Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 16:11     Subject: What do you say?
*mid @darn keyboard
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 16:10     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We got married in our mid 20's, moved to another country for career, had kids, built a life, bought a home, all that without any support network.


And some people are in jail at 20 have a baby in jail and build a life around that.

Why do you think your story is something people want to emulate?

I read your story and I think childhood trauma


We aren't talking about 20 year old prisoners. We are talking about mud 20's educated and employed adults with family support.

No trauma. Just logistics as family was on another continent.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:55     Subject: Re:What do you say?
It’s sad how few people have a support system and they think that’s normal and they think it’s the gold standard.

Smfh
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:49     Subject: What do you say?
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Anonymous wrote:Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.


Only on DCUM, and only 27 yo men, not women.


Obviously! Because it’s only the woman’s fault to get pregnant- how dare she


PP. The hypocrisy on this site is crazy. Moms here are raising the man children & incels they complain about. And they say they support women, yeah no.


A son calling his mother to let her know he might be having a child is "raising an incel?" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU????


That’s okay, but if it the GFs mom posted this, the replies here would be very different.


I agree with that. No one would be bashing the daughter for calling her mother.


Nope they’d be blaming her, calling her slurs, and telling her to figure it out, not coddling & excusing. No one here has expressed an ounce of sympathy for the girlfriend.


Stop making shit up. OP's son got a ton of hate (including from you).


I don’t see the issue with a 27yo son or daughter (or whatever age) telling their mother that they might be having a baby soon, but there is a clear pattern of coddling male adult children on this forum.


Sorry you're so bitter about nothing. Bless your heart.


I know that the truth really hurts.
I have an adult 23yo son of my own, I know what I’m talking about it.


So do I and no you don't.

It’s clear. All I did was call out hypocrisy and very blatant double standards. If moms want things to change, than it starts with their sons, otherwise don’t complain about your DH on here or run here for sympathy when your son is having a hard time finding a women to marry.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:49     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:OP here

Tomorrow is Friday

I'll know more tomorrow.

Want me to tell you how it goes?

I can but it would be cool if some of you would stop coming at me like you have all the things to say. Maybe you do 360+ times of the year but sometimes some of us actually post some stuff. Just chill

Nothing in my life will affect yours, I am not that important. Just hold back pls for real

Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:45     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:Who are these idiots that think PP is only for abortion? PP is healthcare for the millions who cannot afford other options. About 2mm go to PP each year.

I know right. I have a 58 year old friend who just used PP for her gynecological exam.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:41     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:We got married in our mid 20's, moved to another country for career, had kids, built a life, bought a home, all that without any support network.


And some people are in jail at 20 have a baby in jail and build a life around that.

Why do you think your story is something people want to emulate?

I read your story and I think childhood trauma
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:40     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:I feel pretty badly for today's young adults. They are treated like they are 12. I got married at 18 (1973), had two kids by 24, stayed married for 25 years, my first got married at 20, had two kids by 22, stayed married for 20 years, everyone is doing fine and actually raised their own kids, supported their families, and led productive lives.

I did not ask my mother for advice at age 18, I did what adults do and made my own decisions. So did my kids. Mid 20s people ought to be well on their way to mid life with everything pretty much under control.



I know this is gonna be really hard for you to understand, but I have no desire to be anything like you.

I bet you have no desire to be anything like me.

But people who think everybody should be like them is the definition of a narcissist. You might want to think about that.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:37     Subject: What do you say?
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Anonymous wrote:Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.


Only on DCUM, and only 27 yo men, not women.


Obviously! Because it’s only the woman’s fault to get pregnant- how dare she


PP. The hypocrisy on this site is crazy. Moms here are raising the man children & incels they complain about. And they say they support women, yeah no.


A son calling his mother to let her know he might be having a child is "raising an incel?" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU????


That’s okay, but if it the GFs mom posted this, the replies here would be very different.


I agree with that. No one would be bashing the daughter for calling her mother.


Nope they’d be blaming her, calling her slurs, and telling her to figure it out, not coddling & excusing. No one here has expressed an ounce of sympathy for the girlfriend.


Stop making shit up. OP's son got a ton of hate (including from you).


I don’t see the issue with a 27yo son or daughter (or whatever age) telling their mother that they might be having a baby soon, but there is a clear pattern of coddling male adult children on this forum.


Sorry you're so bitter about nothing. Bless your heart.


I know that the truth really hurts.
I have an adult 23yo son of my own, I know what I’m talking about it.


So do I and no you don't.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:36     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.


Only on DCUM, and only 27 yo men, not women.


Obviously! Because it’s only the woman’s fault to get pregnant- how dare she


PP. The hypocrisy on this site is crazy. Moms here are raising the man children & incels they complain about. And they say they support women, yeah no.


A son calling his mother to let her know he might be having a child is "raising an incel?" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU????


That’s okay, but if it the GFs mom posted this, the replies here would be very different.


I agree with that. No one would be bashing the daughter for calling her mother.


Nope they’d be blaming her, calling her slurs, and telling her to figure it out, not coddling & excusing. No one here has expressed an ounce of sympathy for the girlfriend.


Stop making shit up. OP's son got a ton of hate (including from you).


I don’t see the issue with a 27yo son or daughter (or whatever age) telling their mother that they might be having a baby soon, but there is a clear pattern of coddling male adult children on this forum.


Sorry you're so bitter about nothing. Bless your heart.


I know that the truth really hurts.
I have an adult 23yo son of my own, I know what I’m talking about it.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:33     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.


Only on DCUM, and only 27 yo men, not women.


Obviously! Because it’s only the woman’s fault to get pregnant- how dare she


PP. The hypocrisy on this site is crazy. Moms here are raising the man children & incels they complain about. And they say they support women, yeah no.


A son calling his mother to let her know he might be having a child is "raising an incel?" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU????


That’s okay, but if it the GFs mom posted this, the replies here would be very different.


I agree with that. No one would be bashing the daughter for calling her mother.


Nope they’d be blaming her, calling her slurs, and telling her to figure it out, not coddling & excusing. No one here has expressed an ounce of sympathy for the girlfriend.


This would certainly happen in TX! They would also be looking to send her to jail if she went across state lines to terminate the pregnancy. The boy would get off totally without judgment - unless he wanted the girl in jail for not preventing her reproductive system from working properly when he wanted unprotected sex


That is entirely irrelevant to this post. Please start a new (political) rant somewhere else.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:31     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.


Only on DCUM, and only 27 yo men, not women.


Obviously! Because it’s only the woman’s fault to get pregnant- how dare she


PP. The hypocrisy on this site is crazy. Moms here are raising the man children & incels they complain about. And they say they support women, yeah no.


A son calling his mother to let her know he might be having a child is "raising an incel?" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU????


That’s okay, but if it the GFs mom posted this, the replies here would be very different.


I agree with that. No one would be bashing the daughter for calling her mother.


Nope they’d be blaming her, calling her slurs, and telling her to figure it out, not coddling & excusing. No one here has expressed an ounce of sympathy for the girlfriend.


Stop making shit up. OP's son got a ton of hate (including from you).


I don’t see the issue with a 27yo son or daughter (or whatever age) telling their mother that they might be having a baby soon, but there is a clear pattern of coddling male adult children on this forum.


Sorry you're so bitter about nothing. Bless your heart.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:30     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: Let it sink in and take couple of days to process, explore options and make a well thought out decision.


OP here

I think that's what I pretty much told him. I just got off the phone with him.

Right now life itself has a hold on you

You won't sleep and she won't sleep and I'm definitely not really sleeping

I just thought I'd share it here so people here who are parents of kids of child-bearing age can perhaps follow what maybe really happens.


Thanks OP. Hugs
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:29     Subject: What do you say?
All the best to you and them.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2026 15:29     Subject: What do you say?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow, now 27+ are treated as teenagers.


Only on DCUM, and only 27 yo men, not women.


Obviously! Because it’s only the woman’s fault to get pregnant- how dare she


PP. The hypocrisy on this site is crazy. Moms here are raising the man children & incels they complain about. And they say they support women, yeah no.


A son calling his mother to let her know he might be having a child is "raising an incel?" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU????


That’s okay, but if it the GFs mom posted this, the replies here would be very different.


I agree with that. No one would be bashing the daughter for calling her mother.


Nope they’d be blaming her, calling her slurs, and telling her to figure it out, not coddling & excusing. No one here has expressed an ounce of sympathy for the girlfriend.


This would certainly happen in TX! They would also be looking to send her to jail if she went across state lines to terminate the pregnancy. The boy would get off totally without judgment - unless he wanted the girl in jail for not preventing her reproductive system from working properly when he wanted unprotected sex