Anonymous wrote:Op here I’m not mad people are asking. I understand. There just isn’t a lot to share right now. I am keeping close tabs on things and we have had a number of good talks. One day at a time.

Good for you OP.

My husband and i did some marriage counseling (Gottman based work) and we talked a lot about the theory of "turning towards" one another in a relationship. Sounds like what you and your husband are doing.

Wishing you both luck, trust and love.

OP just remember: doormats get walked on.