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Anonymous wrote:MD public schools are segregated or are MD neighborhoods segregated?

Both are true. The school segregation is not de jure, but it is de facto. 60 years ago that would have actually mattered to the Supreme Court, but those days are long gone.

Mid-county not much segregation. Down county and upper county neighborhoods are segregated.

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Anonymous wrote:MD public schools are segregated or are MD neighborhoods segregated?

Both are true. The school segregation is not de jure, but it is de facto. 60 years ago that would have actually mattered to the Supreme Court, but those days are long gone.

Anonymous wrote:MD public schools are segregated or are MD neighborhoods segregated?

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Anonymous wrote:Also, I think the private schools prepare kids to be leaders rather than workers. My husband and I both went to public and we both agree that we were taught to be workers compared to my daughter who is being trained to be a leader lots of project/ presentations etc. I'm sure the HGC is similiar.

All public schools are the same... They did not teach u that in private school?

Some of you are so incredibly stupid. Where's the parenting?

So you're relying on schools to do YOUR job?

We pulled our kid from a small private b/c the teaching methods were far from extraordinary. I know good teaching; I train teachers.

And the point is this. Most private school teachers don't have HALF the pedagogy you'll find on a public school teacher's resume. truth

So why pay for mediocre? just to hobnob with the rich and famous? That's not education; it's enabling.

Furthermore, as a parent, it's YOUR job to instill in your child 1) a strong work ethic and 2) perseverance. So if Ms. Molly Moo is not the most engaging teacher, at least your kid is resourceful enough to make the class or the lessons engaging.

Public school - wherever it falls, whether it's diverse or homogeneous - teaches your child about real life. So no, I haven't seen evidence to show that private school creates leaders. I have, however, seen disadvantaged kids become leaders in public b/c of the opportunities available.

Parent, people! Don't enable! Teach your kids to be resourceful.

I am always amazed at the ignorance on these boards from such an "educated" group of people!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, I think the private schools prepare kids to be leaders rather than workers. My husband and I both went to public and we both agree that we were taught to be workers compared to my daughter who is being trained to be a leader lots of project/ presentations etc. I'm sure the HGC is similiar.

All public schools are the same... They did not teach u that in private school?

Some of you are so incredibly stupid. Where's the parenting?

So you're relying on schools to do YOUR job?

We pulled our kid from a small private b/c the teaching methods were far from extraordinary. I know good teaching; I train teachers.

And the point is this. Most private school teachers don't have HALF the pedagogy you'll find on a public school teacher's resume. truth

So why pay for mediocre? just to hobnob with the rich and famous? That's not education; it's enabling.

Furthermore, as a parent, it's YOUR job to instill in your child 1) a strong work ethic and 2) perseverance. So if Ms. Molly Moo is not the most engaging teacher, at least your kid is resourceful enough to make the class or the lessons engaging.

Public school - wherever it falls, whether it's diverse or homogeneous - teaches your child about real life. So no, I haven't seen evidence to show that private school creates leaders. I have, however, seen disadvantaged kids become leaders in public b/c of the opportunities available.

Parent, people! Don't enable! Teach your kids to be resourceful.

I am always amazed at the ignorance on these boards from such an "educated" group of people!

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During undergrad, I met a lot of kids who went to private schools for k-12. My impression of them was that they didn't come from a "culture of achievement" but rather they came from a "culture of privilege." Most of them lacked perspective and weren't capable of empathy.

I agree with this. And specifically my experience of prep school kids in college led me to conclude that mainly what a prep school education gives you is the skill to do your school work efficiently so that you can get drunk four nights a week. (Which is undeniably a skill, and furthermore a skill that I (a graduate of public schools) did not have.)

Anonymous wrote:You are a whack job - plain and simple.

Ha ha ha.. I agree. I'm so glad I didn't have mother like this one below.

Anonymous wrote:My kids go to a private school in a very wealthy area. As they get older, I realize that I'm not paying for superior teachers or education. As an example, my DD fell quite a few percent on a standardized test from the beginning of the school year to the end. So we bring out the tutors/special classes to bring them up just as all of my friends would do. Our school has very high test scores but people would be deluding themselves if they think the school is the cause of the high test scores. It is correlation(population who values education versus this great machine of teachers who imparts wisdom on the kids).

So why do it? Peers have a large influence on children ( actually I think for all people). I want my daughter surrounded by like minded families. Yes, there are also the showy snobs but we would never be accepted in those circles anyway. These kids are more likely to flame out. So the kids remaining are more likely than her peers at public to come from families that value education. In public, she could find those peers but she could have just as easily found friends who don't value education. So I think the advantage that I give my daughter is that I increase the probability that she will be successful by putting her in a group that has a higher percentage of high achieving kids from where she can select her friends. I don't care about race, I am looking to buy into a culture of achievement.

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Anonymous wrote:
During undergrad, I met a lot of kids who went to private schools for k-12. My impression of them was that they didn't come from a "culture of achievement" but rather they came from a "culture of privilege." Most of them lacked perspective and weren't capable of empathy.

I agree with this. And specifically my experience of prep school kids in college led me to conclude that mainly what a prep school education gives you is the skill to do your school work efficiently so that you can get drunk four nights a week. (Which is undeniably a skill, and furthermore a skill that I (a graduate of public schools) did not have.)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, I think the private schools prepare kids to be leaders rather than workers. My husband and I both went to public and we both agree that we were taught to be workers compared to my daughter who is being trained to be a leader lots of project/ presentations etc. I'm sure the HGC is similiar.

All public schools are the same... They did not teach u that in private school?

Anonymous wrote:My kids go to a private school in a very wealthy area. As they get older, I realize that I'm not paying for superior teachers or education. As an example, my DD fell quite a few percent on a standardized test from the beginning of the school year to the end. So we bring out the tutors/special classes to bring them up just as all of my friends would do. Our school has very high test scores but people would be deluding themselves if they think the school is the cause of the high test scores. It is correlation(population who values education versus this great machine of teachers who imparts wisdom on the kids).

So why do it? Peers have a large influence on children ( actually I think for all people). I want my daughter surrounded by like minded families. Yes, there are also the showy snobs but we would never be accepted in those circles anyway. These kids are more likely to flame out. So the kids remaining are more likely than her peers at public to come from families that value education. In public, she could find those peers but she could have just as easily found friends who don't value education. So I think the advantage that I give my daughter is that I increase the probability that she will be successful by putting her in a group that has a higher percentage of high achieving kids from where she can select her friends. I don't care about race, I am looking to buy into a culture of achievement.

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes I think that "culture of achievement" referred to really is just helicopter parenting..making sure Billy always has someone right by his side making sure things go well. Grades slip..here is a tutor. Like French? Let's go to France this summer. Raise your hand in your tiny class, instant attention. I am not sure this creates a self sufficient, self inspired individual. There are many parts to an education and self sufficiency is a huge one.