Anonymous wrote:Our mistake was giving any weight whatsoever to the “chances calculators” (Prepscholar is one) that gave our first false hope at some schools that were frankly out of his league. Don’t even bother with those. They are worthless and misleading. Go to the common data sets of schools of interest. Note in particular the percentage from the top decile/quarter/half of high school class and in each band of SAT score. If the kid isn’t in the top ten percent of HS class and 85% of enrolled students are, then (absent a special talent or appeal) it’s a longshot. We did that analysis after the fact and it became immediately clear that my first had overshot, essentially applying to all, or nearly all, reaches. (He ended up at a mid 20’s SLAC and a great match, so no great calamity. But it was a rough couple of weeks plowing through the ‘we regret...’ emails.)
As for cost, the CDS also has number of students receiving merit aid and average amount. If you need merit aid that will tell the tale. Many technically offer merit aid but a quick look reveals that it’s offered to only one or two students. Ooh lookie, Bowdoin DOES offer merit aid...to 8 students...a thousand bucks each. Cool.
Anonymous wrote:Also love my typo. Things that make me barf do not usually make me hard
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just barfed at the word unhooked
Why?
Bc you are too caught up in all the bs.
I am? My first post was “why?”.
my point is when terms like "unhooked" become a fixture in your vocabulary you are too caught up in all of this. Things will work out, they always do.
It seems ironic that someone who becomes physically ill at the use of fairly standard admissions vernacular posts again and again about it and then says others are "too caught up in all of this".
There's really only one person in the thread that is dramatically affected by the word, and it is you, PP. Look in the mirror.
The poster responding is just someone who agreed when I wrote the the word makes me hard
It's lame that you guys are so into this stuff that you invented a new word to save yourself the extra seconds of just saying students with a special hook or advantage
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just barfed at the word unhooked
Why?
Bc you are too caught up in all the bs.
I am? My first post was “why?”.
my point is when terms like "unhooked" become a fixture in your vocabulary you are too caught up in all of this. Things will work out, they always do.
It seems ironic that someone who becomes physically ill at the use of fairly standard admissions vernacular posts again and again about it and then says others are "too caught up in all of this".
There's really only one person in the thread that is dramatically affected by the word, and it is you, PP. Look in the mirror.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our mistake was giving any weight whatsoever to the “chances calculators” (Prepscholar is one) that gave our first false hope at some schools that were frankly out of his league. Don’t even bother with those. They are worthless and misleading. Go to the common data sets of schools of interest. Note in particular the percentage from the top decile/quarter/half of high school class and in each band of SAT score. If the kid isn’t in the top ten percent of HS class and 85% of enrolled students are, then (absent a special talent or appeal) it’s a longshot. We did that analysis after the fact and it became immediately clear that my first had overshot, essentially applying to all, or nearly all, reaches. (He ended up at a mid 20’s SLAC and a great match, so no great calamity. But it was a rough couple of weeks plowing through the ‘we regret...’ emails.)
As for cost, the CDS also has number of students receiving merit aid and average amount. If you need merit aid that will tell the tale. Many technically offer merit aid but a quick look reveals that it’s offered to only one or two students. Ooh lookie, Bowdoin DOES offer merit aid...to 8 students...a thousand bucks each. Cool.
Doesn't your school have Naviance? That was very accurate for us.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Paying cash for UVA when our DS qualified for Univ. of Alabama's 100% full ride out-of-state scholarship.
Unless something is going wrong, that’s not a mistake (if UVA is in state). Alabama’s ranking is awful.
Mouth your kid can watch football in a really nice stadium...
Anonymous wrote:Our mistake was giving any weight whatsoever to the “chances calculators” (Prepscholar is one) that gave our first false hope at some schools that were frankly out of his league. Don’t even bother with those. They are worthless and misleading. Go to the common data sets of schools of interest. Note in particular the percentage from the top decile/quarter/half of high school class and in each band of SAT score. If the kid isn’t in the top ten percent of HS class and 85% of enrolled students are, then (absent a special talent or appeal) it’s a longshot. We did that analysis after the fact and it became immediately clear that my first had overshot, essentially applying to all, or nearly all, reaches. (He ended up at a mid 20’s SLAC and a great match, so no great calamity. But it was a rough couple of weeks plowing through the ‘we regret...’ emails.)
As for cost, the CDS also has number of students receiving merit aid and average amount. If you need merit aid that will tell the tale. Many technically offer merit aid but a quick look reveals that it’s offered to only one or two students. Ooh lookie, Bowdoin DOES offer merit aid...to 8 students...a thousand bucks each. Cool.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Paying cash for UVA when our DS qualified for Univ. of Alabama's 100% full ride out-of-state scholarship.
Unless something is going wrong, that’s not a mistake (if UVA is in state). Alabama’s ranking is awful.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just barfed at the word unhooked
Why?
Bc you are too caught up in all the bs.
I am? My first post was “why?”.
my point is when terms like "unhooked" become a fixture in your vocabulary you are too caught up in all of this. Things will work out, they always do.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just barfed at the word unhooked
Why?
Bc you are too caught up in all the bs.
I am? My first post was “why?”.
my point is when terms like "unhooked" become a fixture in your vocabulary you are too caught up in all of this. Things will work out, they always do.
Probably should have said that then. I’m not caught up in anything. But I do have twins who are HS juniors and one is a lacrosse player. Use whatever word you like (or avoid them if you must) but she is seeing doors open that her brother, a non-athlete) is not.
Yes, I agree that things do work out. But having a differentiator amongst so many great students does matter, and I’d prefer my kids have an opportunity to go where they prefer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just barfed at the word unhooked
Why?
Bc you are too caught up in all the bs.
I am? My first post was “why?”.
my point is when terms like "unhooked" become a fixture in your vocabulary you are too caught up in all of this. Things will work out, they always do.