Anonymous wrote:DH here. We have a hot AP. The second she opened her mouth, she no longer became hot. Most of what comes out of the mouth of young women is complete nonsense.

This is how we can have a hot nanny.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know, especially if your DH is in shape.

I mean when I was in my teens and 20s I went through a period of going out with significantly older men with money to spend on me.

I did too. Call them my "hobby" boyfriends bc they had expertise in areas I was interested in... Older, rich and glamorous is very appealing,
your avg guy with a wife and mortgage not so much. If you are young and hot, you have choices.

Why do I feel like a guy posted this?

Don't know. I'm female and middle aged now.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know, especially if your DH is in shape.

I mean when I was in my teens and 20s I went through a period of going out with significantly older men with money to spend on me.

I did too. Call them my "hobby" boyfriends bc they had expertise in areas I was interested in... Older, rich and glamorous is very appealing,
your avg guy with a wife and mortgage not so much. If you are young and hot, you have choices.

Why do I feel like a guy posted this?

Anonymous wrote:I don't know, especially if your DH is in shape.

I mean when I was in my teens and 20s I went through a period of going out with significantly older men with money to spend on me.

I did too. Call them my "hobby" boyfriends bc they had expertise in areas I was interested in... Older, rich and glamorous is very appealing,
your avg guy with a wife and mortgage not so much. If you are young and hot, you have choices.

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Here's the thing: cheating men cheat. The men who did marry or have dalliances with nannies didn't necessarily do so because they were more attractive than the DWs (Arnold, anyone?) it's probably that it was easier to sustain a cheating relationship discreetly by going the nanny route.

Whether you hire a Kate Upton lookalike or a busted cow to care for your children will not matter a whit if your husband is committed to you and your marriage. Period.


That's what my friend said; her dh is now married to the au pair.

Well tell us more about your "friend" marriage.

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she works in big law, husband also a lawyer. She laughed off the idea of an pair to her marriage which she considered stong. He left her for the au pair, whom he is still married to ten years later. She was blindsided.

I don't know, especially if your DH is in shape.

I mean when I was in my teens and 20s I went through a period of going out with significantly older men with money to spend on me.

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Anonymous wrote:Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.

You are presuming your young, hot nanny wants anything to do with your husband. Get real.

Exactly

We have my son's lovely young tutors accompany us on vacations to watch DS who is 7. This summer we are going to Europe and then moving in with my brother on the West Coast for the summer. One of DS's nannies is spending the summer with us.

I wish/hope DB who is divorced is interested in the nanny but I have little hope. Although DB is in great shape and rich, he is in his forties, ancient for a girl in her twenties.

Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing: cheating men cheat. The men who did marry or have dalliances with nannies didn't necessarily do so because they were more attractive than the DWs (Arnold, anyone?) it's probably that it was easier to sustain a cheating relationship discreetly by going the nanny route.

Whether you hire a Kate Upton lookalike or a busted cow to care for your children will not matter a whit if your husband is committed to you and your marriage. Period.

This. I can't even fathom my husband cheating on me, but if he did I would blame him, not the hot (or ugly) whoever. He made a commitment to me and I'm sure he sees super hot people all the time. Cheating may be a crime of opportunity but its also a choice and if someone wants to cheat they'll find an opportunity.

When you hire a beautiful nanny, it's hard;
When you in hire a beautiful nanny, you know it's hard;
Everybody wants her, everybody loves her;
Everybody wants to take your baby home;

When you hire a beautiful nanny, you watch your friends;
When you hire a beautiful nanny, it never ends;
You, know that it's crazy and you wanna trust her;
Then somebody hangs up when you answer the phone;

When you hire a beautiful nanny, you go it alone.
Maybe it's just an ego problem;
Problem is that I've been fooled before;
by fairweather friends and faint hearted lovers;
And every time it happens, it just convinces me more;

When you hire a beautiful nanny, you watch her eyes;
When you hire a beautiful nanny, you look for lies;
'Cause everybody tempts her,
everybody tells her she's the most beautiful nanny they know;

When you hire a beautiful nanny, you go it alone.
When you hire a beautiful nanny, you watch your friends;
When you hire a beautiful nanny, it never ends;
When you hire a beautiful nanny, you watch her eyes;

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Here's the thing: cheating men cheat. The men who did marry or have dalliances with nannies didn't necessarily do so because they were more attractive than the DWs (Arnold, anyone?) it's probably that it was easier to sustain a cheating relationship discreetly by going the nanny route.

Whether you hire a Kate Upton lookalike or a busted cow to care for your children will not matter a whit if your husband is committed to you and your marriage. Period.


That's what my friend said; her dh is now married to the au pair.

Well tell us more about your "friend" marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing: cheating men cheat. The men who did marry or have dalliances with nannies didn't necessarily do so because they were more attractive than the DWs (Arnold, anyone?) it's probably that it was easier to sustain a cheating relationship discreetly by going the nanny route.

Whether you hire a Kate Upton lookalike or a busted cow to care for your children will not matter a whit if your husband is committed to you and your marriage. Period.

That's what my friend said; her dh is now married to the au pair.

The au pair did not make him cheat. He was already inclined to do so.

Anonymous wrote:Don't do it!!!!! I learned the hard way- not my husband- but my neighbors husband!!!! It was trouble still. My requirements- slightly overweight, married, homely and preferably over 50.

I don't know, I kind of had a thing for Mrs. Doubtfire.

Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing: cheating men cheat. The men who did marry or have dalliances with nannies didn't necessarily do so because they were more attractive than the DWs (Arnold, anyone?) it's probably that it was easier to sustain a cheating relationship discreetly by going the nanny route.

Whether you hire a Kate Upton lookalike or a busted cow to care for your children will not matter a whit if your husband is committed to you and your marriage. Period.

That's what my friend said; her dh is now married to the au pair.

Why not hire a hot ex-fireman? They already know CPR?

Anonymous wrote:Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.

You are presuming your young, hot nanny wants anything to do with your husband. Get real.