Anonymous wrote:I think in 20 years or so we can expect to see the following post from 30-country lady’s kids:

When I was a child, my parents took me to 30 countries, but could only afford to do so in coach. It was terrible. Now that I am a parent myself, I ensure that my children only fly international business class. My children are definitely “haves.”

Anonymous wrote:Like happiness, have/have-not is relative. To someone who drives a car, someone without a car but wants one is a have-not. To someone who has multiple cars, someone with just one car but wants another one is a have-not. This is why it's so tough to nail down a good definition of happiness and have/have-not.