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Anonymous wrote:Can't bother reading through all of this but has this been answered, how far along were you when you found out he was cheating?

You're about 3 months now, so how long have you been sitting on this?

I found out around 10 weeks. I was suspicious shortly after finding out we were pregnant. He got sloppy. He occasionally goes out of town for work we usually talk in the evenings. All of a sudden I couldn't get in touch with him he would say he was so exhausted he went right to sleep. When I first questioned him he yelled at me to " knock it off" " stop being so insecure". I feel like he gaslit me. One time he smelled different. I chalked it up to a shampoo he used at the hotel. Two of our friends told me to relax he was just busy and wouldn't do that to me especially during covid. I didn't sit on it at all. When he yelled at me I dropped it.

Anonymous wrote:Quickly marry someone else. Children born within a marriage are considered children of the marriage regardless of the DNA. And whatever you do don’t move to a liberal state. People are right — judges will rule for the dad if there is no other dad.

Anonymous wrote:At 39 aborting and hoping for another pregnancy very risky.

Anonymous wrote:"To begin with, the answer is clear. If there was any constitutional issue resolved by the Civil War, it is that there is no right to secede." -Antonin Scalia

This conversation is stupid, but if they really feel that strongly about it they can go for round 2. Otherwise this is irrelevant.