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Anonymous wrote:Has anyone asked the OP what he looks like? Fell out of a magazine, GQ type, with a rock hard body & chiseled abs? I'd put money on it that it's a NO!

Would that make his wife's fat melt away like magic?

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Anonymous wrote:Has anyone asked the OP what he looks like? Fell out of a magazine, GQ type, with a rock hard body & chiseled abs? I'd put money on it that it's a NO!

Would that make his wife's fat melt away like magic?

Anonymous wrote:Has anyone asked the OP what he looks like? Fell out of a magazine, GQ type, with a rock hard body & chiseled abs? I'd put money on it that it's a NO!

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Anonymous wrote:It's remarkable that so many PPs seem to believe there is a correlation between pregnancy and obesity.

Now what about all the people who aren't pregnant (including men) who are obese?

I've heard more than one woman say something along the lines of "I can't wait until I'm pregnant so I can eat whatever I want."

Anonymous wrote:The reason women are supposed to gain weight during pregnancy is because THERE IS AN EXTRA PERSON in there, along with things like a placenta, amniotic sac, increased breast tissue, etc. etc. etc. AFTER pregnancy is different and there is no health-related reason for such a huge percentage of excess weight.

150 at 5'1" she was already OBESE. At 185 she is grossly obese and extremely unhealthy. Not OP's fault. He doesn't control what she shoves down her piehole. She does.

Anonymous wrote:In a new interview with Vogue magazine she revealed how post-birth she regained her figure instantly with little more effort than some yoga on a mat in her living room.
'I think it's muscle memory,' she told Vogue.
Or it may have been the continuous exercise during her pregnancy.
She also admitted: 'I did kung fu up until two weeks before Benjamin was born, and yoga three days a week.'
And in typically outspoken fashion, she gave her opinion on where some women go wrong when pregnant.
She said: 'I think a lot of people get pregnant and decide they can turn into garbage disposals [dustbin].

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1258830/Gisele-Bundchen-shares-tips-perfect-post-baby-figure--kung-fu-yoga-dont-treat-body-like-dustbin.html

http://www.popsugar.com/celebrity/Gisele-Bundchen-Bikini-Pictures-After-Baby-Vivian-27870910#photo-27870910

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Anonymous wrote:On average breastfeeding requires 300-500 calories a day. I ate way more than that (I'm guessing an extra 1k) and was a beanpole, just couldn't keep weight on. My clothes were falling off me.

Dropping the word "physiology" ever 5 seconds as if we're all the same is seriously annoying to me. Why does one woman get a gut when she overheats while I gain it all in my butt? Why do some women get bigger boobs post pregnancy while I'm down a cup size? "Physiology" doesn't mean we all work the same way. We are all super complex.

My guess is that the other woman is 'overeating' healthy food and you're binging on junk food, processed foods, and carbs.

Yes our bodies are all different, but none of us can escape the consequences of a bad diet.

Anonymous wrote:It's remarkable that so many PPs seem to believe there is a correlation between pregnancy and obesity.

Now what about all the people who aren't pregnant (including men) who are obese?

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what the right answers are, but I think there should be a distinction between people's experience during pregnancy and after pregnancy.

Gaining weight during pregnancy is normal. Not losing weight quickly after pregnancy is also normal. But continuing to gain weight after the pregnancy seems like a different sort of problem.