Anonymous wrote:I too am amazed at what is permitted to be posted on these boards This question is racist in many ways. Makes you wonder the agenda here. A good test is to reverse the question and ask if a minority woman should be permitted to take a white mans last name. And before you say it isnt the same consider the vile comments being made against jews on columbias campus as we sit here. Imagine if these comments were made about African americans or homosexuals. The lack of character and common sense made in the name of diversity is astounding. The only good news is the stupidity and hypocrisy is being exposed
Anonymous wrote:Just keep signing away your identity, ladies.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP is racist.
But women shouldn’t change their names no matter the circumstances.
Why exactly is OP simply asking a simple question about women marrying ethnics somehow “racist” in your small brain?
Do you get hyper-triggered over everything, PP?
Anonymous wrote:OP is racist.
But women shouldn’t change their names no matter the circumstances.
Anonymous wrote:Is it bad form for a lily-white American woman who marries a man with an obviously Latino/Asian/Middle Eastern-sounding name to change to her husband's name or should she keep her own (anglo-American) surname? Of course some women today prefer keeping their maiden names anyway.
I don't know why, but something just rubs me as cultural appropriation or faking diversity when someone like Larla Jones gets married and becomes Larla Rodriguez, Larla Zhang, or Larla Al-Habib. It's like pretending not to be white.
Anonymous wrote:I'm a white woman who married a Japanese man and I'm so tired of the jokes about a small penis. Yes, it is smaller but we make do. I don't care that I'm missing out on the meat train because I got plenty in college and that's not what I want now.