Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:"Rowdy" can mean so many things, but the bottom line is that you are judging a 10 yr old as totally responsible for his/her behavior. As a parent of a child with special needs myself, I know that even kids with two parents and a stable loving home can still be "rowdy." There are lots of reasons for these behaviors in children-- do you really want to blame the kids themselves? BASIS needs to do what other schools and institutions do -- meet the kids where they are and give them structure, services, and unconditionally kindness until they get it together. 10 year old kids who are "rowdy" are not axe murderers, they are kids with needs that should be met by BASIS.
And Miss Judgmental PP, if your child is smart, organized, kind, hard-working, successful and specifically not "rowdy," well, you are blessed. I hope you know how LUCKY you are. It's not your parenting or your genes; you just won the child temperament lottery. So far, that is; time will tell. And let's see how the sibling does. Good luck.
You sound like such a lousy, LAZY parent.
How can you justify your child's poor behavior and honestly feel good about calling yourself a parent. Teaching your child how to behave is one of the very first things we teach them. At age 10 your child knows right from wrong and should've been taught how to behave, have self-respect, and show respect for others by not being disruptive, violent, unkind, well....'rowdy'.
Did you not teach your child appropriate behaviors for different settings? Really? How can you hold a SCHOOL (that came in at the age of TEN) responsible for "meeting your child where he's at" and dealing with his behavior when you GAVE BIRTH to the child and "raised" him for 10 years but FAILED miserably at doing so????? Basis has how many children on its roster? And you have how many in your dysfunctional home?
As for PP, if her child is smart, organized, kind, hard-working, successful, and specifically "not rowdy" it's not because of a luck of the draw or some sort of parental lottery. Her child gave into the world a blank slate just like yours did. The difference is that she put in the time and work teaching her child social skills. I should know. My child is described as all of those things and I know for a fact it's because of what his home-training and upbringing.
You are one lazy, classless, excuse-laden poor excuse of a parent. You AND your husband.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:BASIS parent here. My DC loves the academics, but had a hard time adjusting to the bad behaviors that were tolerated in some of the "lower" groups (yes, they do track kids). IMO, one of the schools biggest challenges is the different standards of behavior that children come to the school with. Many of the groups had a disproportionate number of rowdy, disrespectful kids. Only kids in the more advanced groups escaped this.
I think BASIS has a plan to mix the kids up more going forward this fall. This only begs the question, though, of whether the rowdy kids will now disrupt ALL the groups (rather than just the lower ones). I wish BASIS would have expelled the kids who were violent, verbally-abusive, and poorly-behaved much earlier in the year. They have a fantastic academic program, and shouldn't let discipline issues get in the way of that.
DC kids should ALL be exposed to the high academic standards this school offers. That said, children who are hostile, disrespectful and get in the way of other kids' learning should be expelled. I think in some cases, parents need to wake up and recognize that their child is not showing respect to the teachers and other BASIS students. Hence, they are demonstrating that they do not belong at the school. I guess the truth is that BASIS should not have to expel these students, because it should not even come to that; their parents should realize they need a different environment.
Yes, let's just expel the kids. Don't make BASIS deal with them and figure out how to work with the kids and their families. Someone else will do it. The 10 year old kids will just get better on their own once they're expelled. Just remember, though, that these kids will be wiping your butt in the nursing home. I hope they treat you as well as you'd like to see them treated.![]()
I agree. This is really not ok to expel kids for misbehavior like this. A school is supposed to be forming a whole child and citizen, not just filling the brains that arrive ready to be filled. Perhaps more needed is an effective and developmentally age appropriate discipline/character education program like every other school needs to implement.
Anonymous wrote:"Rowdy" can mean so many things, but the bottom line is that you are judging a 10 yr old as totally responsible for his/her behavior. As a parent of a child with special needs myself, I know that even kids with two parents and a stable loving home can still be "rowdy." There are lots of reasons for these behaviors in children-- do you really want to blame the kids themselves? BASIS needs to do what other schools and institutions do -- meet the kids where they are and give them structure, services, and unconditionally kindness until they get it together. 10 year old kids who are "rowdy" are not axe murderers, they are kids with needs that should be met by BASIS.
And Miss Judgmental PP, if your child is smart, organized, kind, hard-working, successful and specifically not "rowdy," well, you are blessed. I hope you know how LUCKY you are. It's not your parenting or your genes; you just won the child temperament lottery. So far, that is; time will tell. And let's see how the sibling does. Good luck.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:BASIS parent here. My DC loves the academics, but had a hard time adjusting to the bad behaviors that were tolerated in some of the "lower" groups (yes, they do track kids). IMO, one of the schools biggest challenges is the different standards of behavior that children come to the school with. Many of the groups had a disproportionate number of rowdy, disrespectful kids. Only kids in the more advanced groups escaped this.
I think BASIS has a plan to mix the kids up more going forward this fall. This only begs the question, though, of whether the rowdy kids will now disrupt ALL the groups (rather than just the lower ones). I wish BASIS would have expelled the kids who were violent, verbally-abusive, and poorly-behaved much earlier in the year. They have a fantastic academic program, and shouldn't let discipline issues get in the way of that.
DC kids should ALL be exposed to the high academic standards this school offers. That said, children who are hostile, disrespectful and get in the way of other kids' learning should be expelled. I think in some cases, parents need to wake up and recognize that their child is not showing respect to the teachers and other BASIS students. Hence, they are demonstrating that they do not belong at the school. I guess the truth is that BASIS should not have to expel these students, because it should not even come to that; their parents should realize they need a different environment.
Yes, let's just expel the kids. Don't make BASIS deal with them and figure out how to work with the kids and their families. Someone else will do it. The 10 year old kids will just get better on their own once they're expelled. Just remember, though, that these kids will be wiping your butt in the nursing home. I hope they treat you as well as you'd like to see them treated.![]()
Anonymous wrote:BASIS parent here. My DC loves the academics, but had a hard time adjusting to the bad behaviors that were tolerated in some of the "lower" groups (yes, they do track kids). IMO, one of the schools biggest challenges is the different standards of behavior that children come to the school with. Many of the groups had a disproportionate number of rowdy, disrespectful kids. Only kids in the more advanced groups escaped this.
I think BASIS has a plan to mix the kids up more going forward this fall. This only begs the question, though, of whether the rowdy kids will now disrupt ALL the groups (rather than just the lower ones). I wish BASIS would have expelled the kids who were violent, verbally-abusive, and poorly-behaved much earlier in the year. They have a fantastic academic program, and shouldn't let discipline issues get in the way of that.
DC kids should ALL be exposed to the high academic standards this school offers. That said, children who are hostile, disrespectful and get in the way of other kids' learning should be expelled. I think in some cases, parents need to wake up and recognize that their child is not showing respect to the teachers and other BASIS students. Hence, they are demonstrating that they do not belong at the school. I guess the truth is that BASIS should not have to expel these students, because it should not even come to that; their parents should realize they need a different environment.
Anonymous wrote:BASIS parent here. My DC loves the academics, but had a hard time adjusting to the bad behaviors that were tolerated in some of the "lower" groups (yes, they do track kids). IMO, one of the schools biggest challenges is the different standards of behavior that children come to the school with. Many of the groups had a disproportionate number of rowdy, disrespectful kids. Only kids in the more advanced groups escaped this.
I think BASIS has a plan to mix the kids up more going forward this fall. This only begs the question, though, of whether the rowdy kids will now disrupt ALL the groups (rather than just the lower ones). I wish BASIS would have expelled the kids who were violent, verbally-abusive, and poorly-behaved much earlier in the year. They have a fantastic academic program, and shouldn't let discipline issues get in the way of that.
DC kids should ALL be exposed to the high academic standards this school offers. That said, children who are hostile, disrespectful and get in the way of other kids' learning should be expelled. I think in some cases, parents need to wake up and recognize that their child is not showing respect to the teachers and other BASIS students. Hence, they are demonstrating that they do not belong at the school. I guess the truth is that BASIS should not have to expel these students, because it should not even come to that; their parents should realize they need a different environment.
I think BASIS has a plan to mix the kids up more going forward this fall. This only begs the question, though, of whether the rowdy kids will now disrupt ALL the groups (rather than just the lower ones). I wish BASIS would have expelled the kids who were violent, verbally-abusive, and poorly-behaved much earlier in the year. They have a fantastic academic program, and shouldn't let discipline issues get in the way of that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Stop with the 40% attrition number.
You can't compare the average of an entire school system to one charter school. Apples and oranges.
A better comparison would be Latin to Basis.
It's not apples and oranges, because the typical DCPS school is losing that many. And no, it's not just dropout rates, they are losing thousands each year to charters because they are not meeting those childrens' needs. Again, the number is over 40%. If you don't like hearing it, then stop talking about attrition.
Anonymous wrote:
Again, only time will tell what the final re-enrollment rate will be at BASIS.
Anonymous wrote:Before anyone gets confused given PP's explanations, which are otherwise interesting and on point: attrition throughout the year is obviously not the same as re-enrollment figures, which are not yet known for Basis.