Anonymous wrote:Its rare to get my wife to wear even non-stained underwear to bed. Lingerie just gets used once and then goes in the drawer. On the plus side, she’s very fit and looks great naked.

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

Welcome to the party as misery loves company!! Yes, from's a man's perspective, I certainly appreciate a bit of effort when the lady I'm with wears a matched set of bra/panties as certainly sets the mood... It doesn't have to be Journelle or Intimissi, so don't go broke...

OK, it is really weird to me that a man would know lingerie brands.

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Anonymous wrote:A few times I’ve bought a beautiful nightgown and late in the evening we’ll be watching a movie and I will say to my husband something like “oh, I have something to show you” and I will leave and come back 5 minutes wearing it and he will simply hit the remote. It’s amazing what an effect a great nightgown can have on a man. Also, he will often ask me to wear a sexy nightgown but he doesn’t allow me to wear it for more than five minutes.

Is there really such thing as a sexy nightgown?

Anonymous wrote:A few times I’ve bought a beautiful nightgown and late in the evening we’ll be watching a movie and I will say to my husband something like “oh, I have something to show you” and I will leave and come back 5 minutes wearing it and he will simply hit the remote. It’s amazing what an effect a great nightgown can have on a man. Also, he will often ask me to wear a sexy nightgown but he doesn’t allow me to wear it for more than five minutes.

Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

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Anonymous wrote:Any comments on Agent Provocateur?

I like their line. It’s pricey though.

Anonymous wrote:Any comments on Agent Provocateur?

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

I find it hard to believe anyone over the age of 22 needs to ask this question. You don't need to be wearing crotchless panties and thigh highs, but if you think you might be getting undressed later, for god's sake put some thought into it. Journelle for instance just has lots of nice everyday underwear. I have this in a few colors and would wear something like this on an every day basis (going to the store, school etc). I know not everyone can get away with something like this every day, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know you should wear something like this on a date.

https://www.journelle.com/products/journelle-isabel-balconette-bra-104821?color=1009

Either you’re 22, have implants or have had a breast lift, or you‘ve never had kids and have naturally small breasts. Because I’ve had 2 kids and I’m in my mid-30’s and that would offer “the girls” absolutely NO support or coverage.

The poster said somewhere she is a 32/34A

It is super cute. Small lady here. I'd wear that.

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

Welcome to the party as misery loves company!! Yes, from's a man's perspective, I certainly appreciate a bit of effort when the lady I'm with wears a matched set of bra/panties as certainly sets the mood... It doesn't have to be Journelle or Intimissi, so don't go broke...

OK, it is really weird to me that a man would know lingerie brands.

I agree. That can’t be a man.

Hate to disappoint you all; however, I'm all (straight) man and a bit creative. Let me explain, I took pics of the bra/panty tags that she would bring home as that told me: designer, size, style, etc. Yes, I truly enjoyed doting on her for the 17 years of our marriage as our relationship was nothing short of utopia. I have to share that I simply do not understand some of these comments. I bought her a set of Mikimoto Pearls for our 10-year anniversary, am I wrong for knowing quality labels, designers in the jewelry arena as well? I'm just a simple guy from the South that truly loved his wife and took every opportunity to ensure she knew such each and every day. Perhaps some of you might consider taking a page from my playbook as life can change in an instant. Tomorrow is not guaranteed...