Should moms even have credit cards in their own names? Might make them feel too independent. Take their focus away from the family. And hey, why was she credited in her latest film as Jennifer Lopez, and not Jennifer Lopez-Affleck, or Jennifer Affleck, or Mrs. Ben Affleck?

Did you read? The comment says working moms AND dads. If you think her life is great, and she thinks her life is great, then all is well!! She sure doesn't seem happy...

You know what I *didn't* read? Any comment about Ben putting work above family. You know what I *did* read? A comment about Jennifer putting work (and her looks- many people seem to be very jealous of her looks, because they keep mentioning her looks) above family.

Perhaps you should read the title of this thread.

Yes, the title is about analyzing Jennifer Lopez. And some of the "analysis" within the thread is criticizing her for working, as most mothers do. Most mothers aren't entertainers, but just as being in court is part of a lawyer mom's job duties, dress rehearsals and TV appearances are part of an entertainer mom's jobs duties.

If criticizing a mom for performing work-related tasks is "analysis," it's some rather misogynistic analysis.

There are 24 hours in a day. Each person has to decide what's most important. Like it or not, parents need to figure out priorities. Having multiple boyfriends, fiances, husbands, marriages, divorces, and moves, plus the number of hours JLo puts towards her career is a public demonstration of her priorities. Obviously, so far, relationships are not true commitments for her. They've all fallen apart. That's not great for kids.

Yes, it is clear she has unhealthy attachment patterns that have not been healed through therapy, despite her making a documentary that was ostensibly about that (she claimed the "greatest love story" was the self love she discovered through therapy).

It's true that the many dysfunctional relationships in all likliehood have a negative impact on her children. The same is true for Ben.

But what's odd is when her literal job duties get thrown in the ring as further evidence of her wrongdoing- a PP said she put looks and career above family. There's no evidence she is so addicted to makeup she is neglecting family duties. There is no evidence she is so addicted to work she is neglecting family duties. In fact, to the contrary, the given reason for her cancelled tour is to devote more time to family. You can believe that or not, but she is pictured often with her children and with her stepchildren, attending family events and just spending time together.

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Anonymous wrote:They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.

Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them?

And who thought he'd be a good husband and father for her kids?

Nothing is ever a man's fault, huh?

Who said that? It's why women should choose wisely. Repeated dissolution of relationships indicates a big ole problem with the one choosing all these troubled, irresponsible men.

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Anonymous wrote:They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.

Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them?

And who thought he'd be a good husband and father for her kids?

Nothing is ever a man's fault, huh?

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Anonymous wrote:They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.

Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them?

And who thought he'd be a good husband and father for her kids?

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Moms don't need to work THAT hard. Moms don't even really need to work at all. Should moms even have credit cards in their own names? Might make them feel too independent. Take their focus away from the family. And hey, why was she credited in her latest film as Jennifer Lopez, and not Jennifer Lopez-Affleck, or Jennifer Affleck, or Mrs. Ben Affleck?

Did you read? The comment says working moms AND dads. If you think her life is great, and she thinks her life is great, then all is well!! She sure doesn't seem happy...

You know what I *didn't* read? Any comment about Ben putting work above family. You know what I *did* read? A comment about Jennifer putting work (and her looks- many people seem to be very jealous of her looks, because they keep mentioning her looks) above family.

Perhaps you should read the title of this thread.

Yes, the title is about analyzing Jennifer Lopez. And some of the "analysis" within the thread is criticizing her for working, as most mothers do. Most mothers aren't entertainers, but just as being in court is part of a lawyer mom's job duties, dress rehearsals and TV appearances are part of an entertainer mom's jobs duties.

If criticizing a mom for performing work-related tasks is "analysis," it's some rather misogynistic analysis.

There are 24 hours in a day. Each person has to decide what's most important. Like it or not, parents need to figure out priorities. Having multiple boyfriends, fiances, husbands, marriages, divorces, and moves, plus the number of hours JLo puts towards her career is a public demonstration of her priorities. Obviously, so far, relationships are not true commitments for her. They've all fallen apart. That's not great for kids.

Anonymous wrote:They all have had multiple marriages. They marry and discard spouses again and again. All three of them—both Jens and Ben. They all seem to court the paparazzi. Even JG is focused on her stupid pretend cooking show. Big lifestyles, big mistakes.

Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them?

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Moms don't need to work THAT hard. Moms don't even really need to work at all. Should moms even have credit cards in their own names? Might make them feel too independent. Take their focus away from the family. And hey, why was she credited in her latest film as Jennifer Lopez, and not Jennifer Lopez-Affleck, or Jennifer Affleck, or Mrs. Ben Affleck?

Did you read? The comment says working moms AND dads. If you think her life is great, and she thinks her life is great, then all is well!! She sure doesn't seem happy...

You know what I *didn't* read? Any comment about Ben putting work above family. You know what I *did* read? A comment about Jennifer putting work (and her looks- many people seem to be very jealous of her looks, because they keep mentioning her looks) above family.

Perhaps you should read the title of this thread.

Yes, the title is about analyzing Jennifer Lopez. And some of the "analysis" within the thread is criticizing her for working, as most mothers do. Most mothers aren't entertainers, but just as being in court is part of a lawyer mom's job duties, dress rehearsals and TV appearances are part of an entertainer mom's jobs duties.

If criticizing a mom for performing work-related tasks is "analysis," it's some rather misogynistic analysis.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

Since I'm a woman from Florida and have Latinas in my family, your comment is ridiculous. I don't care enough to hate an entertainer. I do think kids need stabiliry and security for their emotional development. That's not the same as wealth.

"Some of my best friends are Latinas! I can't be racist!"

+1 Are people still using this justification? This thread is full of racists and misogynist.

So weak and overused.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

Since I'm a woman from Florida and have Latinas in my family, your comment is ridiculous. I don't care enough to hate an entertainer. I do think kids need stabilit[b]y and security for their emotional development. That's not the same as wealth.

"Some of my best friends are Latinas! I can't be racist!"

The bolded is what matters most to kids.

I'm not seeing any words bolded.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

Since I'm a woman from Florida and have Latinas in my family, your comment is ridiculous. I don't care enough to hate an entertainer. I do think kids need stabiliry and security for their emotional development. That's not the same as wealth.

"Some of my best friends are Latinas! I can't be racist!"

+1 Are people still using this justification? This thread is full of racists and misogynist.