Anonymous
Post 01/12/2016 08:15     Subject: Women: when did men stop noticing you?
I love being noticed. I carry all those compliments with me and remember them on bad days. I feel a lot of power in my femininity and a lot of pleasure in looking good. Beauty in any form is so rare and elusive that to have it, even for awhile, is one of life's great gifts.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2016 08:06     Subject: Re:Women: when did men stop noticing you?
I'm not sure why being noticed by strange men is so important? Same goes for men looking for attention!
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2016 08:05     Subject: Women: when did men stop noticing you?
Anonymous wrote:I'm 45 AA woman/mom and I still get noticed, especially by older men. I was at the Toys R Us and some guy came from 3 aisles over and told me I was beautiful. Made my day. This what confuses me about men. When I spend alot of time getting myself together (make-up/hair/clothes) and think I'm looking good, no one notices me or says a thing. Let me come out the house with just washed hair in a head band, no make-up, sweatpants and a slumpy t-shirt, sneakers....men notice me.


Just ask Drake.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2016 08:04     Subject: Women: when did men stop noticing you?
I'm only 30 so it hasn't stopped yet and I'll be sad when it does!
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2016 07:55     Subject: Women: when did men stop noticing you?
Around 28? But not sure if I'm oblivious or if it is because I am usually out with my kids or what. I'll take it though. I don't like being cat called.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2016 07:36     Subject: Women: when did men stop noticing you?
After second kid at 38. Face changed completely.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2016 06:21     Subject: Women: when did men stop noticing you?
Anonymous wrote:Finally a silver lining to being ugly! You don't miss what you never had.


Just wait, things starting changing for me around 50. I am being noticed more and it is unnerving. Perhaps now we are all in the same boat and our personalities are shining through. Happily married for 20+ years- so not looking- maybe that is part of it.

It is funny (peculiar) because other women talk about becoming invisible at age 50 and I have found the opposite for me.