Anonymous
12/23/2018 19:20
Subject: Re:Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Men, if you get divorced, you could be paying a lot more if your ex-wife has no earning power after leaving the workforce for several years.
Ah, plan for divorce, plan to fail, got it.
I don't think many plan for their marriage to fail, and yet...
It'll fail faster if you plan to fail.
That makes no sense. Statistically that seems vastly untrue, honestly.
Anonymous
12/23/2018 19:12
Subject: Re:Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Men, if you get divorced, you could be paying a lot more if your ex-wife has no earning power after leaving the workforce for several years.
Ah, plan for divorce, plan to fail, got it.
I don't think many plan for their marriage to fail, and yet...
It'll fail faster if you plan to fail.
Anonymous
12/23/2018 17:51
Subject: Re:Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Men, if you get divorced, you could be paying a lot more if your ex-wife has no earning power after leaving the workforce for several years.
Ah, plan for divorce, plan to fail, got it.
I don't think many plan for their marriage to fail, and yet...
Anonymous
12/23/2018 15:55
Subject: Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It obviously depends on how much the men make. When I was dating in NYC, I dated mostly finance types who all made well over 500k in their late twenties and early thirties.
None of them cared what their dates did for a living and most of them seemed to assume their wives would stop working after they had babies.
For those folks, this is the operative part. They don't really care much about what anyone does other than themselves.That group isn't exactly known for their empathy for others. When they say they don't care, they literally do not care. About anything. I have yet to meet a woman happily married to an NYC finance type.
+1. Very true. These types don’t care about much at all. Have very little to talk about and few interests besides themselves. It’s not surprising they don’t care about a woman’s career.
Anonymous
12/23/2018 15:43
Subject: Re:Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?
Anonymous wrote:Men, if you get divorced, you could be paying a lot more if your ex-wife has no earning power after leaving the workforce for several years.
Ah, plan for divorce, plan to fail, got it.
Anonymous
12/23/2018 12:20
Subject: Re:Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?
Men, if you get divorced, you could be paying a lot more if your ex-wife has no earning power after leaving the workforce for several years.
Anonymous
12/23/2018 11:53
Subject: Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It obviously depends on how much the men make. When I was dating in NYC, I dated mostly finance types who all made well over 500k in their late twenties and early thirties.
None of them cared what their dates did for a living and most of them seemed to assume their wives would stop working after they had babies.
well that's depressing
Yes it is, but for many women that is just fine.
Anonymous
12/23/2018 11:38
Subject: Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?
Anonymous wrote:It obviously depends on how much the men make. When I was dating in NYC, I dated mostly finance types who all made well over 500k in their late twenties and early thirties.
None of them cared what their dates did for a living and most of them seemed to assume their wives would stop working after they had babies.
For those folks, this is the operative part. They don't really care much about what anyone does other than themselves.That group isn't exactly known for their empathy for others. When they say they don't care, they literally do not care. About anything. I have yet to meet a woman happily married to an NYC finance type.