Anonymous wrote:I feel really bad for people who waste their lives away being so concerned about what others think of them.
Be healthy, be happy, and live your life. It's yours. It doesn't belong to the thoughts of others.
Anonymous wrote: PP, jealousy is a real bitch. Your DH probably isn't attract to you anymore either.![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'9" and weigh 155 after having a handful of kids, and I'm a size 12. I'm fairly toned (mommy muscles), but my tummy is a mess thanks to multiple c-sections (thus, size 12). I look more curvy than fat since I'm so tall. But I am trying to lose the last ten pounds of baby weight. When I do, I will likely be size 10, and that's fine with me.
Fwiw, I was a size 8 ten years ago, and I was very slender and toned (again, I'm tall with curves, so it would be nearly impossible to be much smaller). I was a size 4/6 when I got married, and that was a very skinny unhealthy weight for me given my height and build.
You're a size 12 BECAUSE you've had multiple c-sections?!! I've had four c-sections and I'm a size 2/4. Stomach fat in the middle is from what you eat, not c-sections. You may never have a completely "flat" stomach, but you can be a size 8 after kids. I despise when women blame their weight problems on having kids. Exercise and eat right. There is no magic wand.
Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'9" and weigh 155 after having a handful of kids, and I'm a size 12. I'm fairly toned (mommy muscles), but my tummy is a mess thanks to multiple c-sections (thus, size 12). I look more curvy than fat since I'm so tall. But I am trying to lose the last ten pounds of baby weight. When I do, I will likely be size 10, and that's fine with me.
Fwiw, I was a size 8 ten years ago, and I was very slender and toned (again, I'm tall with curves, so it would be nearly impossible to be much smaller). I was a size 4/6 when I got married, and that was a very skinny unhealthy weight for me given my height and build.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good lord, no. Women who wear a size 0 look ridiculous and are not healthy. Also, you and others need to understand that a person's character is the only important thing about them. You are pathetic for even asking such a stupid, stupid question.
I think we just learned something about your character.
Anonymous wrote:No. I wear size 12 pants. I weigh 123 lbs. I have gained 10 lbs with 2 kids. My body has changed proportions. Pre-kids I wore a size 6. I'm in the process of losing 10 lbs (lost 6 already). I can maybe squeeze into a 10, but it's tight. So, no I do not think I'm fat. I think clothes are cut a little differently than they used to be also. BUT mostly, I think your friend is an ass with issues about her own body.