OP stop wasting oxygen, you'll drive yourself crazy. How long do you want to rehash all this.

You obviously have very concerning red flags, and now need to check up on him WITHOUT him knowing. Not worth getting a disease over or wasting many years with a cheater. Get to the bottom of it, many ways to catch a cheater in this day and age.

I'm a new poster and while some of those commenting are cracking me up, I'm actually starting to feel bad for this woman. I was absolutely not jumping to the conclusion that her husband was cheating on her and presumed he was likely just masturbating with a condom. It sounds weird to me, but I actually learned that this is something fairly common from the "pregnancy" DCUM forum! I'm starting to get a little concerned, however, now that her husband has "admitted" to something else, i.e. changed his story. If he had actually found them somewhere and just flushed it, there is absolutely no way he would have lied about that. That doesn't make any sense. So you know he's lying. Is he just lying because he was embarrassed about telling you he wacked off in it? Or is something more nefarious going on? Like others, it seems unlikely that he could have an affair in your home, but given his propensity to have sex anywhere in public, could this be something he brought home and tried to flush? Tell us, what has he done with condoms from your other "adventures"? Does he leave them on the beach, in the movie theater, etc? Has he ever held on to one to throw it away later?

When I cleaned out my husband's dresser he had a whole bunch of unwrapped condoms in there.

LOL

I lie.

Your husband, OP, is full of bull.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he hides his condoms in his pocket and flushes them when he gets home.

I had a crazy coworker once whose plan to entrap her boyfriend (to get child support ) was to pull his used condoms out of the trash can and push them inside out and stick them up herself. She really wanted his baby. It was one of the craziest stories someone has ever told me.

OMG!

That's been going on since condoms were invented. Or the fine needle hole he can't see. Must be some young ones on this thread.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he hides his condoms in his pocket and flushes them when he gets home.

I had a crazy coworker once whose plan to entrap her boyfriend (to get child support ) was to pull his used condoms out of the trash can and push them inside out and stick them up herself. She really wanted his baby. It was one of the craziest stories someone has ever told me.

Actually it's not. Many women get pregnant that way, most don't tell. They take the used condoms and use a applicator or dropper. If a man doesn't want children he needs to get fixed or don't have sex because if a woman wants a child it will happen.

I hope that OPM will close tomorrow so I can follow this thread minute-by-minute. Unreal.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he hides his condoms in his pocket and flushes them when he gets home.

I had a crazy coworker once whose plan to entrap her boyfriend (to get child support ) was to pull his used condoms out of the trash can and push them inside out and stick them up herself. She really wanted his baby. It was one of the craziest stories someone has ever told me.

Actually it's not. Many women get pregnant that way, most don't tell. They take the used condoms and use a applicator or dropper. If a man doesn't want children he needs to get fixed or don't have sex because if a woman wants a child it will happen.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, why did you peek in the toilet in the first place? And wouldn't the offending condom have been hidden by TP?
Something just doesn't add up.

my toilet doesn't have a top.

Wait....this is an eleventh hour curveball. Your toilet doesn't have a top? Your toilet...doesn't have a top?

Do you mean the seat doesn't have a lid? Because if so, in what world would your DH throw a condom in there?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he hides his condoms in his pocket and flushes them when he gets home.

I had a crazy coworker once whose plan to entrap her boyfriend (to get child support ) was to pull his used condoms out of the trash can and push them inside out and stick them up herself. She really wanted his baby. It was one of the craziest stories someone has ever told me.

OMG!

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Anonymous wrote:Are some condoms colored? I distinctly remember colored rims.

OP here: Yes all the condoms have a red ring. We got these condoms while we were in China . I don't know if this is a Chinese thing?! DH finally admitted that he found the condom in the closet while he was cleaning and then he flushed it.

No wonder you got pregnant.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he hides his condoms in his pocket and flushes them when he gets home.

I had a crazy coworker once whose plan to entrap her boyfriend (to get child support ) was to pull his used condoms out of the trash can and push them inside out and stick them up herself. She really wanted his baby. It was one of the craziest stories someone has ever told me.

Maybe he hides his condoms in his pocket and flushes them when he gets home.

Where is the wrapper then?

Anonymous wrote:He's having an affair.

In the bathroom, while she is home, lol.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, why did you peek in the toilet in the first place? And wouldn't the offending condom have been hidden by TP?
Something just doesn't add up.

my toilet doesn't have a top.

Np here ... sometimes I look in bc kids forget to flush their poop And Dh forgets to flush his condoms.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are some condoms colored? I distinctly remember colored rims.

OP here: Yes all the condoms have a red ring. We got these condoms while we were in China . I don't know if this is a Chinese thing?! DH finally admitted that he found the condom in the closet while he was cleaning and then he flushed it.

OP again: I don't believe his story though! He's going to be doing the night feedings for a long long time

Yep, that story doesn't add up. Why would you flush an unused condom? Why was there a condom in the closet? WAS it unused? Or used?