Anonymous wrote:Did anyone ever get the bottom of the original question, or was the final conclusion that CM is still considering its options, one of them being to stay put?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Many schools last year just out the list online. Don't know why that would be hard to do for CM, LAMB, and other non-common lottery schools. Could follow up with a postcard too.
I hated when the listed my kids name online like that.
Not me. There is also an accountability to it by making it public. Schools generally put the first name and last initial, along with the birthdate.
My child has a very unique name, first name last initial will identify her.
Yes, why does it bother you so much?
I wish I was so naive as to have to ask this question. You must live in a pretty, pretty world.
Dear, if you live in such a shelter that your daughter's unique name posted on a school waiting list, you have no clue about the real world. I'm sure your daughter's name has appeared somewhere in FB (whether yours or friend/family), your daughter's name will appear in a newspaper if she makes a soccer goal, and it will appear on the school's website when she wins an award or in a club.
Anonymous wrote:People are looking at lotteries. People communicate. Parents talk. D.C. is small.
Anonymous wrote:Not the previous posters, but my DC is currently in a private. I would rather the school not know that we are applying to publics until we have gotten in somewhere and have made the decision to attend. D.C. is small, and I can imagine that another parent in my situation would prefer that the names not be publicly disclosed with first name and initial to avoid being "outed." The politics at privates can sometimes be very tricky--especially if you end up being at the school and need recommendations and what not later.
I attended the CM lottery and saw both the name of my neighbor's kid and a former coworker's kid. So I knew info about them that maybe they did not want me to know. At the end of the day, this thread has gotten needlessly off track. Some people don't want the list published publicly and others don't see a problem with it.
People have the right to their opinions and do not need to justify their positions one way or the other. Move on.
Anonymous wrote:Not the previous posters, but my DC is currently in a private. I would rather the school not know that we are applying to publics until we have gotten in somewhere and have made the decision to attend. D.C. is small, and I can imagine that another parent in my situation would prefer that the names not be publicly disclosed with first name and initial to avoid being "outed." The politics at privates can sometimes be very tricky--especially if you end up being at the school and need recommendations and what not later.
I attended the CM lottery and saw both the name of my neighbor's kid and a former coworker's kid. So I knew info about them that maybe they did not want me to know. At the end of the day, this thread has gotten needlessly off track. Some people don't want the list published publicly and others don't see a problem with it.
People have the right to their opinions and do not need to justify their positions one way or the other. Move on.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Many schools last year just out the list online. Don't know why that would be hard to do for CM, LAMB, and other non-common lottery schools. Could follow up with a postcard too.
I hated when the listed my kids name online like that.
Not me. There is also an accountability to it by making it public. Schools generally put the first name and last initial, along with the birthdate.
My child has a very unique name, first name last initial will identify her.
Yes, why does it bother you so much?
I wish I was so naive as to have to ask this question. You must live in a pretty, pretty world.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Many schools last year just out the list online. Don't know why that would be hard to do for CM, LAMB, and other non-common lottery schools. Could follow up with a postcard too.
I hated when the listed my kids name online like that.
Not me. There is also an accountability to it by making it public. Schools generally put the first name and last initial, along with the birthdate.
My child has a very unique name, first name last initial will identify her.
Yes, why does it bother you so much?
I wish I was so naive as to have to ask this question. You must live in a pretty, pretty world.