Anonymous wrote:I miss France so much. Where it's ok to flirt with the opposite sex, and be friends with the opposite sex. Gives a boost to the day to flirt. Doesnt mean you are DTF. Suburban America reminds me of Saudi Arabia in comparison.

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Anonymous wrote:Why has no one stated the obvious? If all the men in your social circle are attracted to one women then they are probably in competition with each other to demonstrate their social dominance via securing attention of most homogenous symbol for success.

Or, she’s really hot.

But isn’t this a lame competition? Her DH already won. There’s no mystery.

Mystery, competition: what? She’s hot, and she’s maybe fun to listen to. There’s satisfaction in that.

"Fun to listen to": airhead.

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So much focus in this thread on women’s bodies, so few men being held accountable for their actions.

Which actions? Be precise. This is a thread about a woman that men enjoy talking to. Which actions?

Maybe in the DC world, a conversation is an action for which men should be held accountable?@

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So much focus in this thread on women’s bodies, so few men being held accountable for their actions.

Which actions? Be precise. This is a thread about a woman that men enjoy talking to. Which actions?

Anonymous wrote:Yep, I would never disrespect my husband by obviously crushing on a friend's husband. And we have some damn attractive men in our group. I am always respectful and politely interested. That's all. I hate spouses who do this obvious flirting thing. rude.

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Anonymous wrote:Why has no one stated the obvious? If all the men in your social circle are attracted to one women then they are probably in competition with each other to demonstrate their social dominance via securing attention of most homogenous symbol for success.

Or, she’s really hot.

But isn’t this a lame competition? Her DH already won. There’s no mystery.

Mystery, competition: what? She’s hot, and she’s maybe fun to listen to. There’s satisfaction in that.

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Anonymous wrote:Why has no one stated the obvious? If all the men in your social circle are attracted to one women then they are probably in competition with each other to demonstrate their social dominance via securing attention of most homogenous symbol for success.

Or, she’s really hot.

But isn’t this a lame competition? Her DH already won. There’s no mystery.

Mystery, competition: what? She’s hot, and she’s maybe fun to listen to. There’s satisfaction in that.

Women who are stuck with those DHs have no prize. That's the bigger picture here.

I suspect OP is exaggerating a bit with the term "crushing". And exclaiming "All the dads...". Doubtful, but whoever was doing that screams - Creepy married guy alert to any normal well adjusted woman. fyi

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So much focus in this thread on women’s bodies, so few men being held accountable for their actions.

Which actions? Be precise. This is a thread about a woman that men enjoy talking to. Which actions?

So much focus in this thread on women’s bodies, so few men being held accountable for their actions.

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Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

Ughhhhh, women like you are terrible and the reason why women can’t get ahead in the workforce. God forbid some woman talks to your DH! He should never get to know any women beyond the most superficial of superficial cordial relationships, and he better keep all those opportunities in the good old boys club.

You apparently don't understand what pp was talking about. She's not talking about co-workers that need to work together. A married guy that gawks and flirts is a problem. You don't need to know someone's husband beyond a cordial relationship. Kind of common sense imo.

NP and guy...it's amazing to me how in the year 2019 a woman cannot be friendly to a man without backwards cretins like this assuming "she must want it".

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Anonymous wrote:She's fit. It has nothing to do with her boobs or hair color.

So true. I would take a $100K pay cut for a fit wife.

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Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

Ughhhhh, women like you are terrible and the reason why women can’t get ahead in the workforce. God forbid some woman talks to your DH! He should never get to know any women beyond the most superficial of superficial cordial relationships, and he better keep all those opportunities in the good old boys club.

You apparently don't understand what pp was talking about. She's not talking about co-workers that need to work together. A married guy that gawks and flirts is a problem. You don't need to know someone's husband beyond a cordial relationship. Kind of common sense imo.

NP and guy...it's amazing to me how in the year 2019 a woman cannot be friendly to a man without backwards cretins like this assuming "she must want it".

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Anonymous wrote:Married woman, size 6 jeans, XL boobs (DD) that don't sag (lift weights, don't run & never breastfeed). I smile & talk to everyone. If the "girls" are in the kitchen, that's where I am. I do not call , hang out or joke with any men, other than my DH, dad or brother. I don't want DH calling, hanging out or joking with other women other than his mom (he has no sister). Does that make me insecure? Nope. It makes me respectful. My DH & I have boundaries. If I don't want him to do it, I don't & vice versa.

My DH could think a friend is attractive, but he keeps it to himself. He doesn't gawk or comment. If I see a younger more attractive woman, "holding court", I think "good for her". I know my husband isn't there & doesn't care.

If your husband is gawking or part of the "court", your problem is with him disrespecting you & your marriage. Spend your time /energy to fix that instead of hating a younger, more attractive woman. And guess what? The longer you are married, the more younger, better looking women are around,

BTW As a natural DD, I wear the "matronly" look shirt to AVOID gawking & rude comments. I wear a bikini in my home hot tub now that kids are out of the house - not to the public pool. I wear fitted, sexy clothes for my 6 ft 2, 250 lb weight lifting DH, not with family & friends. I'm not interested in being sexual attractive to other men.

Ughhhhh, women like you are terrible and the reason why women can’t get ahead in the workforce. God forbid some woman talks to your DH! He should never get to know any women beyond the most superficial of superficial cordial relationships, and he better keep all those opportunities in the good old boys club.

You apparently don't understand what pp was talking about. She's not talking about co-workers that need to work together. A married guy that gawks and flirts is a problem. You don't need to know someone's husband beyond a cordial relationship. Kind of common sense imo.