Anonymous wrote:The kids believed me over him and rarely see him. He's unhappy, and wishes he could leave his wife but doesn't know how. This is what happens when your ex-husband tells your kids lies about you for years. They grow up and realize who was telling the truth. I didn't deserve it, and I just dealt with it. Now we're on the other side of the equation.

Anonymous wrote:XDH left to escape the mortgage and the kids’ college tuitions so he could spend his money on himself. He did it in the nastiest way possible, blaming me for everything, probably as defense for leaving.

Fast forward 2 1/2 years and he’s run up so much debt he’s renting someone’s basement. The $85k I gave him to buy out his equity in the house (that was after tens of thousands of dollars in deductions for things he owed me, like back child support) apparently wasn’t enough to pay off his new debts. He’s a GS-14, go figure.

Karma is the way to go, not revenge.

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Anonymous wrote:When my husband cheated on me I used his toothbrush to clean my asshole.

Am I the only one here who finds that kinda hot?

Anonymous wrote:When my husband cheated on me I used his toothbrush to clean my asshole.

Anonymous wrote:When my husband cheated on me I used his toothbrush to clean my asshole.

Besides that nothing. Living well is the best revenge. He'll always know he's cheated and been a liar. I don't have to deal with that.

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Anonymous wrote:What I’ve gleaned from this thread is that there are a lot of sad, bitter, petty, insecure women out there.

And I say this as a woman who was cheated on. You all look incredibly stupid.

Here's to looking stupid. Dick pick forwarding lady, I salute you!

Sometimes I'd rather look stupid than smug and condescending. But that's just me.

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This idea that you are a "forgotton man" is freaking pathetic. You are living a life that many would dream of. Try stepping out of the NOVA bubble and into a place where people try to live on 20K.

All so Ivanka can have her inheritance tax free and giant corporations can pass cash on to their stockholders.

1) That's where I'm from and why I pursued education, so I wouldn't have to work 15 hours a day, 6 days a week on the farm.

2) When companies can repatriate their profits again we're going to have an economic boom and prosperity. Too bad Obama and the Dems didn't do it in 2010--Hilary would be president now.

Anonymous wrote:When my husband cheated on me I used his toothbrush to clean my asshole.

Besides that nothing. Living well is the best revenge. He'll always know he's cheated and been a liar. I don't have to deal with that.

For the PP who pulled all the stupid crap listed (e.g., making sure her XH had trouble buying Christmas gifts for her kids): Every time you tried to hurt him you sent the message of just how hung up on him you still are.

Everyone but you can see it. Including your kids.


you don't know what you are talking about. I have a great relationship with my kids. They prefer me over their father. They wouldn't do that if he was a good guy. He deserves what he gets and don't try to shame me for sticking up for myself.

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Anonymous wrote:And please don't say "living my best life." YES I know that is the best, but its not applicable to me right now. Tell me the worst sh*t you did to an ex. Whether it was immediately after a break up or years later. And if not you, someone you knew who did it.

Best revenge on crazy "progressives" -- seeing Trump elected.

Good for you. Did you get your coal mining job back?

Actually mining employment is up 70,000 since Trump was elected, and according to the Labor Department, mining will add 160,000 jobs over the next decade.

you should read the fine print before you proclaim things. employment in the mining sector is up, but mining jobs are down. growth in the sector will be up, but mining itself will lose jobs. the key is how this "report" defines mining sector - it's much, much broader than mining and actually includes jobs/employment in renewable energy - which is where the job growth will come from according to the Trump Labor Dept report.