Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 18:44     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Now I LOVE Jennifer but she's messy with her overlapping relationship. I am just going to leave this here. At the very least there was an emotional affair.

https://youtu.be/N7T6TPysSU0?si=ncTHFq4hoTkzlqlP
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 18:25     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:Never marry a gambler.


Or someone who has been divorced multiple times.
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 17:25     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
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Anonymous wrote:Ben doesn't seem like a guy who would go after her money. Nor would she want any. They have no lawyers, probably a quick annulment or a decoupling by a court appointed mediator.


Gamblers always steal from their wife’s pocket book. Ben is not above asking for money. Divorce can bring out the worst in people especially if they’re coaxed by attorneys to go after the money. In my opinion, she obviously stalled this till the cut off date (2 year anniversary) for a reason and out of an abundance of caution advised by her lawyer. She has more money than he does and if she waited longer than 2 years to divorce, she may owe him


She filed without lawyers so clearly there is an understanding between two to not make it about money.


If it isn’t about money, why would she divorce on the 2 year anniversary date (August 20th)? It seems she was meeting a deadline given to her by her lawyer


That is NOT their anniversary date. They were legally married in July of 2022. August 20 was when they had their big ceremony, but they were already married at that point.


I know a lot of people whose weddings were not on the day they were legally married. Almost all of them say their wedding ceremony day is their anniversary.


Same. I am sure they would have celebrated both dates


We are talking about a legal issue, not what date they celebrate. Read the thread
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 14:52     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Brad Pitt was schupping Angie while married to Jennifer Aniston

Ben Affleck was schupping JG while engaged to Jlo

Their people would love for you to believe differently and work super hard to project a clean image for the press. But it is not true, the "they got together in the months following a break up" is as fake as "we ask for privacy at this time, while we still love and respect each other"

Tons and tons of bull crap, all of it.
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 14:32     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:I would bet Ben loves the circus he created with the love triangle and two different Hwood actresses fighting over him. It really helps his ego.

I remember hearing him say J Lo’s fame was insane and everyone in the streets shouts her nickname out like she’s the most famous person in the world. I remember thinking he sounded jealous. He wants to be the star in the relationship. With Lopez, he knows he isn’t


I would say that JLo WANTS to be viewed as the beautiful, sexy, unattainable star in every relationship. That's why she turned her relationship with Ben and their multiple wedding services and extended honeymoon into a media circus. She needs to grow up! She's a 55 year old woman with nearly grown kids!
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 14:16     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week


JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.


Yes, she most certainly was.


You don't have 3 kids and stay married for 13 years plus maintain a very close relationship afterwards with your rebound.


Sure you can. I’m not sure why you’re hung up on the rebound word.

Ben much like J Lo is a serial relationship hopper. There wasn’t even a 3 month difference between his breakup with Jennifer Lopez and relationship with Jennifer Garner. He broke up with J Lo after Labor Day and was with Garner by Christmas


I am hung on the rebound word because it implies that Ben was not really attracted to JG; that he just jumped into that relationship to heal the great pain he felt after breaking up with JLo.

In reality he dumped JLo because he was tired of her, just like he did it again 20 years later. He was relieved, not sad.

JLo wants to believe, and wants the world to believe, that JG was Ben's rebound, that she is less than her, and less important or desirable in Ben's mind. This was very likely a part of the motivation for her "The greatest love story..." disaster. But it is not true. Ben was, in fact, attracted to JG even before he broke up with JLo. Yes, they are pretty different, but he doest' really have a type.
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:54     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week


JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.


This. JG was never a rebound. She was his OW and then his main squeeze. If anything Lopez was a rebound after Anna de Amas dumped his ass.


Ben got with Jen Garner shortly after breaking up with JLo. Of course she was a rebound!


You believe the PR that tries to hide all forms of adultery. They got together BEFORE he dumped her.


+1

Just like how Ryan and Blake clearly got together while filming Green Lantern.
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:42     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week


JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.


Yes, she most certainly was.


You don't have 3 kids and stay married for 13 years plus maintain a very close relationship afterwards with your rebound.


Sure you can. I’m not sure why you’re hung up on the rebound word.

Ben much like J Lo is a serial relationship hopper. There wasn’t even a 3 month difference between his breakup with Jennifer Lopez and relationship with Jennifer Garner. He broke up with J Lo after Labor Day and was with Garner by Christmas


that's what they want you to think. garner is certainly not going to parade around that ben cheated with her, and jlo wants to believe that jg is an average woman who just happened to be there.

it's very unlikely that ben only thought of garner once his relationship with jlo was officially over. before relationships are officially over there months and months where they are in fact over, at least on one side. he surely wasn't celibate during this time.
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:42     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
I would bet Ben loves the circus he created with the love triangle and two different Hwood actresses fighting over him. It really helps his ego.

I remember hearing him say J Lo’s fame was insane and everyone in the streets shouts her nickname out like she’s the most famous person in the world. I remember thinking he sounded jealous. He wants to be the star in the relationship. With Lopez, he knows he isn’t
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:40     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


They are trying to act like a normal family while sending daughter to college like parents should. Also a good public impression. Why wouldn't Garner help her children's dad earn
more for children's inheritance?


Because healthy adults are self-governing. Can you imagine saying a divorced man who is remareied should feel obligated to prioritize his ex for the sake of the adolescent and adult children.


He is prioritizing his kids. Why can't both parents be in the same place with their kids of any age for a milestone event without it being a problem with their new partners? You are the second wife who refuses to coparent with the first wife due to insecurity issues.
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:39     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week


JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.


Yes, she most certainly was.


You don't have 3 kids and stay married for 13 years plus maintain a very close relationship afterwards with your rebound.


Sure you can. I’m not sure why you’re hung up on the rebound word.

Ben much like J Lo is a serial relationship hopper. There wasn’t even a 3 month difference between his breakup with Jennifer Lopez and relationship with Jennifer Garner. He broke up with J Lo after Labor Day and was with Garner by Christmas


That's not "relationship hopper", that's someone who likes to be in a couple, doesn't want to be alone.


That’s the Same thing.

Ben and J Lo were still communicating throughout that time he was flirting with his costar Garner so there is a gray area here as to whether Garner was the other woman (unlikely) or if J Lo takes issue with her (seemingly unlikely).

J Lo married Marc Anthony in spring of 2004 going from being wed to Cris Judd in early 2002, engaged to Ben Affleck by Christmas 2002, dumped after labor day 2003, reunites some time in the fall to work through the issues and possibly commit to a smaller wedding, and then by Christmas, he’s already interested in his costar Garner, garner leaves Michael Vartan, her ex co star in early 2004, J Lo stars with Michael Vartan as her fiancée and costar in the movie Monster in Law which was filmed in late 2004.

It seems there is a history here
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:38     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week


JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.


This. JG was never a rebound. She was his OW and then his main squeeze. If anything Lopez was a rebound after Anna de Amas dumped his ass.


Ben got with Jen Garner shortly after breaking up with JLo. Of course she was a rebound!


You believe the PR that tries to hide all forms of adultery. They got together BEFORE he dumped her.


yup
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:34     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week


JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.


This. JG was never a rebound. She was his OW and then his main squeeze. If anything Lopez was a rebound after Anna de Amas dumped his ass.


Ben got with Jen Garner shortly after breaking up with JLo. Of course she was a rebound!


You believe the PR that tries to hide all forms of adultery. They got together BEFORE he dumped her.


This is why J Lo using Violet in pap strolls made me uncomfortable. We all know J Lo probably doesn’t like Garner and thinks she “stole” Ben from her.

I think part of the album and movie charade she was on was to stick it to Garner that Ben saved his love letters to her and always loved her. Now, she has egg on her face as Ben and Garmer are spot canoodling around town sans the kids. Once again, Garner is a rebound.

Gwneyth Paltrow was smart for calling Ben perpetually unhappy in any relationship after 2 years. That seems to track with history and it’s probably why Garner implied she kept getting pregnant all the time. As soon as Sam was born, Ben was checked out after no more kids arrived
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:34     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week


JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.


Yes, she most certainly was.


You don't have 3 kids and stay married for 13 years plus maintain a very close relationship afterwards with your rebound.


Sure you can. I’m not sure why you’re hung up on the rebound word.

Ben much like J Lo is a serial relationship hopper. There wasn’t even a 3 month difference between his breakup with Jennifer Lopez and relationship with Jennifer Garner. He broke up with J Lo after Labor Day and was with Garner by Christmas


That's not "relationship hopper", that's someone who likes to be in a couple, doesn't want to be alone.
Anonymous
Post 08/21/2024 13:30     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.


What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?


He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.


Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.


Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week


JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.


Yes, she most certainly was.


You don't have 3 kids and stay married for 13 years plus maintain a very close relationship afterwards with your rebound.


Sure you can. I’m not sure why you’re hung up on the rebound word.

Ben much like J Lo is a serial relationship hopper. There wasn’t even a 3 month difference between his breakup with Jennifer Lopez and relationship with Jennifer Garner. He broke up with J Lo after Labor Day and was with Garner by Christmas